Peregrinus wrote: » I think it's much more likely to be classed as abduction or ethnic cleansing, to be honest. I don't think there's any example, ancient or modern, of forcible marriages in these circumstances being classed for criminal purposes as rape, even by people who disapproved of them or denounced them. (If you know of an example, I'll be happy to consider it.)
Peregrinus wrote: » My point here is not that this practice would be defensible; not at all. My point is that this conversation has all the hallmarks of one in which people start by denouncing the bible for condoning rape, and only looked for evidence when the assertion was challenged. Their initial belief was not evidence-based. And they don't find any very convincing evidence, which is why, after other passages initially cited have been quietly dropped, they have to rely on passages like this, which are the best they can do but, frankly, don't provide the kind of support that they expected and hoped to find.
Peregrinus wrote: » If you started by reading the bible and forming opinions about what your read, you might well deplore this passage, but I suspect the focus of your denunciation would not be that it condones rape. In fact what this law does is prevent rape; if a conqueror desires a captive woman, he can't just have her; he has to marry her, tqke her into his home, allow her a period of mourning, give her a status, rights and a future. It's not great, perhaps, but it's better than what would happen if the law were not there.
Peregrinus wrote: » Yes, marriage can itself be a rape, and for those senses of "rape", this passage condones rape. But, as for the primary sense of rape, as for the kind of rapes that to this day still happen to the women on the losing side in a war, this passage is clearly aimed at preventing those rapes, and I suggest it's less than honest for people who claim that the bible "condones rape" not to acknowledge this.
Peregrinus wrote: » Actually, I don’t think it is that simple. Remember how we got to this point. Somebody - I forget who, at this point - made the claim that the bible condones rape, and when that claim was challenged a number of people offered various scripture passages said to support the claim. On examination, most of the passages which referred to rape proved not to condone it, and most of the passages which did condone something - possibly something quite nasty - weren’t really, or at any rate primarily, condoning rape. On this particular passage, I think people would be on fairly strong ground if they complained that the bible condones forced marriage, or abduction for marriage. But they’ve kind of painted themselves into a corner where they have to attack this passage on the grounds that it condones rape. And that’s not quite so clear.
Peregrinus wrote: » She may well, given that she doesn’t share our assumptions and values. Remember, this is a woman who never had any expectation of choosing her own marriage partner. Her marriage partner would be chosen by her father. Or, possibly, by her grandfather. Or, if her father was of low status, by her father’s patron, or some other high-status figure on whom her father was dependent. Or, if her father was a slave, by her father’s owner. And at any point the person in a position to choose her marriage partner might change - death, decline in fortune, war, etc. She’s essentially property (or, at any rate, the right to select her marriage partner is essentially property) and property can change hands at any time. When there’s a war, and her family’s on the losing side, and awful lot of things change, including expectations with regard to marriage.
Peregrinus wrote: » Semantically, we can defend the claim that she was raped, because this is a sequence of events which will likely lead to her having sex, and at no point is her consent necessarily sought or obtained (though it’s not necessarily withheld either). But the corollary is that every woman who ever married a husband not of her own choosing, every woman who has married out of economic or social necessity, was raped every time she has sex with her husband. And that’s the experience of most women who have ever lived, since the romantic idea of marriage in which two individuals choose one another out of romantic inclination is a fairly recent invention. And that’s such a broad definition of rape as to be not much use - and, more to the point, it’s not what we normally think of when we use the word “rape”.
Peregrinus wrote: » So, does the bible condone rape? In this passage, yes, indirectly, for certain values of “rape”. But we have to do a good deal of shoehorning to get to that point, and in doing so we end up skipping over some much more fundamental moral issues. Possibly, just possibly, the central moral problem in what’s described here isn’t the acts of sex that are presumed to follow the forced marriage?
Peregrinus wrote: » For many Christians, it has - I'd say for most Christians, so far as the submission of women in marriage is concerned. It may not have moved as far as you (or I) would like, but it has certainly moved. It's a mistake to seek out the Christians you disagree most violently with, and then treat them as normantive of Christianity. They aren't, necessarily.
marienbad wrote: » Has Philologos left the house ?
JimiTime wrote: » Watching the regular sniggering abuse, and awful modship, I can't believe he lasted this long tbh. His selfless intentions were going to eventually lead to him considering the lack of value in trying to bring the Gospel to Kermit, Fozzy and the gang My intentions being mostly selfish here, you'll still have me annoying yee now and again so don't fret.
marienbad wrote: » What Gospel was that then ? Love your enemies ?
JimiTime wrote: » And there ye have it. After all of his endeavors, you still have to ask. Seems he got wise.
marienbad wrote: » Now now Jimi don't you know you should never blame the pupils !
Benny_Cake wrote: » I'm extremely sorry to see that Phil has closed his account, while I disagreed with him on plenty of things he struck me as sincere and committed in his faith. It was a little like watching a cat wander into a dog park at times, but he showed a lot of grace despite the flak he took. Hopefully he'll return at some stage.
MrPudding wrote: » Seems a bit extreme to simply avoid answering questions... MrP
JimiTime wrote: » And yet he had the class not to make a deal out of it, simply leave quietly. Even in his retirement, he is a class above the likes of yourself with your jibing. Good man Phil, still leading by example.
MrPudding wrote: » He left the same way as he avoided questions, without comment. Yes, sheer class. MrP
MrPudding wrote: » I would expect this from Phil, but not from you. I can kind of see where you are coming from, but I really don't think this law prevents rape, at least not in the sense that we would now understand it. If a man grabs a woman, holds a knife to her throat and tell her that he will kill her if she does not have sex with him and then asks her if she will have sex with him, to which she answers "yes", is that not then a rape?
nagirrac wrote: » Although I crossed swords with him on a number of occasions, I have the utmost repect for people of faith like phil who stand by their principles and refuse to be bullied. It is a little strange and saddening that a Christian poster can be hounded off the Christianity forum. I can say from experience that the kind of grandstanding and ad hominum attacks directed towards phil would quickly result in banishment from the A&A forum, having been threatened with expulsion myself for minor violations. Perhaps its time for a little less Christian "turn the other cheek" on this forum.
Worztron wrote: » How does a "moral high ground" come into this?
robp wrote: » Well you have argued before that the notion of a loving compassionate Christian God is incompatible with human origins. That is entirely a moral argument.
Masteroid wrote: You could try a little of that yourself. The bible doesn't describe rape, it prescribes it. Lot, the only man in Sodom worth saving, offers his betrothed daughters to be raped by the crowd as a solution to their hostility.
Peregrinus wrote: » Yes, he does. But it can’t have escaped your attention that the story doesn’t present that as a good, desirable or even effective solution to the problem. If you read the story exercising even a basic degree of critical thinking, and ask yourself what role Lot’s offer of his daughters plays in the story, why it’s included, what it’s significance is, it’s pretty well impossible to arrive in good faith at the conclusion that the point is “rape = good”.
Genesis 19:6-8 wrote: So Lot went out to them through the doorway, shut the door behind him, and said, “Please, my brethren, do not do so wickedly! See now, I have two daughters who have not known a man; please, let me bring them out to you, and you may do to them as you wish; only do nothing to these men, since this is the reason they have come under the shadow of my roof.”
Peregrinus wrote: » They do. But I await your argument showing that the story presents this as a good thing.
Peregrinus wrote: » Indeed. But where is this presented as good? A fairly obvious reading of this cycle of war stories is that the message is “war is sh*tty”, precisely because of its dehumanising and debasing effect on everyone involved, even the supposed good guys. I struggle to believe that this reading has never occurred to you, so you must have some reason for having dismissed it. Are you going to share that reason with us?
Peregrinus wrote: » If you’re talking her about the Deut 20:10-14 quoted by Brian above, a careful reading of the text will show that the orders here are not given by God; they are given by the (nameless) Deuteronomist. (And – although it’s hardly a justification – you’ll note that what the text suggests here is not rape, but slavery. Is this relevant? Only to this extent; to support his claim that the bible condones rape Brian finds he has to press into service texts which actually don't deal with rape, suggesting possibly that he can't find that many texts which do, and which can be used to support his claim.) But, rape or slavery, I grant you that the text is certainly troubling. But it is either pretty stupid, or downright dishonest, to pretend that there is only one possible reading, which is that enslaving or raping your defeated enemy is what God wants. There’s ample writing on the “texts of terror”, as they’re called, which faces precisely this challenge and seeks to read the texts coherently with the wider scriptures as a warning, rather than a mandate.
Peregrinus wrote: » It is possible, I grant you, to read the bible (or at least parts of it) in this way, if you have your heart set on such a reading and are determined either not to admit the possibility of other readings, or to dismiss them. The question is, why would anyone approach reading the texts with such a determination?
Masteroid wrote: » We are not meant to judge Lot but we are meant to condemn Sodom.
Masteroid wrote: » Yes, I am talking about that passage [Deut 21:10-14] in Deuteronomy. Have you actually read it yourself because I am struck by disbelief at your inferences?
Peregrinus wrote: » In fact, if you want to have sex with them, you have to forego the possibility of enslaving them; and instead marry them. This rules out both battlefield rape/slave rape and taking conquered women as concubines.
MrPudding wrote: » A married, raped woman is still a raped woman.
nagirrac wrote: » It is almost tragic comedy, were the subject not so heartrending, that posters would ask whether certain behaviors in Jewish society of 3,000 years ago would hold up in today's society. Especially as it pertains to a topic like rape.
Kiwi in IE wrote: » I actually think you have a very good point here. But it is not a point that does the argument for Christianity any favours in the long run. Societal norms of biblical times were entirely different from those of today. Many of the interpretations and understanding of phenomena and social norms of the times, are worlds apart from those of today, as can be seen with the rape argument. Why then do people still consider it appropriate to follow a book written by authors who lived in these times and adhered to these norms and interpretations, as an authority on modern morality?
marienbad wrote: » This is the crux of the matter, in particular those that insist on taking it literally , And then defy logic by cherry picking what is literal and what is not, all to fit their own view.
JimiTime wrote: » Because its still wrong to murder, commit adultery etc.
JimiTime wrote: » If we happened to still be in a war culture where armies moved in to countries with swords and took them over so that they became part of the conquering nation etc, then the specifics of Deuteronomy may well still have an application. Modern warfare, and nations exerting their power is a bit more deceptive and nuanced these days.