schween wrote: » Somebody got asked for spare change and decides to go make a thread on Boards about it
GuessWho2009 wrote: » I really feel sorry for the homeless on our streets. usually same people that are there and ya see them on the wet nights in door ways. there is a guy that always asks for 60 or 70 cent. why he asks for that figure i dunno but usually throw him a fiver. fiver isnt going to make or break me and he def needs it more then me.
softmee wrote: » I pay for your social services too, but it doesnt mean i dont understand people in need. Its not only black and white -you know! I dont mean i like it, it is annoying sometimes- ok and i dont usually give them any money, but saying its shocking is just childish.
Dan_Solo wrote: » Who said it was shocking?
JustMary wrote: » Some of the lads you see on the street at night are there because they're too drunk etc to get into the Fairgreen that night. By giving them a fiver, you're really just giving them the means to get too drunk to get in tomorrow night as well. If you must do something, buy them food or coffee, don't give cash, ever, or you're just being part of the problem.
LadyMayBelle wrote: » Ya coulda said 'no, sorry I've no change' or whatever, would be nice to even knowledge him. Surprised that you came across someone you thought was a drug addict in Galway? Where have you been living? People battle with drug problems everywhere.. Apologies if I sound ranty but the chap might have wanted a few pence from you for whatever he chooses to spend it on, just as much as he wanted to 'do something more sinister'.
KevR wrote: » Agree. When I was in Birmingham a few years ago, a guy came up to me and my friend asking for money for "food". He told us a big sob story about how he hadn't eaten in over 24hrs and he just wanted money for "food". My friend had an unopened bottle of water and a banana in his bag - he offered these to the guy begging. The beggar said no, he only wanted money! If you were really starving then you would not turn down perfectly good food. He more than likely wanted money for drink or drugs.
Dan_Solo wrote: » Had this before from a door-to-door beggar. (She was African with kids in tow, but that's not to say I haven't had Irish travellers at my door too). Beggar: "I have no money to feed my children." Me: "I'll give you some food." Beggar: "No, I want money." Me: "Go **** yourself."
Deleted User wrote: » So, unfortunately sometimes being polite to them won't work either.
softmee wrote: » So, you think if he didnt want food he wanted money for alkohol? What if he didnt have enough money to dress his kids or buy them books for school? Is food everythink what he could ask for? If he wasnt hungry he should just eat anyway what you have offered just to please you, yes?