Mammanabammana wrote: » I don't know. Because I'm not a violent person and yet I was forced into a situation where I had to use violence. I'm not used to it and I don't like it.
hondasam wrote: » well spotted, I usually am. I don't know who the real victim is, is it you or the person you beat up? Are you 100% sure he was going to attack you?
The King of Moo wrote: » How were you forced? You don't mention in your OP that he attacked you, only that he looked dodgy. Either you left out the part where he attacked you, or you attacked someone because of the look of them. Did he hit you?
Mammanabammana wrote: » Totally out of nowhere. I was walking through the underpass of the train station near where I live and a guy came out of nowhere. Now I'm well used to being approached in the street by junkies looking for money etc, but I could see in this guy's eyes that he meant business. He might even have been armed, but to my surprise, I didn't wait to find out. I have never been in a fight in my life but as this guy charged into me. something took over and I swung for him first. I managed to floor him with two punches (thanks to some Karate lessons I had years ago) and then I ran for it. But I'm home now, rattled, safe but pumped with adrenaline, starting to shake and feeling guilty! Is this normal? Has anybody else been through this?
Mike 1972 wrote: » robinph wrote: » Must have missed it in your explanation of what happened, but how exactly were you attacked again? Something about the guy charging into the OP although that could be an exxaguration and it mas more of a slight and entirely accidental bump
robinph wrote: » Must have missed it in your explanation of what happened, but how exactly were you attacked again?
WoollyRedHat wrote: » They charged at them? Now, maybe it's a cultural thing, but normally charging at someone can be seen as intimidating? Maybe the poor guy is just misunderstood, and he constantly gets floored by strangers all the time, when all he wanted to know is how much was the train ( Train guy )
Deleted User wrote: » .... A lot of people in this thread that can't read apparently. Given that this was a junkie, in an underpass, who "charged" at the OP, I think we can safely assume that he wasn't approaching him with the intention of inviting him for tea and crumpets.
slavetothegrind wrote: » op natural reaction to the situation, hope you get over it soon but if it persists in getting to you do talk to someone. Some people on here are genuinely laughable in their naievety, you should let an agressor strike first to be sure and have the moral high ground? Running away is not an option if the agressor is too close, you just present an easy back attack to them, it is of course the first option if possible.
robinph wrote: » That's just someone running at the OP, it's not an attack. Possibly the correct response in the situation but he was not attacked.
DonkeyStyle \o/ wrote: » Yeah fuck that, anyone that comes throwing shapes in a line right at you needs a good hard punch in the face. I don't even care if he was messing. He would have waited until he was right in your face, then started demanding your money/phone/whatever. You clocked him before he could open his stupid mouth. I know the kind of cunt you're talking about, good for you, fuck him, he's put in his place.
Deleted User wrote: » .... he wasn't approaching him with the intention of inviting him for tea and crumpets.
Mammanabammana wrote: » he came straight for me and there was absolute and total aggression in the way he was coming for me.
Mammanabammana wrote: » slavetothegrind wrote: » op natural reaction to the situation, hope you get over it soon but if it persists in getting to you do talk to someone. Some people on here are genuinely laughable in their naievety, you should let an agressor strike first to be sure and have the moral high ground? Running away is not an option if the agressor is too close, you just present an easy back attack to them, it is of course the first option if possible. That's exactly my point...I mean, why are people here defending the person that attacked me? And he DID attack me. I'm a big bloke, I just did what I had to do to neutralise him and get away...and yet there are people on this thread questioning me!
Mammanabammana wrote: » For fuck's sake, do I have to get on to the train operators to get a CCTV video to prove my point?
Mammanabammana wrote: » For fu[SIZE="2"]c[/SIZE]k's sake, do I have to get on to the train operators to get a CCTV video to prove my point?
WoollyRedHat wrote: » Hondasam, Hondasam, quite contrary, How does your garden grow? With silver bells and cockle shells And pretty maids all in a row. mmm, o.k so Hondasam doesn't really ryme too well with Mary, but still
Mammanabammana wrote: » Yes. I don't know if you've ever been attacked, but I knew that I suddenly had to defend myself. I don't know what he was looking for, but he came straight for me and there was absolute and total aggression in the way he was coming for me. He wasn't looking for a light for his cig, he was coming for me. I saw it in his face, his eyes, his body, everything, Have you ever been attacked, hondasam?
WoollyRedHat wrote: » Jesus, control your anger
The King of Moo wrote: » I believe you, I just think your thread title is a bit sensationalistic as he never managed to actually attack you.
hondasam wrote: » I am contrary because I questioned what the OP said, I'm just trying to see what really happened. I have not been attacked no. You are assuming he was going to attack you, you are not sure he was. Are you?
hondasam wrote: » Yes. Did you report it? Are you trying to prove a point or were you attacked?
Mammanabammana wrote: » Hondasam, take a leap of faith here and go with me on this. I was attacked, I did what I had to do to get away and no more than that. I am not a violent or angry person. Why are you questioning me?