PhoenixParker wrote: » Fewer than 1% of abortions are carried out in the third trimester and the vast majority of those cases are the termination of a desired pregnancy due to life limiting conditions and health concerns with respect to the mother.
rainbow kirby wrote: » The overwhelming majority of people who have abortions after 20 weeks in the UK are for medical reasons - severe, life-limiting and fatal abnormalities. It's incredibly rare that people make the decision to abort at that stage for other reasons.
RDM_83 again wrote: » This gets trotted out a lot but its actually not true, I went back on my old posts to find the link but unfortunately its now completely broken. The study was this onehttps://www.bpas.org/js/filemanager/files/bpas_press_briefing_late_abortion.pdf Which is now inaccessible, looking at the main BPAS page herehttps://www.bpas.org/get-involved/advocacy/briefings/premature-babies/ and this paper herehttp://www.prochoiceforum.org.uk/pdf/PCF_late_abortion08.pdf has a small reference to it. The universities page has a press release about the study.http://www.southampton.ac.uk/news/2007/04/study-reveal-reasons-for-late-abortion.page None of these imply that fetal health is the most common reason for very late term abortion (which as the first two links by very pro-choice institutions you would expect them to as it makes for a more palatable argument).
rainbow kirby wrote: » I'm comfortable with the UK limit of 24 weeks tbh - the overwhelming majority of procedures (90+%) are in the first trimester anyway with a high proportion of those being before 10 weeks, and many conditions which often result in a TFMR are only diagnosed at 18-22 weeks at the anatomy scan and after some further testing following that.
thattequilagirl wrote: » If they are hooked up to a ventilator then no. If their survival depends on the sacrifice of another human being, that person gets to decide.
Arkady wrote: » So parents can kill kids ? We all have a choice if we want to take another human life or not.
Baggy Trousers wrote: » I am male too and I actually think only women should vote in an abortion referendum. Not going to happen but I think it would be correct.
thattequilagirl wrote: » Whaaaaa?
thattequilagirl wrote: » I addressed this earlier. There is no equality in this matter. There cannot be. It's the woman's right to choose because she takes the health burden of pregnancy. If a baby is born however and assuming it's not adopted, the father is the father whether he likes it or not.
Dirty Dingus McGee wrote: » Grand.But if the woman is entitled to get rid of the child she doesn't want because of the burden it causes her then a father should be entitled to not want to have anything to do with a child he doesn't want and shouldn't have to pay for it.
January wrote: » Some people just like to be hysterical.
eviltwin wrote: » A question for those who are against the introduction of abortion. If you see the act as the killing of a child/baby, do you think that it should be treated as the killing of any living child/baby and that the women should be imprisoned or face legal sanctions? And if not, why not? I ask because not even the most militant anti abortion campaigner I know would want to see women jailed so there is a disconnect there, already there is a distinction between born children vs unborn children. It doesn't make sense to me.
thattequilagirl wrote: » Nope. Once a baby is born, it has two parents. Unless it is adopted, both parents are obligated to take care of it. Like I said, there is no equality in this scenario.
Dirty Dingus McGee wrote: » That's a massively hypocritical stance to take. Why should a father have to pay for a child he doesn't want but the mother can decide to have it terminated to avoid the hassle of caring for it.
Amirani wrote: » Yep, a very relevant point that many don't consider. Slightly crude, but: Would any pro-lifers consider a pregnant woman throwing herself down a flight of stairs to cause miscarriage as equivalent to a mother throwing her 6 month old baby down a flight of stairs? Should both receive life sentences for murder? I can't imagine we'd have many who view both in the same manner, and as you rightly point out creates a fairly obvious disconnect. You can't accept this disconnect and make the claim that an unborn fetus has the same rights as a child. Ergo, it's ridiculous to try claim equal rights between a fetus and the woman carrying it.
thattequilagirl wrote: » It's not hypocritical- I've said straight out its unequal. That's why this entire debate is framed as a woman's right to choose. Genetically and legally the man has fathered a child. Do you really think he should be able to say "I'm not giving her a penny. I wanted her to have an abortion so it's not my problem."
Little CuChulainn wrote: » It's not a disconnect. There's a difference between the two. As has been mentioned numerous times, pregnancy changes the mothers body in a great many ways. The influx of hormones and the stress can make someone act outside of their normal. Aren't many cases of infanticide committed by mothers linked to postpartum depression? They aren't treated the same as simple killers. Why do you not think the same differentiation can be applied to pregnant women?
Dirty Dingus McGee wrote: » Yes. If the woman has the right to do so the father should also have the right. Why should a fathers life be disrupted by a child he doesn't want.
Dirty Dingus McGee wrote: » The law should be changed is what I'm saying just like people are arguing that the law around abortion should be changed. I'm well aware the obligations a father has I'm simply saying if the abortion law changes so should this law.
thattequilagirl wrote: » Because once a child is born, both parents have legal and moral obligations to take care of it.
CaraMay wrote: » I agree with that. If abortion on command comes in the the father should have the right to walk away totally from the child his the mother refuses to abort
thattequilagirl wrote: » So it's true what they say about pro-lifers only caring about the baby until birth.
Dirty Dingus McGee wrote: » I'm dealing in a hypothetical scenario where the abortion law is changed and women can choose to have an abortion. If women are allowed to have an abortion to avoid having to care for a child (and the father can have zero input into this and not stop it happening) then why should the mother have a right to force a father to pay for a child he doesn't want.
CaraMay wrote: » You say a woman shouldn't be forced to have a baby so why should a man? Double standards?
Penny Tration wrote: » A man will never be forced to have a baby - biology!All they can force a man to do is pay for the upkeep of said said child. Nothing more.
Dirty Dingus McGee wrote: » Which is hypocritical if a woman can take an option to not have to care for a child it doesn't want but a man doesn't have a similar option available to him.
thattequilagirl wrote: » I already answered your question. Because once a baby is born it legally and genetically has two parents, who are equally obliged to take care of it. The reason the woman gets to choose when abortion is an option is because it is her health at stake. What you're saying would result in women being forced to have abortions because the father wants one and she can't afford it with zero support from him. Are you in favour of a man being able to overrule a woman's decision on her health over nine months which can have dramatic side effects up to and including death? Because that's where your suggestion would end up.
Medical termination of pregnancy. (1)Subject to the provisions of this section, a person shall not be guilty of an offence under the law relating to abortion when a pregnancy is terminated by a registered medical practitioner if two registered medical practitioners are of the opinion, formed in good faith— [F1(a)that the pregnancy has not exceeded its twenty-fourth week and that the continuance of the pregnancy would involve risk, greater than if the pregnancy were terminated, of injury to the physical or mental health of the pregnant woman or any existing children of her family; or (b)that the termination is necessary to prevent grave permanent injury to the physical or mental health of the pregnant woman; or (c)that the continuance of the pregnancy would involve risk to the life of the pregnant woman, greater than if the pregnancy were terminated; or (d)that there is a substantial risk that if the child were born it would suffer from such physical or mental abnormalities as to be seriously handicapped.] (2)In determining whether the continuance of a pregnancy would involve such risk of injury to health as is mentioned in paragraph (a) [F2or (b)] of subsection (1) of this section, account may be taken of the pregnant woman’s actual or reasonably foreseeable environment.
Penny Tration wrote: » I'm just pointing out that the man doesn't have to be a father, just an ATM.