I have been reading and giggling at the many references to older women ' (30+).'
I never thought of my 30+friends as old in any way. Of course, some people do look much older than they actually are, but in general 30 year olds don't seem 'old' in my opinion.
The only difference I an think of compared to how they seemed in their 20's, is their mannerisms. And, at the same time, I know people in their 20's who seem older.
Are you automatically old at 30, surely not? What is it all about?