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Mixed-race couples

Jude_2010

Thing is there this girl at school that I'm into and she's into me too but to cut a long story short I'm getting the feeling she's reluctant cause I'm black (i dont mean because she's had bad experiences before, just cause of the whole mixed thing) and I understand that, sort of..
We do get a couple stares when were together, which pisses me off cause, I mean what's the big deal here haha.

Basically, lets say you're a parent and your daughter says she's dating a black guy. What would be your first reaction. May be you've been in that situation before.
Also any advice would be appreciated very much

Thanks for reading

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My ex was a sprinter but I was only ever good at the egg and spoon.

It didn't work out.

kumate_champ07

ignore them, if you like each other go for it

Super-Rush

Oh jesus not in After Hours.

Oddjob

It would depend on your background.

Guill

It's like having a bowl of half Krispies and half Cocoa Pops. Not for me but i wouldn't complain if i seen someone eating it.

Unless they were my Krispies...

Pherekydes

Race is just a social construct.

biko

As long as you/he is a good boyfriend that's all that matters.

Ghost Buster

Jude_2010 wrote: »

Thing is there this girl at school that I'm into and she's into me too but to cut a long story short I'm getting the feeling she's reluctant cause I'm black (i dont mean because she's had bad experiences before, just cause of the whole mixed thing) and I understand that, sort of..
We do get a couple stares when were together, which pisses me off cause, I mean what's the big deal here haha.

Basically, lets say you're a parent and your daughter says she's dating a black guy. What would be your first reaction. May be you've been in that situation before.
Also any advice would be appreciated very much

Thanks for reading

Im a father of a daughter (7 weeks so purely hypothetical:D) and i would not give a fiddlers. in fact i would be delighted about it.....provided the guy was decent. Good luck with it...

daz801

Pherekydes wrote: »

Race is just a social construct.

No, race is a classification system used to categorize humans into large and distinct populations or groups by heritable phenotypic characteristics, geographic ancestry, physical appearance, and ethnicity.

My name is URL

Each to their own

jaffacakesyum

OP, ignore what anyone else thinks. As long as the two of you are comfortable that's all that matters

TheZohanS

Now are you black or just really, really dark navy blue?

'Cos I'll be damned if ima gonna let my daughter date a smurf. :mad:

alchemist33

I wouldn't mind if my son went out with a black girl, as long as she was a decent sort. But that's not relevant to you.
Go for it, man.

mikemac1

Jude_2010 wrote: »

I'm getting the feeling she's reluctant cause I'm black

If you are able to mind read and understand girls you're a better man then most :cool:

There could be any number of reasons you're seeing reluctance, you've focused on one.
An obvious one but might not be the reason at all

People will stare at you for the clothes you wear or the way you cut your hair. This isn't London where nobody cares

El Weirdo

Think we should start a sweep on the first "I'm not racist, but..." post.

Jude_2010

El Pistolero wrote: »

Oh jesus not in After Hours.

hahahaha I wasn't really bothered looking for a suitable category. so I just stuck with this .. sorry bout that

Oddjob

Anyway go for it, and if you can convince your lesbian sister to shack up with a Roma gypsy, you get made the Emperor of Boards.

Your traveller mother will be so proud.

Micky Dolenz

How hot is she?

John Doe1

Maybe in west leitrim, people would judge but Swords? I think you will be fine, if you like her that much it shouldn't matter:)

Agento.T.o

Pherekydes wrote: »

Race is just a social construct.

Social construct is determined by Race Guess your White only Whites go around discussing how they don't even exist. O.P if your just an individual couple then happy to you but you may lead the way for the destruction of the White&Irish genotype in this country Would you be happy knowing that you where the first of many to have contributed to Irish Genocide?

Magill

I'd imagine the only reason you get some people staring is because its just not very common here yet.... imagine a white guy walking down the road with a black girl in say... kenya... don't you think everyone would stare ? Much more so than your experiencing. Just have to get used to it until everyone else has.

Jude_2010

TheZohan wrote: »

Now are you black or just really, really dark navy blue?

'Cos I'll be damned if ima gonna let my daughter date a smurf. :mad:

I'm Danzel Washington black ..
hows that for you?

Pherekydes

daz801 wrote: »

No, race is a classification system used to categorize humans into large and distinct populations or groups by heritable phenotypic characteristics, geographic ancestry, physical appearance, and ethnicity.

That's still a social construct.

Super-Rush

Jude_2010 wrote: »

hahahaha I wasn't really bothered looking for a suitable category. so I just stuck with this .. sorry bout that

Tis your call.

Just warning you.

So as my esteemed co mod Micky said, how hot is she?

Pherekydes

Agento.T.o wrote: »

Social construct is determined by Race Guess your White only Whites go around discussing how they don't even exist.

Is there some punctuation missing from this?

El Weirdo

Agento.T.o wrote: »

Social construct is determined by Race Guess your White only Whites go around discussing how they don't even exist. O.P if your just an individual couple then happy to you but you may lead the way for the destruction of the White&Irish genotype in this country Would you be happy knowing that you where the first of many to have contributed to Irish Genocide?

Give it a fucking rest, will you?

Dudess

Agento.T.o wrote: »

Pherekydes wrote: »

Race is just a social construct.

Social construct is determined by Race Guess your White only Whites go around discussing how they don't even exist. O.P if your just an individual couple then happy to you but you may lead the way for the destruction of the White&Irish genotype in this country Would you be happy knowing that you where the first of many to have contributed to Irish Genocide?

:pac:

Coriolanus

No daughter of mine is going out with a black lad.

Or a white or yellow or red or anything, she's going into the convent at 16.

[Deleted User]

I have a friend who had a problem like this. His girlfriend had to struggle with the fact he was from the north side. She felt her friends looked down on her for this. Eventually they broke up. They were both white. Best thing my mate ever did was get away from her.

Crazy Horse 6

Once she goes black she'll never look back.