Singles thread.

I'm definitely going to make the most of it, such as getting out for walks during my lunch break in work, and just making the most of the weekends in general and exercising more. I would love to take up walking.

I'm ok today

Going taking an extended break from all the dating/internet in general
Had a falling out with my friends....and was pointed out to me by a few boardies(by PM) and by a wan I used date...met her in town there last night when I went into do some shopping....that are they really worth bothering with....when all they do is let you down/make you feel crap

Also I just generally want to improve myself abit as was just generally feeling crap etc the last few days (own fault eating waaay too much junk.was my birthday lately).....just feel it's time to kinda isolate myself abit and just be happy by myself for abit (as I've been too much in contact with people lately).....also want to get back into attending big matches/massively up the gym (hard with work/other hobbies) etc again (tipp v Lim next weekend

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So Emm ya....it's time to be a bit of a loner again....are ye all dating

tomwaterford wrote: »

I'm ok today

Going taking an extended break from all the dating/internet in general
Had a falling out with my friends....and was pointed out to me by a few boardies(by PM) and by a wan I used date...met her in town there last night when I went into do some shopping....that are they really worth bothering with....when all they do is let you down/make you feel crap

Also I just generally want to improve myself abit as was just generally feeling crap etc the last few days (own fault eating waaay too much junk.was my birthday lately).....just feel it's time to kinda isolate myself abit and just be happy by myself for abit (as I've been too much in contact with people lately).....also want to get back into attending big matches/massively up the gym (hard with work/other hobbies) etc again (tipp v Lim next weekend )

So Emm ya....it's time to be a bit of a loner again....are ye all dating

I wouldn't consider anyone that made me feel like that to be a friend. Better off finding newer better friends

toastedpickles

pew wrote: »

I wouldn't consider anyone that made me feel like that to be a friend. Better off finding newer better friends

yeah bollocks to that

Roquentin

tomwaterford wrote: »

I'm ok today

Going taking an extended break from all the dating/internet in general
Had a falling out with my friends....and was pointed out to me by a few boardies(by PM) and by a wan I used date...met her in town there last night when I went into do some shopping....that are they really worth bothering with....when all they do is let you down/make you feel crap

Also I just generally want to improve myself abit as was just generally feeling crap etc the last few days (own fault eating waaay too much junk.was my birthday lately).....just feel it's time to kinda isolate myself abit and just be happy by myself for abit (as I've been too much in contact with people lately).....also want to get back into attending big matches/massively up the gym (hard with work/other hobbies) etc again (tipp v Lim next weekend )

So Emm ya....it's time to be a bit of a loner again....are ye all dating

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pew wrote: »

I wouldn't consider anyone that made me feel like that to be a friend. Better off finding newer better friends

Exactly....took me an embarrassingly long time to come around

Though when you work 60-70 hours most weeks and do nixers/farm work aswell...as trying to fit in a bit of exercise....it's fair hard to find time to make new friends.....but sure I'm hoping that being a bit of a loner/little to no friends Will be better than being constantly let down/treated sh1te???

Besides I used be well able to happy alone when I was younger

heyday30

Ah that's ****e Tom. Better off without them in your life if that's the case.
My "friends" turned out to be no more than drinking buddies and two faced ones at that.

From what I know of you your a sound bloke.

tomwaterford wrote: »

I'm ok today

Going taking an extended break from all the dating/internet in general
Had a falling out with my friends....and was pointed out to me by a few boardies(by PM) and by a wan I used date...met her in town there last night when I went into do some shopping....that are they really worth bothering with....when all they do is let you down/make you feel crap

Also I just generally want to improve myself abit as was just generally feeling crap etc the last few days (own fault eating waaay too much junk.was my birthday lately).....just feel it's time to kinda isolate myself abit and just be happy by myself for abit (as I've been too much in contact with people lately).....also want to get back into attending big matches/massively up the gym (hard with work/other hobbies) etc again (tipp v Lim next weekend )

So Emm ya....it's time to be a bit of a loner again....are ye all dating

Ah, feck them. I think many people have had friends like that at some point in their lives. Really, those that make others feel low, especially friends or family members, should simply be tossed to one side. Obviously they have their own issues and feel they need to make others miserable.

You shouldn't feel like you're a loner. I mean, there are plenty of people out there for you to meet, and I'm sure there are others that you are in contact with, who you could probably organised something with. We're all here anyway for the banter and to offer any advice, if need be. Most importantly, we're here to listen (or read in this case), and I guess to just be there for one another.

And to answer your last question, it's a no from me. Oh don't worry. I would be sharing the joyous news, if there was mutual interest, and I finally got to date her. I'm 29 in a few days, and I really don't want to be still single by the time I'm 30, so I need to get my arse in gear!

heyday30 wrote: »

Ah that's ****e Tom. Better off without them in your life if that's the case.
My "friends" turned out to be no more than drinking buddies and two faced ones at that.

From what I know of you your a sound bloke.

I feel like that alright heyday....kinda pissed off with all now (they just seem to rather getting off there heads)....this isn't temper saying this from me...this has been ongoing and finally blew up around two weeks ago and i feel it may be Time to cut them out for a few months at least

Your wicked sound btw

Trebor....you seem so much nicer/chilled even since you started posting here...you should have no bother finding someone

tomwaterford wrote: »

I feel like that alright heyday....kinda pissed off with all now (they just seem to rather getting off there heads)....this isn't temper saying this from me...this has been ongoing and finally blew up around two weeks ago and i feel it may be Time to cut them out for a few months at least

Your wicked sound btw

Trebor....you seem so much nicer/chilled even since you started posting here...you should have no bother finding someone

Thanks Tom, I appreciate that. You seem to be a sound chap as well

I'd like to think I could find someone, but I feel it's more than just niceness with them. Well, certainly from experience. Perhaps my nervousness showed quite easily. But, the old confidence is gradually growing

Trebor176 wrote: »

Thanks Tom, I appreciate that. You seem to be a sound chap as well I'd like to think I could find someone, but I feel it's more than just niceness with them. Well, certainly from experience. Perhaps my nervousness showed quite easily. But, the old confidence is gradually growing

Keep it up....also...if it's walking you want to take up...all you need is a comfortable pair of shoes and time!!

No matter how slow/bad you go at the start .....it's so much better than being on the couch/propping up a bar somewhere

Trebor176 wrote: »

Thanks Tom, I appreciate that. You seem to be a sound chap as well I'd like to think I could find someone, but I feel it's more than just niceness with them. Well, certainly from experience. Perhaps my nervousness showed quite easily. But, the old confidence is gradually growing

Yay for confidence growing \o/

tomwaterford wrote: »

Exactly....took me an embarrassingly long time to come around

Though when you work 60-70 hours most weeks and do nixers/farm work aswell...as trying to fit in a bit of exercise....it's fair hard to find time to make new friends.....but sure I'm hoping that being a bit of a loner/little to no friends Will be better than being constantly let down/treated sh1te???

Besides I used be well able to happy alone when I was younger

I was the same. I'm happy cutting out the ones who bought me down.

tomwaterford wrote: »

Keep it up....also...if it's walking you want to take up...all you need is a comfortable pair of shoes and time!!

No matter how slow/bad you go at the start .....it's so much better than being on the couch/propping up a bar somewhere

Last time I was in a bar, I actually managed to chat to a couple of girls, and even offer to buy one a drink, ask if she's single, etc. etc. Ok, so that didn't work out, but it showed that I had the balls to actually give it a shot

pew wrote: »

Yay for confidence growing \o/

Confidence is key

Autosport

Can I just say I laughed at the comments of me stalking tom tonight, sorry to say I'm not .............yet

ShadowHearth

To be fair, you never know how it goes with friends. I had only very few people around me and in the last few months I met so many new people who proved to be friends in very short time already.
You would be surprised how much your own attitude can be an influence in finding some decent people.

As much as I hate the phrase " You never know when you will find someone special and you will find it when you don't try it", is pretty right too.

pew wrote: »

I was the same. I'm happy cutting out the ones who bought me down.

God....I've cut so many out over the years....I'm starting to think it's something wrong with me....that I'm too much effort /need to be taken down a peg or two or something???

**i really don't mean that to sound soo self pitying :pac:

Autosport wrote: »

Can I just say I laughed at the comments of me stalking tom tonight, sorry to say I'm not .............yet

Are you not tearing up Waterford tonight!?

tomwaterford wrote: »

God....I've cut so many out over the years....I'm starting to think it's something wrong with me....that I'm too much effort /need to be taken down a peg or two or something???

**i really don't mean that to sound soo self pitying :pac:

Nothing wrong with you