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Wedding dilema!

energeticxx

I have been asked to go to a wedding with a guy that I dont know very well. We met on a nite out and so don't know each other very well and I won't knjow anybody at the wedding as it is another end of the country.

I need advice on whether I should accept or not, I like the guy and he seems very nice but I don't know him at all so it could be a long day

also there is the issue of having to share a room with him that nite

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King Of Wishful Thinking

Abi wrote: »

Book yourself a single room for the night.

This lady is correct.

Book yourself a room as a safety net and sure if he turns out to be Ted Bundy, leg it to your own room and sleep 'till midday.

bohboh

energeticxx wrote: »

I have been asked to go to a wedding with a guy that I dont know very well. We met on a nite out and so don't know each other very well and I won't knjow anybody at the wedding as it is another end of the country.

I need advice on whether I should accept or not, I like the guy and he seems very nice but I don't know him at all so it could be a long day also there is the issue of having to share a room with him that nite

Best just to have sex with him since you think he is nice at the wedding then you wont have to worry about being afraid of sex ,If you dont like him after you dont have to marry him, just make sure he wears a johnny, wheres the damage like, In fact all Irish women should just have sex all the time, Id love it if women were like men and you wanted sex all the time as much as men do, As a man I think some women find it hard to develop sexually because women dont need an erection for sex which makes it easy for a woman to become uninterested in sex/ bored and just lye back and go through the motions. If the wedding is close by you can just head phone faking illness if it gets too much, I say go, everyone gets nervous before going to these sort of social occasions, Im sure there will be other people there like you who only know their partner & nobody else, Dont overthink it

Firefox11

bohboh wrote: »

Best just to have sex with him since you think he is nice at the wedding then you wont have to worry about being afraid of sex ,If you dont like him after you dont have to marry him, just make sure he wears a johnny, wheres the damage like, In fact all Irish women should just have sex all the time, Id love it if women were like men and you wanted sex all the time as much as men do, As a man I think some women find it hard to develop sexually because women dont need an erection for sex which makes it easy for a woman to become uninterested in sex/ bored and just lye back and go through the motions. If the wedding is close by you can just head phone faking illness if it gets too much, I say go, everyone gets nervous before going to these sort of social occasions, Im sure there will be other people there like you who only know their partner & nobody else, Dont overthink it

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[Deleted User]

It will be all fun and games until the "Grabbing" starts.

Kirby

Sauve wrote: »

Ara go for it OP - life is short, you'll probably have a great day.

You're more likely to regret the things you didnt do than those you did...

I've heard this sentiment before and I find it quite odd. I've never set myself on fire. Oddly, I don't regret not doing it.

Speaking for myself, any wedding I've ever been to has been a torturous bore......and that's when I knew the bride and groom. I can't imagine sitting through it when I didn't even know them. However it sounds as if you like him alot OP and are just looking for social approval.

Just go. You obviously want to.

Richard Hillman

As a male I can guarantee this thought has crossed his mind.

"After she's see's all the lovey dovey stuff, she would be randy as ****. Im on a sure bet"

Now I ain't gonna hate on a dawg trying to bury his bone, but it is a bit creepy to ask a girl you barely know to a wedding including overnight stay.

charlietheminxx

Ah here, I think people are taking this a bit seriously! Is it that big a deal going to a wedding with someone? Ffs go and have a laugh!

If you're not ready to sleep with the guy just be upfront about it before you go. Course since things are going well between you and all, you may change your mind after a few drinks :rolleyes:

0ph0rce0

You gotta feel bad for the Guy now, he's probably the nicest guy ever and all the stuff the posters have put in your head now

He hasn't a chance of the ride now. Shame on you guys.

biko

It's no dilemma, just don't go.
Don't you have girlfriends you can hash this out with?

Son Of A Vidic

Fr_Dougal wrote: »

Is he saying mass?

Is the OP an altar boy?

Conall Cernach

Weddings are the most Godawful load of shíte at the best of times. The fact that this guy that you barely know has asked you to one means he deserves a good slap. The added fact that you don't know the people involved means that you should probably knee him in the balls too. It being an overnighter means you should stick a couple of boots in his face while he's curled up in a ball and finally because he wants to share a room with you he should be set on fire and beaten with shovels.

So in summary polite decline but put all of the above into your eyes when you say it.

Lord Trollington

First things First. I see no reason why the OP shouldn't go. Asked to a wedding by a lad and the first thing that springs to her mind is he's :

1. He's going to ride you within an inch of your life when he gets you drunk.

2. He's not right in the head for asking someone he barely knows to a wedding in the first place.

Where is the wedding demographically? Do you have to stay overnight there?

You say you've been texting him, why not meet up a few more times before the wedding to get to know him a bit better.

I presume you're both adults but the original post sounds like you're at most 16/17.
I presume you could both stay in the same room in separate beds if needs be. Book a twin room.
Talk it out with the lad.

keysersoze0330

When you tell him about the second room, you won't have the dilemma to worry about:D

Remmy

Any wedding I've ever been to has been godawfully boring. I envisage you stuck at a table trying to make idle chit chat for a few hours with people you don't know.

Ando's Saggy Bottom

Merkin wrote: »

Mmm I'd say go for it on the proviso that he pays for a seperate room for you. It doesn't matter if you want to ride him into next week but at least have a get out clause....he could turn out to be a nightmare and I'd be MASSIVELY put off that he think it is fine to presume that you'll want to share a room with him after three dates

Why should he pay for a separate room? Anyone with any bit of decency would at least offer to pay for half a shared room or for their own room if thats what they prefer.

Caveman1

Weddings are boring its the afters that are great craic. You should just go and enjoy yourself, the guy is obviously a gentleman if you still havnt put out after 3 dates, yet he still asks you out agian :pac:

Daniel S

Kirby wrote: »

I've heard this sentiment before and I find it quite odd. I've never set myself on fire. Oddly, I don't regret not doing it.

You really don't know what your missing!

checkyabadself

It puts the lotion in the basket.

kfallon

Lexe wrote: »

Go! It's a compliment to be asked to a wedding, he's single and didn't have anyone else to ask. Just get yourself a single room, if it's not used what harm but have it there in case! Wedding are always great craic!

I'd say most of the time they are as boring as be fook......until the sectarian sing song starts in the resident's bar about 3am :pac:

Conall Cernach

kfallon wrote: »

I'd say most of the time they are as boring as be fook......until the sectarian sing song starts in the resident's bar about 3am :pac:

How many hotels have you been kicked out of now for that?

BillyMitchel

FFS why has the OP closed her account, I have a christening next week.

Snowie

Being single and given a +1 wedding invite is a pain in the ass

just got one to day but Op dont worry because its not you, as I dont text :pac:

kfallon

Conall Cernach wrote: »

How many hotels have you been kicked out of now for that?

None, I was asked back the following week by a couple of them tho :pac: