murpho999 wrote: » Awful tragedy, but did this really happen to you? Never had anything in the news give me bad dreams.
IvyTheTerrible wrote: » Just because it doesn't happen to you doesn't mean other people can't experience it. Actually, common advice to avoid nightmares is to not watch the news just before going to bed.
Joeytheparrot wrote: » Yeah so what like just cause you didn't doesn't mean others don't
NIMAN wrote: » Apparently it was a Derry family. The mother of the baby that survived is meant to be in England on a weekend away. She lost her partner, her mother, her sister and her 2 other children. May she find the strength to continue for her baby.
Dolbert wrote: » I've become a lot more sensitive to this stuff since having a child of my own
Dolbert wrote: » I really have no reason to lie about that. I've become a lot more sensitive to this stuff since having a child of my own, I don't know why but there are certain things I just can't read/watch anymore.
suicide_circus wrote: » From RTE: An eye witness has described how he shouted to the driver of the car when it was caught on the slipway of the pier. Francis Crawford said the driver asked him to call the coast guard, which he did, but that within ten minutes the car had disappeared. Having shouted to your man for help, ten mins sounds like a awfully long time
Tuesday13 wrote: » Have found the same also since having kids. Heard Prince William talk about this recently also. I guess with these tragedies you envisage yourself/your kids in the same scenario.
Wibbs wrote: » Terrible terrible tragedy. The panic involved. Jesus. That someone had the strength to pass the child out, but you'd wonder why others wouldn't have tried to get out of the car? Panic I suppose and if the engine had stopped the electric windows wouldn't work and no way are you opening a car door underwater anytime soon. Plus they may have felt "safer" staying with the car. I can't even begin to imagine what was going through their heads RIP
jmayo wrote: » I am very sorry for the families involved and especially sorry for poor mother who has lost so many of her family. To lose partner, mother and sister is bad enough, but to lose two children as well. I know this may not be a popular opinion at this time, but I have to ask why would you drive onto the slipway with a car full of people and children? Surely the only reason for people to drive on that slipway would be to load/unload a boat? I always ask the same question when I hear of people washed off piers and rocks in stormy conditions.
Wibbs wrote: » I've heard that from other parents too D. It's very common and completely natural with it.
tikkahunter wrote: » Plenty do it for better views, the council should have had warning signs up as it was common knowledge among local people about the algae build up.
MadJack2016 wrote: » This tragedy was survivable if the occupants had known what do in such a situation. I watched Bear Grylls Worse Case Scenario and an old TV sketch where comedian Dave Allen and guest were dropped into a water tank inside a car. There are two schools of thought it would seem. In the first case roll the windows down or break the glass and allow the car to fill up and then get out through the windows or in the second case sit calmly in the car and let it fill up and then open the car doors when you are underwater after taking a gulp of air. Counter intuitively you should NOT unbuckle your seat belt because you will float to the top as the car is filling up. If you wait until the car is full submerged and then unbuckle your belt you will more easily get out. Once you are out you can get to the surface by kicking. When kids are in the car the bigger kids go first ahead of the smaller kids.
SEPT 23 1989 wrote: » don't think a shocked untrained brain could do any of these things hitting cold atlantic water in the dark