JimiTime wrote: » I've said it before and I'll say it again. What IS the issue with the word being used. I don't think I've heard any of the Christians here give any tangible reasons as to why they'd object to the word being used. I really would like to hear some tangible reasons why its an issue. Or at least an attempt at the reasoning behind the objection other than 'by definition its not what marriage means' etc. I've been wondering is it because people don't actually have any reasons, or they are afraid to voice them. So I'll repeat to my Christian brethren, what are the tangible issues? Are there any?
Aurongroove wrote: » I don't think that's a very productive question. I know this isn't my thread but a "megathread about gays" and that you're free to ask/post whatever you want, but for the sake of keeping things on track, do you really think going into why Christianity and homosexuality don't mix will yield anything productive? I mean, I could nearly answer your question and say "because it goes against Christian beliefs" that's kinda the deal with religion as I'm sure you well know. Since it is a religion though the word 'tangible' give you an infinity of rebuttals and get out clause because since one can claim almost any aspect of of any religion is intangible in some way or another thus theoretically, no answer to your question would do.
Aurongroove wrote: » I don't think that's a very productive question. I know this isn't my thread but a "megathread about gays" and that you're free to ask/post whatever you want, but for the sake of keeping things on track, do you really think going into why Christianity and homosexuality don't mix will yield anything productive? I mean, I could nearly answer your question and say "because it goes against Christian beliefs" and that that's the deal with religion as I'm sure you well know. Since it is a religion the word 'tangible' gives you an infinity of rebuttals and get out clauses: One can claim almost any aspect of any religion is intangible in some way or another thus theoretically, no answer to your question would do.
Aurongroove wrote: » yes, you see that's my thinking too. Progress isn't really progress unless it is mutual, not when it's "ground gained in a war"
aloyisious wrote: » It (IMO) is simple logic that once one step has been taken by humans in any direction (give an inch and they'll take a mile) more steps will be taken along that first-step route. I'm assuming that people who oppose the notion of Gay Marriage have recognized that fact and with partnerships legally permitted here in the republic, they reckon the next step through that opened door will be the altering of the republic's laws on marriage. (@doctoremma: Human history say's humans never really learn from it, and a legal battle grand will be inevitable, indeed is now ongoing. Things (hopefully) will inevitably come to pass and Gay marriage will be eventually seen as a fact of life and not the sky falling in) It's entirely within the human spectrum of experience that in centuries to come, there may be a hindsight reversal of view on the issue, with people scratching their heads and asking "whatever were they thinking of back then?"
Penn wrote: » The problem with slippery slopes is that the other side of the slope might be just as slippery.
Peregrinus wrote: » The problem with slippery slope arguments is that if you accept one then you must accept them all.
tommy2bad wrote: » And what gives the religious the right to define a state declaration of what anything is?
Penn wrote: » Ignoring the part about the altering of the republic's laws on marriage for a minute, surely you could say the exact same thing about marriage in the first place? That because man and woman were allowed to get married, then that opened the door for same-sex couples to want to get married etc. Should we take away marriage from everyone? As for your 'slippery slope' claim, claiming same-sex marriage could lead to X, Y or Z is invalid because it's impossible to know. Preventing some people from having the same rights as others is surely more important than simply "playing it safe". Besides which, what will not allowing same-sex marriage lead to? Gay people becoming angry at not having equal rights. Huge split between Equal Rights supporters and traditionalists. Civil war. Shifts to other countries. World War 3. Nuclear bombs being used. Millions, possibly billions dead. Rise of the Planet of the Apes. The problem with slippery slopes is that the other side of the slope might be just as slippery.
JimiTime wrote: » TBH, thats very much twisting things. Marriage is already defined in the context of gender. Its not about the religious having the right to define it, but rather the state REdefining it. Most religious are not looking to define it, but rather stop others from redefining it. The pertinent question as I see it, is if there are any foreseeable issues with such redefinition. That IMO, is where the conversation needs to be.
JimiTime wrote: » The question is absolutely ZERO to do with religion actually. In fact, as PDN pointed out to you already, The Evangelical Alliance supported civil union. I'm pretty sure that they don't see homosexual activity and Christianity as compatible though. So now that I've corrected you, I hope you can see the question remains a valid one for Christian objectors to the word 'marriage' being used in same sex context. Its simple, Are there tangible issues?
Aurongroove; why does it matter more then equal rights
28064212; The percentage of people on either side whose sole problem is what it is called is tiny.
Aurongroove wrote: » why does it matter more then equal rights to have the definition of the word marriage dealt with first?, before, for example, equal rights under a different name? which is almost in arms reach only it needs one final push and that push is not resisted very strongly (not as strongly as wanting people to share the definition of it as marriage) Sadly, not enough people seem to care enough to want to grab what is right in front of us, only called a different name. Instead they fold their arms and say "but why can't we have exactly what we want including the bits that matter a little less then civil legal equality, and what's the point of even lifting a finger for any other reason?" well, then you're as much an enemy of progress then those stopping fighting to "protect" the definition of marriage. I don't care about people who care if their wedding is called a marriage or not, I just want equal rights.
Aurongroove wrote: » Hmm, so it is completely impossible for two words to mean ideltical things legally, but different things culturally and sexually for example it is impossible for marriage and civil union to mean the same thing legally (for them to grant the rights legally) but mean different things sexually (one being same sex, and one being opposite sex) It is completely impossible for two "words" to mean the identical things legally but different things culturally and sexually.
Aurongroove wrote: » Let me tackle this with sarcasm:
Aurongroove wrote: » So back when laws applied differently to men then they did to women (i.e. women's suffrage), the only conceivably solution was to make society call women "men" and call men "men" and there was no other way.
Aurongroove wrote: » It wouldn't be possible at all in any way for men and women to have equal rights, despite being called different things, because one of them is a man, and the other is a woman. and how can to things have equal legal status if they're called different things?
wrote: A number of factors lead us to this conclusion. First, the exclusion of same-sex couples from the designation of marriage clearly is not necessary in order to afford full protection to all of the rights and benefits that currently are enjoyed by married opposite-sex couples; permitting same-sex couples access to the designation of marriage will not deprive opposite-sex couples of any rights and will not alter the legal framework of the institution of marriage, because same-sex couples who choose to marry will be subject to the same obligations and duties that currently are imposed on married opposite-sex couples. Second, retaining the traditional definition of marriage and affording same-sex couples only a separate and differently named family relationship will, as a realistic matter, impose appreciable harm on same-sex couples and their children, because denying such couples access to the familiar and highly favored designation of marriage is likely to cast doubt on whether the official family relationship of same-sex couples enjoys dignity equal to that of opposite-sex couples. Third, because of the widespread disparagement that gay individuals historically have faced, it is all the more probable that excluding same-sex couples from the legal institution of marriage is likely to be viewed as reflecting an official view that their committed relationships are of lesser stature than the comparable relationships of opposite-sex couples. Finally, retaining the designation of marriage exclusively for opposite- sex couples and providing only a separate and distinct designation for same-sex couples may well have the effect of perpetuating a more general premise — now emphatically rejected by this state — that gay individuals and same-sex couples are in some respects “second-class citizens” who may, under the law, be treated differently from, and less favorably than, heterosexual individuals or opposite-sex couples.
28064212 wrote: » Not to mention, no government is going to draw up two sets of legislation for the exact same thing with one word changed. It would be a legal minefield.
Aurongroove wrote: » MrP I feel ill equipped to tackle the issues regarding California and the proposition 8 cases and yes I probably should read them! they look like they might be very important.
JimiTime wrote: » http://www.opposingviews.com/i/religion/christianity/catholicism/gay-friendly-queen-james-bible-released So sad. God will grant light from this darkness I'm sure, but I can't help but feel that the people behind this are heaping hot coals on their head. What I can't understand, is that these people KNOW that they're changing things to suit their sexual choices. Is this blatant dishonesty, or self-deception?
Benny_Cake wrote: » It seems to be the King James Bible with 8 verses altered. As the KJV is in the public domain, and freely available online, I don't see why someone wouldn't just go online, download it, and change any verses they like free of charge rather than pay $35 to Amazon for the privilege. I would suspect that whoever is responsible for this may not be Christian, or gay - they appear to be choosing to remain anonymous. Thought this review on Amazon was very apt!