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What is it that floats your boat?

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Boys and girls, what exactly is it about the opposite/same sex that gets the blood flowing. Is it always physical to some extent, or is it a case that the more esoteric aspects of a person are the ones that come to the fore.

Is it possible to get to a stage whereby the physical attributes of a person become immaterial, or will there always have to be some level of physical attraction?

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fonecrusher1

starbelgrade wrote: »

Someone who eats less than me. That way, there's always a bit of food left in the fridge if I feel peckish.

Sounds fair enough fatso.

Wade in the Sea

fonecrusher1 wrote: »

Sounds fair enough fatso.

Fridge envy?

ElaElaElano

Pretty, intelligent girls who dig obscure indie movies and are just a little bit strange. Think Zooey Deschanel's character in 500 days of Summer. I think if I ever met a pretty girl in a lift who just said 'I love the Smiths' and started singing, I'd pluck an engagement ring out of the sky and go down on one knee there and then.

I can't find myself attracted to the self obsessive, god's gift to the world types. Doesn't matter if they look like supermodels, just not feeling that buzz at all. Brains over boobs for me every time- cue much AH ridicule

AnonoBoy

ElaElaElano wrote: »

Pretty, intelligent girls who dig obscure indie movies and are just a little bit strange. Think Zooey Deschanel's character in 500 days of Summer. I think if I ever met a pretty girl in a lift who just said 'I love the Smiths' and started singing, I'd pluck an engagement ring out of the sky and go down on one knee there and then.

"The Manic Pixie Dream Girl exists solely in the fevered imaginations of sensitive writer-directors to teach broodingly soulful young men to embrace life and its infinite mysteries and adventures. The Manic Pixie Dream Girl is an all-or-nothing-proposition. Audiences either want to marry her instantly (despite The Manic Pixie Dream Girl being, you know, a fictional character) or they want to commit grievous bodily harm against them and their immediate family."

Manic Pixie Dream Girls

But I know where you're coming from dude.

lilminx

I have to agree with the 'make me laugh and I'm yours' brigade and I find that if they don't have a personality, I get bored - simples. I also think a good old fashioned debate is great foreplay so a guy has to have his opinions yanno!

But yeah - physically, it has to be there in some way, shape or form, but it's not always that the instant 'pwhoar' connection actually works in the long term but someone you know for a while can one day just look at you and make yer knees tremble - attraction is a funny old game really when ye think about it.

cournioni

A nice aul arse...

AAAAAAAHHH

ElaElaElano wrote: »

Pretty, intelligent girls who dig obscure indie movies and are just a little bit strange. Think Zooey Deschanel's character in 500 days of Summer. I think if I ever met a pretty girl in a lift who just said 'I love the Smiths' and started singing, I'd pluck an engagement ring out of the sky and go down on one knee there and then.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manic_pixie_dream_girl

Damn, beaten to it.

ElaElaElano

AnonoBoy wrote: »

"The Manic Pixie Dream Girl exists solely in the fevered imaginations of sensitive writer-directors to teach broodingly soulful young men to embrace life and its infinite mysteries and adventures. The Manic Pixie Dream Girl is an all-or-nothing-proposition. Audiences either want to marry her instantly (despite The Manic Pixie Dream Girl being, you know, a fictional character) or they want to commit grievous bodily harm against them and their immediate family."

Manic Pixie Dream Girls

But I know where you're coming from dude.

No they exist, they definitely exist. I'm going to stand outside cornucopia all day, tenner bets I find one. I know, I know, pics when it happens. And it will.

You'll see

Kiera

I like tall, funny, clever guys.

AnonoBoy

ElaElaElano wrote: »

No they exist, they definitely exist. I'm going to stand outside cornucopia all day, tenner bets I find one. I know, I know, pics when it happens. And it will.

You'll see

They do exist. Unfortunately in the real world 'kooky' often just turns out to be 'mentally unstable' or 'selfish attention whore'. God damn it. :mad:

Gummy Panda

A sorts of different combinations

There is no steady fast rule for Gummy

ElaElaElano

AnonoBoy wrote: »

They do exist. Unfortunately in the real world 'kooky' often just turns out to be 'mentally unstable' or 'selfish attention whore'. God damn it. :mad:

I'm a mentally unstable, selfish attention manwhore so it works for me. I'm ok with that.

stovelid

Micky Dolenz wrote: »

so a horse walks into a bar......:P

and says, "ouch".

bonerm

Cuteness. You can be tall or short, fat or skinny , big boobed or flat as an ironing board. Nice face > everything else. Oh yeah voice (not necessarily accent) is another one. The right voice is a killer. The wrong one a deal-breaker.

phill106

xxchloexx wrote: »

Best looking man/woman you've ever seen in your opinion ? mine would be

SHe is indeed hot. And it is hot that you find her hot!
Hotness all around!

Duggy747

Eh, I like my girls to have a good personality and a bit of a dark, twisted sense of humour. I get to have more fun with them that way. The eyes usually seal the deal for me, then :pac:

They can't be too small though as I'm fairly stretched myself and my poor back would be destroyed.

That or the minimum requirement being that she has a pulse...............though that's not strictly enforced..............*cough*

bonerm

Kiera wrote: »

I like tall, funny, clever guys.

Not picky at all are ya?

stovelid

Not readily quantifiable.

I like compassion, intelligence and eyes but really it's just down to that something: no use in trying to classify it.

Kiera

bonerm wrote: »

Not picky at all are ya?

That's not being picky at all. I think i'm very easy to please

Abrasax

stovelid wrote: »

Not readily quantifiable.

I like compassion, intelligence and eyes but really it's just down to that something: no use in trying to classify it.

What Stove says.
I like a little je ne sais quoi.

kiwi123

guys with broad shoulders and who are cool goofy...sold!

pickarooney

Gotta be good-looking, first and foremost, then about 12 things else besides.

Sanjuro

Personality wise, a sense of humour and intelligence.

Physically- eyes. A big, gorgeous pair of eye knock me right out.

And here come the FYP quotes...

bonerm

Sanjuro wrote: »

Personality wise, a sense of humour and intelligence.

Physically- eyes. A big, gorgeous pair of eyeS knock me right out.

And here come the FYP quotes...

FYP

Wibbs

Personality: Easygoing. No dramalamas thanks. Affectionate. Intelligent.

Body: Nice face, big eyes, the usual. Nice bum, good legs. small waist. Prefer thinner women. Not that pushed on bewbs TBH. So long as there's something there. The Irish(and British) lads seem obsessed with the bewbage, so Im outa whack there. That said IME Irish women tend to be much more chesty than say the latins on average, so maybe that's where it comes from?

thebigbiffo

i'm a leg man (especially in a pair of killer heels).

when those gillette venus ads come on telly i practically wet meself

Hank_Jones

i.need.a.job wrote: »

nice smiles, eyes ... big strong arms.. funny .. be themselves,...an smell of nice after shave like hugo boss or joop mmmmm

Aftershave? Isn't that a bit ghay?

Good luck.

Azureus

I like a guy who smiles lots! So thats defo the first and most important thing for me. Spose its a mix of looks and personality in itself then

Dudess

ElaElaElano wrote: »

Pretty, intelligent girls who dig obscure indie movies and are just a little bit strange. Think Zooey Deschanel's character in 500 days of Summer. I think if I ever met a pretty girl in a lift who just said 'I love the Smiths' and started singing, I'd pluck an engagement ring out of the sky and go down on one knee there and then.

Actually I was at a gig recently with a girl just like that - friend of friends. I know I'm being mean, but she was really, really annoying.

Her "kookiness" just grated.

Personally I've been an "indie chick" since I was about 12 but never bought into being overly quirky, even if I am a little bit arty... plus, Jaysus there's nothing wrong with a bit of glamour instead of jeans and t-shirts day in day out. Although one's own personal style of glamour is the best - e.g. Róisín Murphy's.

cournioni wrote: »

A nice aul arse...

LOL

stovelid

I love people who are genuinely a little different, eccentric or quirky, but people with a self-consciously zany/kooky schtick get on my tits. Especially if they're old enough to know better.

Being a little different is an abstruse quality and unless you're a teenager, it's nothing to do with liking certain bands or clothes, or even being 'alternative' in the accepted (and utterly hackneyed) subcultural sense.

Have to upfront and not lie, but I love breasts as well. Genuinely, and not in the bewbs! answer way.