manicmonkey wrote: » Ok so I've been doing a fair bit of thinking on this subject as of late and I really don't get it why is loosing your virginity such a big deal ?! Is it down to the cathloic guilt that's instilled into us as kids ? Is it because society associates it with innocennce and purity ? Is it because there is huge pressure on people to "loose " it in a mannor thats deemed "correct" so they wont regret it ? I mean what's the story ? Just thought I might get you guys opinion on this matter ? As I for one really don't get it / see what the big deal is.... and I suppose while were here why is sex itself such a big deal, I mean it's just sex a very primal and basic need we have as human beings !?
manicmonkey wrote: » and I suppose while were here why is sex itself such a big deal, I mean it's just sex a very primal and basic need we have as human beings !?
Adyx wrote: » It's not just a need. It's a want.
Nodin wrote: » Primitive morality, really. You'll find that most of the shock/horror stuff is aimed at the female of the species.
manicmonkey wrote: » True , though you would think we would have gotten past all that ****e years ago . I mean were supposed to live in a modern , free and liberal society it really just doesn't make a whole lot of sense other than being very backward.
Dravokivich wrote: » It's rather enjoyable, the sooner you rid of your virginity, the sooner you enjoy it. Simples
HoggyRS wrote: » Sex is only a big deal if you're not getting any.
manicmonkey wrote: » Which would imply the whole of this lovery nation isn't if you were to read the media and the unfortunate recent hype arond that good awful 50 shades of grey nonsense.... :pac:
dgt wrote: » This post makes it a big deal... It obviously matters to you or you wouldn't have put it up here!
