th3 s1aught3r wrote: » I hate the way people are always fawning on women who are pregnant or have a baby "oh, isnt it a miracle" No its not a miracle actually, its fairly simple biology, your not special at all
Millicent wrote: » Then there are those who are out of jobs who think, "feck it. Might as well do it now." Can't understand that reasoning for the life of me. !
stovelid wrote: » Possibly that the last baby boom was during the last major recession in Ireland and, as far as can be ascertained, the majority of babies born back then don't appear to have died of starvation, exposure or other factors. Not even the ones born into poor families like me?
Millicent wrote: » Hey, I was born into a dually unemployed family in the height of the last recession in the 80s and I'm fairly well fed. :pac: I wasn't criticising. Just wondering why people would elect for the additional stress if they've lost their jobs and money is tight. It wouldn't be for me, was all I was saying. Not saying people have to be loaded to have a kid, just that *I* wouldn't like to do it without a financial cushion. Different horses, etc.
th3 s1aught3r wrote: » Its not the first thing you would think of "oh ****, recession.... better get pregnant"
stovelid wrote: » I'm no statistician (so this is just conjecture) but I would assume that it possibly to do with the products of the last baby boom approaching the age where they have to decide whether or not to have kids. I assume if people reach an age where they have to go for it, they'll be forced to do it so even if their financial circumstances aren't what they hoped for...
Irishcrx wrote: » Have to agree, in work it's every second week with such and such is pregnant, such and such just had a baby blah blah blah....sorry but it gets ****ing boring. Luckily none of my immediate friends have been knocked up in the last two years!
Millicent wrote: » Exactly! I was talking to someone who was telling me a lot of her friends were "accidentally" getting pregnant recently, without discussing it with the working partner. These girls are quite well to do and, apparently, (according to this friend anyway), they think they might as well ride out the recession and get that box ticked off, then return to work once the market picks up. That was more the reasoning I was thinking of, not two people sitting down and discussing the pros and cons, even though one is unemployed.
stovelid wrote: » I'm no statistician (so this is just conjecture) but I would assume that it possibly to do with the products of the last baby boom approaching the age where they have to decide whether or not to have kids. Maybe it's just those born in the early 80s hitting their 30s and the economic environment is a smaller contributing factor. I assume if people reach an age where they have to go for it, they'll be forced to do it so even if their financial circumstances aren't what they hoped for... Probably all shite.... :pac:
southsiderosie wrote: » :eek:
topper75 wrote: » What do people buy in their 40s? I need a get-rich-quick scheme.
CathyMoran wrote: » am over 6 weeks pregnant with my last child.
candy-gal1 wrote: » Are all these women under 30?
Its the people who think that having children is the be all and end all and that the people who have kids deserve more respect (and money) than others that p*** me off!
What happened to people just liking their life as is, once you have a good job, nice place to live, savings are happy with your lot then whats the problem?!
Grimreaper666 wrote: » The trick is to have loads of kids, at least 6 or 7, and you'll make a fortune on the social welfare/childrens allowance
Neyite wrote: » Anyone else's office have The Baby Chair? we have a Baby Chair in the office and everyone who has sat in it gets knocked up. :eek: one year there were 5 out of 20 staff preggers. they sat in that chair. i never sat in it. ive no kids.