Long Term Louth wrote: » It has done for those who have found it successful.
Sarkosy wrote: » You have already tried your terms many times without success, will the next time be any different?
AA wrote: "The program is perfect; it's just people who are imperfect." "Don't criticize the program." "The program never fails; people just fail the program." "You have a thinking problem, not a drinking problem." "Your best thinking got you here." "You need a checkup from the neck up." "Stop Your Stinkin' Thinkin'." "Stuff Your Feelings." "Feelings Aren't Facts." "Principles Before Personalities." "A person with one eye on yesterday and one eye on tomorrow is living cockeyed." "Be Part Of The Solution, Not The Problem." "N.U.T.S. — Not Using the Steps." "Have A Good Day Unless You've Made Other Plans." "Let Go Of Old Ideas."3 "P.L.O.M. = Poor Little Old Me." "You're only as sick as your secrets." "We're All Here Because We're Not All There." "Some people are so successful in recovery, they turn out to be almost as good as they thought they were while drinking." "Take the cotton out of your ears and stick it in your mouth." "Sit Down, Shut Up, and Learn Something." "Alcoholics can't afford to have resentments." "Opinions are like ass-holes — everybody's got one, and most of them stink." "He suffers from terminal uniqueness." "Get humble." "There is a God and you are not Him."
realies wrote: » Most of us have enough of a struggle with alcohol without struggling with whose recovery group is best or worst. I have said it before - If it works for you great, hold onto it, if it doesn't then try another approach. Think of the recovery scene as a restaurant with a large menu - choose what suits and respect other people's choice. __________________
herosa wrote: » Correct.Real alkies cannot cut back or cut down. If you can do that you were a heavy boozer not an alcoholic. Its amazing how many people mix the two up.
Wattle wrote: » This is not quite true. If you go into rehab, attend a treatment centre, or are hospitalised due to drinking you are heavily steered towards 12 Step groups. There are no alternatives presented.
Wattle wrote: » I'm saying that the alcoholic who presents himself in these channels is told only to attend 12 step groups. No alternate is presented or even discussed. It's AA or nothing.
jonnyrudyard wrote: » ....or you're making a severe oversimplification. That's like saying "if people who eat a lot of spinach live on average as long as people who don't, spinach has no health value." PS I have no opinion on AA's effectiveness one way or the other. Just an observation on your line of reasoning.
RussellTuring wrote: » The person I was responding to said they would be in favour of AA because some people who use it remain sober. Can you show me how my response was incorrect rather than making an inaccurate analogy?