Aurora Green wrote: » How would you feel If she told you she had the same sexual history as the OP's ex?
username123 wrote: » What on earth has previous promiscuity got to do with trust?
Renegade Mechanic wrote: » If a person can cheat with you, they can cheat on you. That may be besides the point here but what matters is this : if someone has had, say, 8 partners in the last two or three years the chance of you landing a serious relationship (if that's what youre after) is very slim.
Buzz Killington the third wrote: » Not one person has stated as such!
nc19 wrote: » When did i say anyone else has??? I would consider myself a hero if i had such an encounter if you knew me you would consider me a miracle worker....... I am male btw
Buzz Killington the third wrote: » 8 in 3 years isn't even 3 a year. Even in 2 years it's 4 people a year. One every 3 months... that's in no way a bad thing for someone who's single.
Kyson Tangy Tumor wrote: » It would be a shock and vice versa if I told her I had 500 partners. At this stage though once I was over the initial shock I would get over it. That's because we have gotten to know each other so well over the 4 years.
h.bolla wrote: » You shouldnt sleep around.
beano345 wrote: » IME a lot of girls lie about their number,its when you find out down the track that's the problem.if theyre not ashamed about it why the need to lie about it
Magaggie wrote: » It might not be shame it might be fear of judgement, which in fairness is a pretty warranted fear.
Magaggie wrote: » It would put me off a man, so I'm not making this about women only.
whupdedo wrote: » 500 sexual partners over a 13 year period is about 39 partners and year, now allowing average period lasts about 5 days, that takes her out of the game for about 9 weeks ago year (I'm generalising) which means that she needed have sex with 3 different men every 22 days, I don't give a fcuk what the sexually liberated say, that's quite an achievement, and most guys wouldn't see her as the marrying kind
The Wild Bunch wrote: » Ok here's one for you. Hypotetically, current girlfriend won't do certain stuff with you that she did with an ex- is there a right to feel aggrieved?
Milly33 wrote: » From my knowing men are normally the sleeper rounders which there is nothing said about that so why should it be different just because the woman was doing the sleeping with..
h.bolla wrote: » After a lot of rowing she admitted she had a 6-some one night (her and 5 other men) along with a dozen or 3-somes over the years and has lost count on the amount of drunken one night stands shes had with randomers. Oh and for most of her teens right up to her mid 20's she has always had 1 or 2 friends with benefits at any given time most of them lasting for 3-4 months. She guessed all in all that she'd had around 500 partners give or take.
h.bolla wrote: » we had to have an absolute blazing row with her smashing the place before she finally admitted that there was a possiblity that I may not be her third sexual partner? I thought she was a bitch for letting me date her for years and never once felt the need to tell me about the 500 other guys she slept with.
Magaggie wrote: » One different partner per week - shur 'tis nothing!
the_syco wrote: » Two things; she may not have liked those things, and he's now an ex. The two could be directly related. Men will multiply the number by about 5, and boast about who they shagged. As some men and women think women who sleep around are slags, sluts, marraige wreckers, etc, most women don't brag about who they shagged I'm imagine. But you have to realise that men and women getting sex is very much different. No matter how ugly or fat the woman is, if they want sex, they can pretty much get sex. "It may not be good sex, but it'll be sex"; I'll come back to this quote with where i read it from, it's some book about a womans sexual liberation who was never given "the talk" as she presumed her folks thought she'd die during the cold war, and when she hit 18, she went to London to become good at sex. Not so for lads.
username123 wrote: » She might have been on a pill or using an IUS that suppressed her period. She might have been having sex throughout her period. Sex with 3 different men in 22 days is not a big deal anyway IMO. It's not even once a week.
whupdedo wrote: » Sex with 3 different partners in 22 days is not a big deal, but it kinda is when it's a constant average every 7 days,when you think of it its an amazing strike rate especially as she often had fcuk buddy's and other boyfriends along with all the 1 night stands also I'm no expert but I can't ever see many women go actively looking for 1 night stands while on their period
