Beasty wrote: » Well if that's the sort of thing going on in there the place should be closed down
LoLth wrote: » it wasnt all the time and it didnt have the same level of animosity and Thunderdome but it was prolonged (over a period of years in the case of one particular user) and there were very clear site rules violations and forum charter violations that were let slide by or were actively encouraged. I'm not trying to villify the PFJ forum as a whole, I just dont accept this mis-remembered image of a happy-go-lucky-carebear-level-of-offensive group of well behaved lads being victimised by some evil admin who had it in for them all along. Or the evil admins that were watching them 24/7 . If we were monitoring things with any degree of regularity or depth, those things would have been picked up at the time and I would have been recommending some form of sanction against the user(s) involved a lot stronger than an on thread warning about behaviour.
Fratton Fred wrote: » Now you've just gone through a forum looking for reasons to vilify it.
Beasty wrote: » and shown exactly why it should be more closely supervised. I stand by my earlier comments - this type of behaviour must raise questions over the future of the forum. I don't see why the "chosen few" should get to look at other people's PMs (or indeed take the piss out of mods or any other users) without the sort of sanctions that would be applied elsewhere on the site.
Wibbs wrote: » Posting another members private message for others to "discuss" is really not fcuking on. The private part should be a heads up to even the most hard of thinking.
Boggles wrote: » I assume you would advocate a detailed retro sweep of all private forums and apply the same question about their future?
Fratton Fred wrote: » Generally I would agree, but I would suggest the content of the PM plays a part in that, as well as how widely it is being shared. The PFJ had 22 or so active members,
Beasty wrote: » If there is suspicion this sort of behaviour is happening in other hosted forums, yes, or an edict be issued making it absolutely clear that this sort of behaviour is totally unacceptable
John Mason wrote: » oh does this mean, all private forums are going to reviewed retrospectively and all offending posters and post removed? i am aware of 2 private forums which i am not a member of discussing me in the vilest of terms. there has also been things from personal life dicussed, including some upsetting medical issues
Boggles wrote: » There is already an edict from Dav, do you mean a new edict?
KERSPLAT! wrote: » The message should be between the sender and the recipient and no one else. If there's something wrong with the mail, report it
Beasty wrote: » Too bloody right it needs a new edict to bring forums like this into order
Fratton Fred wrote: » So someone can send an unsolicited message to someone they've never met and expect the recipient to keep it entirely secret?
Beasty wrote: » If it's unsolicited report it - I cannot believe someone who has been on the site so long does not understand the very simple rules concerning the non-disclosure of PMs
5starpool wrote: » PFJ was akin to a constant night out between a group of mates. If I'm out with a group of mates and someone said "oh wait until you hear what this twat said to me the other day", or "isn't so and so a prick?" then there would be general discussion around those things, with some possibly disagreeing, and some agreeing, and the conversation would move on. It appears that boards is not the place for those type of things any more, so fear ye not, put your monocles back in place, for PFJ have relocated to where we can continue to do what Dev said we could do years ago (albeit obviously the PM posting thing was not allowed) and continuing enjoying the company of those we enjoy. Boards and it's members will not be an oft discussed subject in overall terms, but it is with a heavy heart that I have to say that we will likely refer to some people who are not posters in disparaging terms. Some will be politicians, some people we work with that we complain about, some may even be posters here. I am not throwing the boards bathwater out with the baby, and I will continue to use parts of the site, but both my 2 main community uses for boards over the years have been relocated off site now. The only other one I use that is anyway similar nearly got single handedly destroyed by a power crazy mod years ago, but thankfully she is not involved there any more and sense has reigned for the most part since. I know most won't care, and the "ye broke the rules, it's terrible Joe" type people will continue to have fun between a very carefully selected set of lines, but we'll be thinking of ye.
knucklehead6 wrote: » Just to clarify not all hosted Forums are "like this". This is an isolated incident, and shouldn't be used as a big stick to bash all the other Hosted Forums.
LoLth wrote: » I honestly dont know but it is an action I would not be completely against as long as the logistics of it are practical. I wouldnt go so far as to punish someone for an old post but removing the post would certainly seem like a reasonable compromise to prevent its replication somewhere less private in the future. Certainly it is a discussion worth having with the admins and hmods together. out of curiosity: did you attempt to contact someone with access to the forum, and authority to take action - say a hmod of the forum or an admin - to ask them to investigate your suspicion (I assume it is a suspicion and not a verified fact given that you are not a member of the forums in question) and take action as required? also out of curiosity: do you think it is fair that you were being discussed , including upsetting medical issues , in a forum you could not access to defend yourself or even be party to what was being said?
Boggles wrote: » So you wouldn't be for retro sweeps of ALL private forums regardless of who the members are, only if they raise suspicion? I still don't understand the suspicion part.