AtomicHorror wrote: » Here's a better analogy. A man and a woman need to get to point X. It is an urgent journey and not a trivial one. It's too far to walk or cycle, but they have a car. The car has two seats, but the driver-side seatbelt is damaged and will not work well in the event of a crash. The man cannot drive, but the woman can. There are no laws in the local jurisdiction about use of seatbelts, so the choice to use it or not is up to the individual. The road conditions and traffic are mostly known, and the relationship between the man and woman is amiable. After thoroughly discussing the risks, they agree they will use the car to get to point X. After about 10 minutes however, the woman becomes very nervous. She is driving responsibly, the roads continue to be no more or less busy than expected, and the man continues to be amiable. However, the reality of the risk she now faces becomes clearer to her, now that she can see roadside obstacles passing at speed, and g-forces of the car as it accelerates. She is now very worried about the risk of harm coming to her, even though the conditions generally have not changed from when she made her decision to drive. Only her perspective has changed. In one version of your world, she now has no choice. She must drive on, and accept the consequences, regardless of what they may be. In another version of your world, she can only stop the car with the consent of her partner. In my world, she is the one at greater risk, she is in the drivers seat, her perspective is different to what it was previously, and she can stop whenever the hell she likes.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » I would be very confident that nobody I know has had one or even considered one. Some poster was telling me about stats a while back and how my friends couldn't possibly all be having church wedding because the stats said x or y yet I've been to about 15 wedding in the last 2 years and out of that only one was not a catholic church wedding and the wedding itself was someone I actually didn't really know it was a friend of a friend. In 31 years I'm alive that's the only civil ceremony where I've even sort of known the people involved never mind attended and most of the weddings I've been to are in the last few years not way back. There are thousands of couples in the country trying to adopt there would be no need for me to volunteer, along with the fact it would be much better for the child to distanced from the birth mother if they were giving the child up for adption.
Electric Sheep wrote: » So you wouldn't offer, even if it was the only way to persuade someone close to you not to abort?
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » You do realise that there are just as many women as men opposed to getting rid of the 8th amendment and to abortion in general. Of course this doesn't suit the pro abortion agenda as can be seen from this thread where most of the arguments are focused on the fact people arguing here are men, they would be left with a lot less to say if was a woman arguing the points because a lot of the points they are using can only be used towards a man.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » I would be very confident that nobody I know has had one or even considered one.
bodice ripper wrote: » And if you think all the pro choice women refusing to put out (because in doing so we are apparently consenting to potentially dying...) wouldn't be noticed, you are wrong.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » Off with them, should be an entertaining protest if nothing else.
Martypants1 wrote: » You don't understand risk it seems. I'll make it simple for you. Climbing a ladder, there's a risk right? Imagine this is the standard risk of childbirth. You can fall off and die right? Now, imagine you've climbed the ladder and your 2 arms fall off. The risk is greater yeah? In my opinion (which was really simple to begin with) is, if you climb the ladder in the first instance and a man doesn't want an abortion and the woman does then tough ****, the circumstances that you knew before climbing the ladder have stayed the same. You seem to think I am contradicting myself by making them out to be the same thing.
Martypants1 wrote: » Getting pregnant isn't an urgent thing? Women have plenty of time to make themselves aware of the risks that every woman takes in childbirth. The standard risk during childbirth doesn't change, that's why it's standard.
Martypants1 wrote: » Risk doesn't change in your scenario but you are kind of implying it does.
Martypants1 wrote: » What if the womans perspective changed 1 day before child birth. Is it ok to abort then because I find it disturbing.
Selene Dry Apartment wrote: » You do realise that there are just as many women as men opposed to getting rid of the 8th amendment and to abortion in general.
volchitsa wrote: » Your two arms fall off??? WTF? And you say I don't understand risk? Are you for real? :rolleyes: Try finding an even slightly plausible analogy. The car journey one looks comparable, but if you don't like it, why don't you suggest an alternative - but preferably one that doesn't require an alternative universe in which people are actually Lego figures!
volchitsa wrote: » Someone who's anti-abortion isn't going to have an abortion though, are they?
volchitsa wrote: » So the answer matters when someone who is anti-abortion thinks his opinion is worth enforcing on people who don't think it's a child at that point. That's why they need to be able to justify their beliefs.
volchitsa wrote: » Your answer seems to be because that's what they believe. That's not really good enough any more.
AtomicHorror wrote: » Do you really not see what we're doing? You think we're trying to convince you?
AtomicHorror wrote: » The hardline will never move- it'll die naturally with its membership over time. That's okay.
AtomicHorror wrote: » We're only interested in your arguments.
AtomicHorror wrote: » We want to dismantle them so that nobody else accepts them.
AtomicHorror wrote: » And it's not difficult, by the way. It just requires persistence because you keep repeating the same nonsense in different ways.
seamus wrote: » This is exactly the reason why society, the law (and especially the constitution!) needs to stay the f*ck out of women's reproductive choices.Absolute ignorance and naivety like this. This isn't a personal jab at you colossus-x, I imagine this level of cluelessness is pretty standard across the population and yet for some reason lots of them think the state (and by extension, they) should have a say.
jeamimus wrote: » You cannot put use logic against religious or irrational beliefs. This is why such discussions are always futile.
AtomicHorror wrote: » We do not write laws based on your disgust. But thank you for clarifying the basis. It is invalid.
volchitsa wrote: » This is simply not true, the "standard risk" you keep talking about is really an average risk, and individual women run widely varying risks, which can't always be measured in advance, sometimes even from one pregnancy to the next. Where the placenta implants, for instance, changes the risk of haemorrhage, and yet it's not an illness, it's just one of those things that nobody can predict. The poster said exactly the opposite : nothing has changed except the woman's realization that the risk was greater than she was willing to take. I'm not sure how far this analogy deserves to be pushed, but it's a heck of lot less silly than one where someone's two arms suddenly fall off just when they're up a stepladder! That's usually called giving birth at that point. How would an "abortion" one day before birth change anything for a woman who suddenly found the risks too frightening? She's giving birth no matter what at that point, you're not even making sense here.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Ahh now, you must surely know, have known women who were anti-abortion until they found themselves actually in that position where they were faced with an unwanted pregnancy and changed their minds on the issue? I'd be a special sort if I were to have reminded them of their previous declarations to the contrary.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Nobody actually has to justify their beliefs (although it certainly makes it easier to understand where they're coming from if they do), but when it comes to living in a democratic society where everyone is entitled to enforce their opinion at least on whoever they want through democratic procedures such as a referendum to change the Constitution, well, we're kinda stuck with having to acknowledge that even the most ill-informed, or the most well informed, get to vote. They don't even have to justify themselves and their decisions, to anyone, but like I said - it makes it easier to understand where they're coming from if they choose to do so.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Unfortunately, it really is. The only difference between the two perspectives is literally that both parties are basing their opinion on what they believe, based upon evidence that satisfies their criteria to support or vote against a proposal in a referendum. If people wrap up what they believe in a humanitarian point of view, and argue from the perspective of human rights, well then it becomes very difficult to argue against.
AtomicHorror wrote: » Do you think there's a realistic danger of surgery becoming just another form of contraception, anywhere, ever?
Christian Fundamentalist Terrorists could never happen anywhere, ever
osarusan wrote: » I don't think that really addresses what Atomic Horror said. In a country where access to condoms, pills, and other methods of contraception is restricted or they are unavailable, women will resort to abortion if it is available. But in such cases, abortion is not 'just another form of contraception'. 'Just another' means one of several/many, and that was clearly not the case in Russia, as the article explains. To address the point, you would have to find a society in which condoms, pills, IUD, and the other methods of contraception are freely available, but where a significant number of women eschew these methods, and use abortion instead. That would demonstrate that abortion was widely chosen as just another form of contraception, rather than being the only option.
AtomicHorror wrote: » Also, RDM, was this really necessary? ---- If you show me an example of the type osarusan describes, then I'll take this on the chin.
Martypants1 wrote: » AtomicHorror wrote: » Here's a better analogy. A man and a woman need to get to point X. It is an urgent journey and not a trivial one. It's too far to walk or cycle, but they have a car. The car has two seats, but the driver-side seatbelt is damaged and will not work well in the event of a crash. The man cannot drive, but the woman can. There are no laws in the local jurisdiction about use of seatbelts, so the choice to use it or not is up to the individual. The road conditions and traffic are mostly known, and the relationship between the man and woman is amiable. After thoroughly discussing the risks, they agree they will use the car to get to point X. After about 10 minutes however, the woman becomes very nervous. She is driving responsibly, the roads continue to be no more or less busy than expected, and the man continues to be amiable. However, the reality of the risk she now faces becomes clearer to her, now that she can see roadside obstacles passing at speed, and g-forces of the car as it accelerates. She is now very worried about the risk of harm coming to her, even though the conditions generally have not changed from when she made her decision to drive. Only her perspective has changed. In one version of your world, she now has no choice. She must drive on, and accept the consequences, regardless of what they may be. In another version of your world, she can only stop the car with the consent of her partner. In my world, she is the one at greater risk, she is in the drivers seat, her perspective is different to what it was previously, and she can stop whenever the hell she likes. Getting pregnant isn't an urgent thing? Women have plenty of time to make themselves aware of the risks that every woman takes in childbirth.
Martypants1 wrote: » The standard risk during childbirth doesn't change, that's why it's standard. Risk doesn't change in your scenario but you are kind of implying it does.
RDM_83 again wrote: » I don't expect any thanks for this but everything I have wrote has been completely correct unfortunately its only cool to puncture hyperbole if its those pests on the other side.
RDM_83 again wrote: » The reason Eastern Europe is something thats worth looking at is because even though they now have access to contraception they still have very high rates of abortion. But anyway if I post that you will say something like, "that doesn't really count as they are a hangover from the Soviet Era"
RDM_83 again wrote: » Greenland- in Greenland, this place that is Socially democratic, and has a good public healthcare system the abortion rate hovers around 50% of pregnancies, now tell me thats not an example of abortion being used as a contraceptive
However, several cultural concerns may be considered: lack of consistent contraception use, short- and long-term consequences of abortion procedure, the husband’s wish not to have a child, and a gap between what the women know about contraception and what the health communities believe they can teach them (12,13). In addition, Greenlandic families have a strong influence on whether or not a woman has an abortion (14,15).
The total abortion rate in Greenland differs markedly from other Nordic countries. In 2012, the total abortion rate in Greenland was 2,000 abortions per 1,000 women (aged 15–49 years). In comparison, the total abortion rate in other Nordic countries (Faroe Island, Norway, Denmark, etc.) was less than 700 abortions per 1,000 women (aged 15–49 years) in the same period,
RDM_83 again wrote: » Well it I knew it wouldn't be popular on this thread Let look at the post I replied to: what does it say Now maybe I am just not as smart as the people on this thread (which has done the usual circle-jerk thing these threads do). But when I read anywhere, ever, I don't think well clearly the poster actually just means Ireland, and Ireland that retains the same politics as it has now.
RDM_83 again wrote: » So you know what I will look to another example Greenland- in Greenland, this place that is Socially democratic, and has a good public healthcare system the abortion rate hovers around 50% of pregnancies, now tell me thats not an example of abortion being used as a contraceptive :cool:
Martypants1 wrote: » You're putting words in my mouth now. Am I? Then let me use your words: Martypants1 wrote: » I'm all for abortion in cases like rape, fatal foetul, womans health is at risk. And I am all for abortion if a woman and a man have a baby and decide they want to abort. Martypants1 wrote: » When a woman has sex, she accepts standard childbirth risks. She shouldn't claim her health is at risk in this instance as there is risks for every birth. You agree with abortion where both parties want it. This is in addition to abortion in circumstances where there is a (presumably doctor-defined) risk to the woman's health (and rape and fetal abnormality). So given that where there is a doctor-defined health risk, a rape or abnormality, a woman may terminate without the man's consent, in what circumstances are the man and woman allowed to mutually agree to an abortion? You've ruled out the woman reversing her decision based on the normal health risks of childbirth, so what conditions allow mutually agreed abortion?
Martypants1 wrote: » You're putting words in my mouth now.
Martypants1 wrote: » I'm all for abortion in cases like rape, fatal foetul, womans health is at risk. And I am all for abortion if a woman and a man have a baby and decide they want to abort.
Martypants1 wrote: » When a woman has sex, she accepts standard childbirth risks. She shouldn't claim her health is at risk in this instance as there is risks for every birth.
bodice ripper wrote: » IIRC Greenland has a problem with incest.
AtomicHorror wrote: » Seems like there are contraception access and sex ed issues there too, but must dig a bit more.http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15736665
volchitsa wrote: » Anyone ever read "Miss Smylla's feeling for snow"? Great book, and I learned all I know about Greenland from it as well! (Seriously though, what I do know is that it's practically all Inuit/Native American population, with all the social problems a Native American reservation has, and freezing weather with 24 hour nights in winter as well. Not a society that's going to be your typical European country, even with Scandinavian-style health care (and if the author of the Miss Smylla book is to be believed, the Greenlanders get a much rougher deal than the average Danish citizen in lots of ways. A bit like picking stats from an Aboriginal settlement in Australia and using them to decide whether or not to emigrate to Aus.)
Ronald Wilson Reagan wrote: » “I've noticed that everyone who is for abortion has already been born.”
bodice ripper wrote: » "Why is it that most of the people who are against abortion are people you wouldn’t want to **** in the first place?" You know, if we are throwing amusing but meaningless quotes around...
RDM_83 again wrote: » Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia has an episode that nicely plays the idea of portraying your views on abortion in order to get laid (and I would well believe its true to a lesser extent in real life)
RDM_83 again wrote: » Look you might not like it* but abortion can still be used by some as a form of contraception, you could even hypothesis that this is partially the case in some Western European countries, look at Sweden (and too a lesser extent the UK), both of these are countries with easy access to contraceptives (heavily subsidized or free) but the abortion rates close to the Eastern European averages, compare this too the rates in Germany, Belgium or Finland, these countries aren't that different and definitely aren't sexually repressed or backwards compared to the former but the rates are approximately half.
Now I know the fact that abortion can be used by some as a "contraceptive" method isn't a good argument to keep the status quo in relation to Ireland (figure runs at 20% for repeat abortions for Irish traveling to the UK) to me though its a good argument to introduce the German system with "choice " but mandatory counseling and a (very short) waiting period.
*Actually if your strongly pro-choice does it matter if a woman is using abortion as a contraceptive, if abortion is just a procedure and its completely an individuals choice which shouldn't be restrained by wider society isn't it ethically neutral?