December2012 wrote: » Why didn't you complain?
Nialler15 wrote: » Its hardly advice on parenting. Its asking them to show a common courtesy to other people in the restaurant.
elfy4eva wrote: » It isn't advice thats the point i was making in my previous post. In practice, (a lot of the time), if you go up to a mother with children in a cafe and ask her to keep the noise down the first thing you'll get in return is an angry response such as. 1. How dare you tell me what to do in a public place. 2. Who do you think you are to come up to me and tell me what to do with my children 3. Stop abusing me in front of my children. or something similarly blabby & defensive. It's not worth it.
Nialler15 wrote: » And that is where not questioning these people will get you. Nowhere and going out will become a progressively worse experience.
Pumpkinseeds wrote: » I really think that in instances like that one today, the owner should have a word with the mother, it's unacceptable to have a child crawling on a table where other people will be eating after them and that level of intrusive noise affects everyone else in the place. I think most people avoid complaining because they know they'll just get abuse for it. McDonald's is just down the street and I'd expect that kind of noisy crap there.
OldNotWIse wrote: » Reminds me, I was in McDonalds before and this woman was there with her bratty, noisy progeny. They finished up and left and then she held her little fella in front of the window for him to pee on the glass. Right in front of us! ffs, what a kn*cker. Toilets were a 10 second walk away!
saltyjack silverblade wrote: » To be fair you were in McD's. What did you expect? Quality food at low prices with well behaved children?
OldNotWIse wrote: » I dont think p1ssing against the glass in front of someone who is eating is acceptable in any establishment
kunst nugget wrote: » Instead everyone on here seems to be happy to stew in their anger and shoot sullen glances at the parent because they don't want to approach them because of what they possibly might say in reply to you. Say your piece to the person if it is really annoying you that much or stfu.
runawaybishop wrote: » Its the managements job to sort that out, not the patrons. If you complain to anyone it should be the management.
saltyjack silverblade wrote: » When you gotta go......
kunst nugget wrote: » Complain to management then. The OP did neither. It's like people are socially conditioned not to approach parents because they'll be attacked for it. Maybe they will, maybe they won't but it's going to be more effective than moaning about it hours later on an internet forum and speculating on what type of parent the person is. Maybe she genuinely doesn't realise the effect the child is having on surrounding patrons.
Pumpkinseeds wrote: » You're a cheery little kunst ray of sunshine, I bet you're a big hit with the opposite sex too:P
scottmcb04 wrote: » People who misunderstand the meaning of trivial and post about things that annoy everybody!
minotour wrote: » Continuing the work theme...... People who take the stall/urinal directly next to you when there are other spots available....... People on the fone talking loud when they think they are right and quiet when they are not sure....
MurdyWurdy wrote: » The way Americans call a main course an entree - surely that should mean a starter? Grr!