Darlughda wrote: » But, nontheless it got me thinking, is it okay to make cruel judgements and more seriously, life discriminatory decisions against someone because of their weight?
Darlughda wrote: » I personally find the weight issue really hard to bring up with friends who are obese.
Darlughda wrote: » Well, at least you lot who have replied so far are being honest about it, AH style or not, nonetheless, being weight heavy is not necessarily a result of an unhealthy lifestyle. Even if it is, who the hell are any of you to judge another person for that?
Darlughda wrote: » Nonetheless, am thinking are fat people the new legitimate target for any kind of discrimination?
Trashbat wrote: » I think weight discrimination is possibly more damaging, as there is a school of though in existence that a person's weight issues are their own fault, which allows for potential employers to justify their discrimination to themselves, thus legitimising it.
Aids By Google wrote: » It is a God given right. Why can't people judge people? I know one employer, not me, obviously, who wouldn't hire people who played for a footy team due to them always having training or injuries or a match.
RMD wrote: » If it's not their fault then who's is it? I never made them shove food down their throat while refusing them the right to exercise.
RMD wrote: » If it's not their fault then who's is it?
The_Minister wrote: » Meh. People are frequently overweight due to underlying medical or psychological issues, but tbh people naturally judge on appearance.
Dudess wrote: » They could have been fed the wrong foods and too much of them as a child by well-meaning or lazy parents. In the case of extremely overweight people, I'd imagine this is quite likely.
Millicent wrote: » TBH, there's a lot of things which can influence weight. Certain illnesses, depression and other psychological conditions, childbirth, a busy lifestyle, low income etc. etc. etc. Or maybe they just enjoy their food? Nothing wrong with that IMO unless they are seriously overweight and putting their health at risk.
RMD wrote: » Yes true, but once they reach adulthood I don't consider that as an excuse anymore as they have the power to change it. If they don't, well that's just lazy.
RMD wrote: » I How does low income effect weight? Very few of those above I consider a valid reason, all you've thought about there is trying to fit in some exercise as a solution. The real solution to weight management is eating healthy, which is often also cheaper. Eat healthy and you wont gain fat, eat poorly while exercising and you'll see little difference. Suppose we should clarify this. Are we talking stocky fat or obese fat?
starbelgrade wrote: » I worked with a guy once who was exremely obese. He slipped in the office once, cut his leg & gravy came out.
RMD wrote: » I'd put it down as a low minority in todays age of fast food and lazyness. Out of my "fat" friends they're all just lazy, no medical condition causing it.But no. Some people I know gain weight really easily while others dont regardless of lifestyle and eating habits. I'm not talking about someone who eats 3 takeaways a day not moving from the telly, but overweight people I know who try their best to eat healthily but are unfortunate enough to just gather weight from living the kind of lifestlye that I do and other people who are naturally slim do. How does low income effect weight?Easily. Burgers and chips and processed frozen foods from Aldi and LiDL cost a lot less than trying to feed a family from freshly sourced ingredients and organic stuff. Suppose we should clarify this. Are we talking stocky fat or obese fat?
The_Minister wrote: » Meh. People are frequently overweight due to underlying medical or psychological issues.
mikom wrote: » Yo mammas so fat...... that she might suffer from heart problems later in life and should probably consult a dietician before any serious damage is done.
Millicent wrote: » Actually, low-income has been found to often have a direct correlation to weight problems, especially in the US. Families that can't afford to spend much on food will often go for cheaper alternatives which may be laced with unhealthy ingredients and additives. And you really wouldn't classify psychological or physical illness as a valid reason? Seriously? You don't think that could maybe classified as a little bit arrogant and presumptuous? Obese fat, I'm torn on. I was always very open-minded about it til I went to Florida and DisneyWorld. I was shocked. But then again, food addictions are real problems for some and who am I to judge?