Chaotic_Forces wrote: » Um.. he quoted my post and it was a misunderstanding. You have nothing to do with it.
Thaedydal wrote: » After what happened to Ms Gale, not a hope in hell. /peers at Chaotic_Forces closely to make sure they are not a flying monkey. I get your point overheal but it varies from forum to forum and situation to situation and in this case it's not my call, it was Lolths and they made it. It wasn't meant to be a "dick" move.
Insect Overlord wrote: » Are you deciding who can/cannot respond to posts in this thread now? Overheal's point, while it may have been posted in response to one particular misunderstanding, is still valid as the events he describes did indeed happen. Several people have already pointed it out. LoLth has explained that it's already been reviewed though, and has given a very valid reason for not taking action on it, so I don't know why it's still being argued...
Thaedydal wrote: » and this is for you Aidric
Aidric wrote: » Would you care to explain this post?
Chaotic_Forces wrote: » You're joking, right? It's easy to understand he said "unless you're demanding". You took that as "HE SAID I WAS DEMANDING! GRR! SNARL! RAGE!"* so he made light of the situation. *maybe a tad bit OOT Point is, you got hostile and wound up for no reason so he pointed it out.
Chaotic_Forces wrote: » No I was just saying that it was a complete misunderstanding and it seems like he was trying argue my point for me... except he never understood what I meant.
Chaotic_Forces wrote: » Point is, you got hostile and wound up for no reason so he pointed it out.
oscarBravo wrote: » Something to do with consistency and hobgoblins, I would imagine. I didn't - Thaed did
Aidric wrote: » I already explained earlier that my core point still stood, misunderstanding as to your original post or not. I wasn't trying to argue any point on your behalf, thanks. Hostile and wound up? Eh, wut? I think it's you that's joking, right? Besides I took that picture as being a troll pic. Hence my reason for questioning it.
Chaotic_Forces wrote: » Huh? I'm a bit lost. Well I don't mean to offend you but I'd be very thankful if you stopped trying to argue on my behalf. I see you were trying to back me up "assuming that was my point" and I'm thankful.
Chaotic_Forces wrote: » You didn't need to get so agressive with anyone at all, like you did.
Aidric wrote: » Lost is right. What part of 'I wasn't trying to argue any point on your behalf' didn't you understand? The bottom line is I was coming on to the thread to make my point. I saw your post and quoted it because I mistook it for the same thrust of the point I was about to make. You then explained your post. I said fine but my core point still stood. You can drop that line and all. I already explained to you that I was neither aggressive nor hostile.
oscarBravo wrote: » Something to do with consistency and hobgoblins, I would imagine.
oscarBravo wrote: » I didn't - Thaed did
Chaotic_Forces wrote: » I'll explain a bit more then... The part of me being confused was about the post I quoted. THEN I quoted YOUR post and said my piece about that. Follow me so far?
Aidric wrote: » Forget it. I'm off to have a chat with a wall.
Aidric wrote: » "The more things change, the more they remain the same" Alphonse Kerr Goodnight and God bless.
Chaotic_Forces wrote: » We aren't birck walls here on the boards.
P. Breathnach wrote: » True. If you bounce something off a brick wall, it comes back at a fairly predictable angle.
oscarBravo wrote: » ...and the moderator of this forum has explained why he let it slide.
OutlawPete wrote: » This is quite unbelievable, yet again we have *some* moderators and *some* members of Admin tag teaming up to frustrate a user with a genuine complaint. How much longer is this crap going to be allowed in Feedback? No they have NOT, did you even look at the links that Aidric posted? Perhaps if you spent a little more time paying attention to the content of a user's feedback posts and a little less time trying to make sure you have backed up a fellow moderator, we might actually get some where with moderation complaints. LoLth's post addressed why it was tolerated that Thaedydal called Winters and Sir Digby "trolls", it did not address why she also told JaneyBaby to "stop trolling", which was one of the points that Aidric was trying to make. The reasoning given by LoLth was a nonsense anyway. Thaed only jumped in on that thread and called those two users trolls as it suited her as she was in full agreement with Liah, which she is entitled to be of course, but to act as if she was just lending a hand and making sure the thread flowed along is laughable, do you really think users are that gullible? OB, if you paid the attention to Aidric's post that it deserved, you would have seen that he also linked to a post where Thaed told a female user, that had an opinion that coincidently was diametrically opposed to hers, to "stop trolling".http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=68036337&postcount=138 Now, you want to tell me how exactly LoLth's reply could possibly have addressed this post, when Aidric hadn't even linked to it at that stage? Thaed posted that reply because she disagreed with JaneyBaby, plain and simple and if anybody thinks that there was any other reason for it, they are kidding themselves. Tell me Thae, do you see everybody that disagrees with you as a Troll?
OutlawPete wrote: » Thaed only jumped in on that thread and called those two users trolls as it suited her as she was in full agreement with Liah, which she is entitled to be of course, but to act as if she was just lending a hand and making sure the thread flowed along is laughable, do you really think users are that gullible?
OutlawPete wrote: » OB, if you paid the attention to Aidric's post that it deserved, you would have seen that he also linked to a post where Thaed told a female user, that had an opinion that coincidently was diametrically opposed to hers, to "stop trolling".
OutlawPete wrote: » Tell me Thae, do you see everybody that disagrees with you as a Troll?
Thaedydal wrote: » foolish consistency only :P It's a hobgoblin as picture on hobgoblin ale by the Wychwood Brewry. It's pretty tasty but I have yet to try some of the King Goblin brew.http://www.wychwood.co.uk/beers.html
OutlawPete wrote: » LoLth, with all due respect you are (and some others) are totally missing the point here.
The "don't be a dick" rule is repeated around this forum on an almost constant basis and yet here in Feedback it seems to be forgotten about.
Aidric has been very respectful to Moderators and Admin in this thread and yet last night he was stonewalled and belittled to the point where he said he had enough as nobody was listening to him, that is unacceptable.
It happens regularly on Feedback and I have pointed it out a few times this month alone. I am not saying that Admin and Moderators have to agree with all users when they complain in Feedback but a little respect wouldn't go amiss, even if those users don't return the favour.
It is cringe inducing to see a user make a complaint, then for them to be treated as if their complaint has no grounds, jokes to then be made, the inevitable backslapping that then usually breaks out and ultimately a thread that becomes all about sarcastic in-jokes about how there is Mod conspiracy.
I think there are certain Moderators on Boards that know well how to drown out user's complaints and are well versed and subtlety making users look as if they are being unreasonable and that their complaints have no foundation.
It's all in the language and tone that is used, like how it was insinuated last night that Aidric was "demanding" things and how his complaint was addressed already and so he must be being unreasonable to try and continue the debate, right? Wrong.
He didn't demand anything, in fact he was very measured and provided links to exactly what he had issues with but as I point out, this is just what happens lately to users in Feedback that have complaints about Modertaors. Right or wrong, users should be listened to and their grievances should be examined.
If Moderators and Boards users have something to add to the debate other than jokes and backing up Mods for the sake of it, fine - let them contribute what they feel needs to be to have a balanced discussion.
If Admin then go on to find that the user's complaint had no merit, then just post so and the reason why they came to that conclusion.
I don't think anybody could disagree or find fault with that system, we all want to see intelligent debate here, that is what it should be all about.
What we don't need are users being belittled or treated like trolls for little or no reason other than to make them appear as if their complaints have little or no basis.
Thaedydal wrote: » I called out a poster who said that there are feminazis looking at boards purely to find things to be offended about
Thaedydal wrote: Stupid sexist remarks are stupid and people who use them are lazy imho. I see no reason why such sexist remarks can't be stamped out like Yore Ma was.
Thaedydal wrote: » ..and you are reading things into my actions which were not present.
Thaedydal wrote: I called out a poster who said that there are feminazis looking at boards purely to find things to be offended about, and I called them out on that bull**** and asked for links. Calling out a poster is now back seat modding?
Thaedydal wrote: Dear OutlawPete ...
Thaedydal wrote: » that is a picture of a Hobgoblin not a troll.
Thaedydal wrote: » Aldric mention consistency and I used the picture to reference's a quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson - ""A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds..." I explain this was a hobgoblin in a post you seem to have failed to read which is only a few above your last.
"Cocaine made people deaf, it made people dead and it made people real obnoxious."
OutlawPete wrote: » Do you honestly think anyone is buying that, seriously - how dumb do you think people are exactly? You posted that photo to imply that Aidric was a Troll, plain and simple.
LoLth wrote: » Aidric made a comment about the moderating of a specific post and alluded to it being favouritism of some description.
LoLth wrote: » And the "dont be a dick" rule is open to interpretation. Is challenging someone's assertion being a dick? Is arguing a point beign a dick?
LoLth wrote: » You think people are being a dick to Aidric, I'm not so sure.
LoLth wrote: » .. it seems several people assumed it was a troll. Thaed then clarified what the depiction was.
LoLth wrote: » I see Thaed engaging in a discussion..
LoLth wrote: » .. if he'd spouted nonsensical vitriol I doubt the response would have been the same.
oscarBravo wrote: » I guess she's a liar, and I'm an idiot. Thank you for clarifying that.