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Begging for food

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Was just speaking to a friend of mine who walked past a woman in the street today with two young kids begging for food. She wasn't asking for money, just for something simple like a loaf of bread. Apparently had tears in her eyes saying all she wanted to do was feed her children and she couldn't afford to. She was now homeless because she couldn't afford her rent and was kicked out.

Really made me think, I'd be likely to just walk past someone asking for money on the streets, but the thoughts of a woman asking for food for her kids was just heartbreaking, it's the first time I've ever heard of something like this. It's just shocking how bad the country has become that a woman is forced to beg for food on the streets to fed her kids. Out in that weather and everything

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Stheno

username_x wrote: »

Was just speaking to a friend of mine who walked past a woman in the street today with two young kids begging for food. She wasn't asking for money, just for something simple like a loaf of bread. Apparently had tears in her eyes saying all she wanted to do was feed her children and she couldn't afford to. She was now homeless because she couldn't afford her rent and was kicked out.

Really made me think, I'd be likely to just walk past someone asking for money on the streets, but the thoughts of a woman asking for food for her kids was just heartbreaking, it's the first time I've ever heard of something like this. It's just shocking how bad the country has become that a woman is forced to beg for food on the streets to fed her kids. Out in that weather and everything

I've two simultaneous thougths on this, firstly if the woman was Roma, is she part of the gangs,

Secondly if she is not and is an EU national and entitled to welfare here, why is she on the streets?

I've been in need of welfare, and without a home, and had the information I needed to get the help I needed

If I met the person you are describing, I'd be inclined to stop and give them a meal if I had the money ( I might not always have) and talk with them to understand why they are in that situation and give advice/help if I could.

Even the homeless have rights to welfare/accomodation in this country, sounds to me like a like of information is inhibiting this lady in getting help.

dobman88

Not the first time I have heard of that tbh. It is very worrying and a very bad situation for that woman and her family.

Like you OP, I would just walk past someone on the street looking for money but a few years back I saw a kid (about 12-14) sitting on a street in Dublin with a cup in front of him, as we walked past he said "anything to drink?". I am from Kerry and the person I was with is from Dublin and she said not to do anything cos the kid probably had someone nearby who would take whatever we gave. I couldn't do it so I went to a shop, bought a cup of tea and a sandwich and gave it to the kid. I then watched him from across the street. A man in his 40's came to the kid, kicked over the cup of tea, ate the sandwich and took the money from the cup. I will never again help somebody out after witnessing that!!!

dxhound2005

username_x wrote: »

Was just speaking to a friend of mine who walked past a woman in the street today with two young kids begging for food. She wasn't asking for money, just for something simple like a loaf of bread. Apparently had tears in her eyes saying all she wanted to do was feed her children and she couldn't afford to. She was now homeless because she couldn't afford her rent and was kicked out.

Really made me think, I'd be likely to just walk past someone asking for money on the streets, but the thoughts of a woman asking for food for her kids was just heartbreaking, it's the first time I've ever heard of something like this. It's just shocking how bad the country has become that a woman is forced to beg for food on the streets to fed her kids. Out in that weather and everything

Your friend picked up quite a bit of information in walking past them.

username_x

dxhound2005 wrote: »

Your friend picked up quite a bit of information in walking past them.

Yeah she walked past to go to a shop and went back to her with what she'd bought for her and got talking. Probably should have specified that, apologies.

username_x

dobman88 wrote: »

Not the first time I have heard of that tbh. It is very worrying and a very bad situation for that woman and her family.

Like you OP, I would just walk past someone on the street looking for money but a few years back I saw a kid (about 12-14) sitting on a street in Dublin with a cup in front of him, as we walked past he said "anything to drink?". I am from Kerry and the person I was with is from Dublin and she said not to do anything cos the kid probably had someone nearby who would take whatever we gave. I couldn't do it so I went to a shop, bought a cup of tea and a sandwich and gave it to the kid. I then watched him from across the street. A man in his 40's came to the kid, kicked over the cup of tea, ate the sandwich and took the money from the cup. I will never again help somebody out after witnessing that!!!

That's just absolutely awful. I've heard of things like this before but never witnessed it.

Stheno

username_x wrote: »

Yeah she walked past to go to a shop and went back to her with what she'd bought for her and got talking. Probably should have specified that, apologies.

If she's likely to see the lady again shoot me a pm and I'll send you what she should be asking so she can point the lady in the right direction?

Very tough in that situation and the lady may end up in hostels, but more likely b and b so at least a breakfast for her kids?

dxhound2005

username_x wrote: »

Yeah she walked past to go to a shop and went back to her with what she'd bought for her and got talking. Probably should have specified that, apologies.

Did she tell your friend where she and her children were going to sleep?

username_x

I'll find out where she saw her, as far as I know it was around the grafton street area. I'm just hoping they have somewhere for the night, must be an awful situation to find yourself in. Not knowing where to look for help and not being able to feed your children.

username_x

dxhound2005 wrote: »

Did she tell your friend where she and her children were going to sleep?

Nope, no mention of it.

Gatling

Its a regular scam well known by anybody who works or has worked in retail security in any of the city centers ,

Personally I remember watching a woman setting up begging for food at 9am and watcher her receive various hand outs of food and bags of shopping throughout the day then watch as she passed the bags to a man to put into a van throughout the day I reckoned she was getting between. 20/30 bags a day and yet she moved to various locations around Dublin city center 7 days a week

username_x

Oh god, now it really is starting to sound like a scam.

Immaculata

That's awful.

In fairness, the unfortunate lady ought to go to her local county/city council office and speak to the Homeless Outreach staff, and visit her local Community Welfare Officer. They will help her with accommodation and organise emergency payments.

I imagine that that lady is in some situation that a bystander can't see, such as perhaps her partner commits DV and takes all her income, or she's not eligible for welfare in Ireland, or there are addiction issues, or something along those lines. The welfare system in Ireland is a bit creaky, no doubt, but there's no need for anyone to beg for food or sleep rough, so there must be more going on.

Stheno

Gatling wrote: »

Its a regular scam well known by anybody who works or has worked in retail security in any of the city centers ,

Personally I remember watching a woman setting up begging for food at 9am and watcher her receive various hand outs of food and bags of shopping throughout the day then watch as she passed the bags to a man to put into a van throughout the day I reckoned she was getting between. 20/30 bags a day and yet she moved to various locations around Dublin city center 7 days a week

Yet if you work in the city centre you identify the "regulars" from those in a bit of need.

I'd one a few years ago with a dog, and being a doglover, asked him if he needed dogfood. He was very happy to get a few cans and a bag of mixer.

Sometimes those folk are genuine.

Gatling

Stheno wrote: »

Yet if you work in the city centre you identify the "regulars" from those in a bit of need.

I'd one a few years ago with a dog, and being a doglover, asked him if he needed dogfood. He was very happy to get a few cans and a bag of mixer.

Sometimes those folk are genuine.

The same usual suspects and there friends

razorgil

sadly, we live in a world full of cynicism. And although most of it well grounded, there are the needy out there who need our help, but because of the schemers and chancers, both home-grown and imported, who push to the fore, we are want to help those who really need it, clouded by the doubt, that if we do contribute, who are we contributing to? are we helping or just excarerbating the problem....

thomur

The Lonely Pilgrim wrote: »

I have bought many people food over the years, usually women saying the same thing and I regret each one of them.

Why? Well, because I have then seen them many times that day and days and weeks after saying the same thing and I now realise it's a scam but that's not the real reason.

The real reason is that there is a ton of places in Dublin where people can go for free meals and / or get meals at a very very low cost. Plus there is lots of food parcels available for those in need each week also. If people really want to help the people like the one described in the OP, print out the following list and give it to them:

http://www.coolmine.ie/about/links/food-day-centres-and-practical-support

There is one exception I will make and if I think someone is mentally ill, I may go and buy food for them as sometimes they won't go to the places in the above list as they have social phobias etc and won't seek out help and so for them, I would make exceptions.

Agree completely. There are a lot of supports in Dublin for people who are hungry. I always donate to http://homeless.ie/Capuchin_Day_Centre/Welcome.html

They have been doing fantastic work for years.

SimonQuinlank

There's several services in Dublin City Centre that dispense free hot meals everyday and food parcels(Bro Kevin,Merchants Quay,Penny Dinners,Mendicity,Crosscare,probably more).No reason to be begging for food in this day and age,though maybe those new to homelessness are unaware of the services.

Stheno

The Lonely Pilgrim wrote: »

I have bought many people food over the years, usually women saying the same thing and I regret each one of them.

Why? Well, because I have then seen them many times that day and days and weeks after saying the same thing and I now realise it's a scam but that's not the real reason.

The real reason is that there is a ton of places in Dublin where people can go for free meals and / or get meals at a very very low cost. Plus there is lots of food parcels available for those in need each week also. If people really want to help the people like the one described in the OP, print out the following list and give it to them:

http://www.coolmine.ie/about/links/food-day-centres-and-practical-support

There is one exception I will make and if I think someone is mentally ill, I may go and buy food for them as sometimes they won't go to the places in the above list as they have social phobias etc and won't seek out help and so for them, I would make exceptions.

Gatling wrote: »

The same usual suspects and there friends

This chap was seen once on baggot street, and when I talked to him he got SW and RA and was usually ok, but stuck that week.

He's never shown up again in two years.

I regularly buy for those who sleep rough close to me, and get to know them, and they either don't want, or are not willing to abide by the rules in shelters.

No reason not to give them a meal tho.

The gangs, I cannot abide, sometimes it down to personal judgement.

dxhound2005

I am very rarely in Dublin. How common is it to see women with children begging for food there?

Cody Pomeray

I read a heartbreaking story in the media last winter, of a Dad who had to wake up early and go to the Capuchins, and ask them for food for his daughters before they got up for school. He had no food in the house to give them any breakfast or make a lunch for them.

This is 2013. We have spent €70 billion to save our banks; we cannot do any better for the children of this country? We will let them go hungry from time to time, we will raise them to leave their families and their communities, we cannot promise them that if they work hard they will have a life. And the banks are our only priority. Let our people leave, let communities ruin, but never perish our banks. Something is so wrong with us.

Galwayguy35

I send whatever few bob I can manage to a few charities that I support but would never give a street beggar anything, it only encourages them and there is no gaurantee that they are genuine.

deadeye187

I treat her the same as every con-artist on the street just pass by and it will never enter my mind again....I`d rather burn my money that give it to these people

SimonQuinlank

Lovely.

elfy4eva

Obviously depends on the situation, but I wouldn't be surprised if this was a bit of creative begging using social engineering. ie. If you ask for food people will see you as authentically desperate and more likely to give money to you (as who walks around with food to give out)

Call Me Jimmy

I hate being cynical; literally it's the last thing I want to be but I cannot imagine, with children involved that, if true, they would not be fed by the state. It would not get to that level.

I am open to correction but it just doesn't add up.

I would be more inclined to think that it is a case of: ask for a loaf of bread to sound more genuine but know that most people don't carry around loaves and might not have the time to go to the shop and buy one so instead just give money. But if you ask for money, people will be less likely to give.

foggy_lad

Asking for food while begging with two small children smacks of someone tugging at the heartstrings of all the women from outside the city doing a bit of shopping who would never see a child go hungry. Heard a beggaar at a luas stop one day telling an elderly woman about how she was just out of hospital, when asked why she was in hospital she said she had lost her baby. Maybe true but coming fom a junkie begging for money for drugs it is not so believable. This woman and kids story sounds like a scam to me.

Oranage2

Use to get the bus from Parnell street and would be offered fresh meat and other groceries, would also have people walking into the bars around there doing the same.

I really doubt anyone in Ireland is begging for food, just take a walk around the city centre, we must have the fattest beggars in the world.

mikemac1

Oranage2 wrote: »

Use to get the bus from Parnell street and would be offered fresh meat and other groceries, would also have people walking into the bars around there doing the same.

That stuff is stolen.

Joe Duffy covered this before. Tesco Parnell St put security tags on their meat but didn't do it in other stores. They identified a problem and tried to fix it

Locals called up Joe Duffy crying they were being labelled as thieves and other shoppers in Ireand were not.

stoneill

I must admit that if I ever found myself homeless and without income I would not know where to go or who to see. I would probably end up begging for food after a day or two.

Roselm

Www.ispcc.ie/leanbh have a phone number you can call of you see a child begging/out with a parent begging as this is a child protection issue. The num is 087 0625198