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tudlytops

Why is it that so many people seam to think that unless you drink yourself stupid you can't enjoy a good day or nite out?

I rarely drink and in my whole life got drunk twice and didn't enjoy the experience one bit.

What so good about not remembering anything, making a fool of oneself, fighting, drink driving, etc, etc and feeling crap the next day?

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Local-womanizer

lugha wrote: »

Well I do drink. And whatever about you, there are a few testimonies here from some folk whose friends do seem to be excessively concerned with what they are drinking. This is part of what I see as the immaturity. If we were a bit more grown up, those who wanted to drink would, and those that didn't would not, and as you say, nobody would give a s***. But a lot of drinkers seemingly do.

I agree that there is an immuturity towards drink in this country,probably because so many people are drinking underage.

I would be concerned about a friend who was drinking 24/7. Otherwise Iam not,and likewise them with me. At the end of the day we are adults,its our own responsibility. We all might get in a few scraps here or there but we just get on with our lives in the morning.

Maybe drinkers here are pissed off because they always hearing from non-drinkers about the damage and all that sh1te.I just hate these "moral" rampagers who nag and nag.

Anyway,everybody enjoy the holiday,Iam away to the pub:D:D

Agricola

Lads in college used to drive me mad with this attitude of "no point in having a drink if you're not getting drunk" I enjoy one or two pints of plain when the mood in on me, so once in a while if we had a free class or it was coming up to mid-term or Xmas hols etc (with no study pressure) id suggest a pint in the college bar. I thought I had grown a second head with the looks I used to get from people. They just thought drinking to get completely twisted was the only way and it was a waste of time and money otherwise. Pretty sad really.
Of course these same people told me they hate the taste of the stuff but do it as a means to an end. So that explains that.

I see where the non drinkers here are coming from. Its common to be on the receiving end of constant nagging/slagging if you're drinkin coke all night. When Ive had afew myself, I know ive pestered friends to have a drink. The Irish definitly use alcohol as a social crutch. We feel we wont have as good a time if we're not all well oiled, and with the best of intentions we dont want our friends to miss out on what we think will be a better night out.

The sad thing is theres alot of truth in that imo. Some of the most memorable times Ive had with friends on a night out was when we were all near enough pished. Some of the worst nights was when we werent....

ddef

tudlytops wrote: »

What so good about not remembering anything, making a fool of oneself, fighting, drink driving, etc, etc and feeling crap the next day?

because it makes us ****ing cool!

[Deleted User]

Agricola wrote: »

Lads in college used to drive me mad with this attitude of "no point in having a drink if you're not getting drunk" I enjoy one or two pints of plain when the mood in on me, so once in a while if we had a free class or it was coming up to mid-term or Xmas hols etc (with no study pressure) id suggest a pint in the college bar. I thought I had grown a second head with the looks I used to get from people. They just thought drinking to get completely twisted was the only way and it was a waste of time and money otherwise. Pretty sad really.
Of course these same people told me they hate the taste of the stuff but do it as a means to an end. So that explains that.

What are you on about? Just because you don't like the feeling of being drunk, doesn't mean others don't. People drink, take drugs, fuk, smoke fags, get massages and do skydives because of what it feels like.. They like the buzz it gives them.

If it's "sad" for someone to like the feeling of being drunk, I'd still rather be the drunk than the one judging. "Drinking to get drunk" is pretty much the norm in college and I don't know anyone who is good craic and didn't go through this phase. Burn intended.

ToniTuddle

Agricola wrote: »

I enjoy one or two pints of plain when the mood in on me, so once in a while if we had a free class or it was coming up to mid-term or Xmas hols etc (with no study pressure) id suggest a pint in the college bar. I thought I had grown a second head with the looks I used to get from people. it was a waste of time and money otherwise. Pretty sad really.

The Irish definitly use alcohol as a social crutch.

THANK you. With a few hours to spare if classes get cancelled I have also suggested going to the pubs up the road for one or two. Just to pass those hours. I got looks and comments like "what's the point...it's a waste of money".

They then suggested sure why not buy a six pack and sit in the flat -.-
I don't want to sit in a flat. I want to sit in a nice warm comfy pub with some mates just chilling out and only one drink in front of me.
Not to get steaming just to relax! I really don't see that as a waste of money.
Oh that did annoy me. Fair enough if they person is broke and doesn't wish to go to the pub.

That's another thing. Alot of people in Ireland also won't go to the pub unless they have a good bit of money on them.
I've no trouble hanging along with friends who are going for a pint and I've no money! Doesn't bother me in the slightest. The pub owner/staff aren't going to care if you are not drinking seeing as your friends are!

As for the social crutch thing. I'd agree on some levels.
I know I don't dance unless I've a few drinks in me! But that's a self-esteem thing for me.

[Deleted User]

ToniTuddle wrote: »

THANK you. With a few hours to spare if classes get cancelled I have also suggested going to the pubs up the road for one or two. Just to pass those hours. I got looks and comments like "what's the point...it's a waste of money".

It is true alot of the time though.. When people are out of college, a few pints becomes the norm because this is your chance to meet up with friends. In college, you hang round with your friends constantly. Why pay 20quid on a couple of pints when you spend all your time with them anyway.

lugha

Local-womanizer wrote: »

Anyway,everybody enjoy the holiday,Iam away to the pub:D:D

Good for you!

I'm snowed in so it's another night of cans for me.

ToniTuddle

Deleted User wrote: »

It is true alot of the time though.. When people are out of college, a few pints becomes the norm because this is your chance to meet up with friends. In college, you hang round with your friends constantly. Why pay 20quid on a couple of pints when you spend all your time with them anyway.

Which probably explains why I end up dragging along other folks from my class to go for those one or two pints

I'd have no trouble popping up by myself to a pub and having one pint if I had to kill an hour or so. It's just nice to have some company so the time goes a bit faster, you know?

Agricola

Deleted User wrote: »

What are you on about? Just because you don't like the feeling of being drunk, doesn't mean others don't.

Did I type the words - "I dont like the feeling of being drunk" No, I didnt.

Deleted User wrote: »

If it's "sad" for someone to like the feeling of being drunk, I'd still rather be the drunk than the one judging. "Drinking to get drunk" is pretty much the norm in college and I don't know anyone who is good craic and didn't go through this phase. Burn intended.

Oh no. Are you an officer in the cool police? Looks like youve rumbled me there. Im just not cool! :rolleyes:
Someone cant have the craic in college without having a juvenile attitude to alcohol? Is that it? So everyone over the age of 25 who goes for afew drinks in their local without puking their guts up afterwards is just crazy. There really isnt a point in having a drink unless your getting smashed?

Ok so.

[Deleted User]

Agricola wrote: »

Someone cant have the craic in college without having a juvenile attitude to alcohol? Is that it? So everyone over the age of 25 who goes for afew drinks in their local without puking their guts up afterwards is just crazy. There really isnt a point in having a drink unless your getting smashed?

Ok so.

posted a while ago..

Deleted User wrote: »

It is true alot of the time though.. When people are out of college, a few pints becomes the norm because this is your chance to meet up with friends. In college, you hang round with your friends constantly. Why pay 20quid on a couple of pints when you spend all your time with them anyway.

and yes, i am leader of the cool police.

whatdoicare

I rarely drink much going out- I just could't be arsed. I also start to get a bit depressed and antisocial after a few drinks whereas sober I'm the life and soul of the party...(in my mind)!

wtgorilla

DazMarz wrote: »

Kinda feel the same way sometimes. I see lots of my mates drinking and drinking so much that they make complete cúnts of themselves.

It is possible to enjoy yourself with out getting absolutely blotto, but having a few drinks to just get ''tipsy'' (whatever expression can be used: halfway there, mildly sloshed etc.) can be good to just get a buzz going.

No need to get totally smashed, but occasionally can be a laugh, if you can handle it.

I do have to say I hate gobshítes who think that ''If you're not gee-eyed, you can't be having fun''.

I got totally blotto once. Thereafter I called another and expressed my sincerest feelings for them. I left before I got arrested. So I am not considering getting blotto again. In a way you don't remember the whole moment, episode or experience.

tudlytops

lugha wrote: »

Part of the defensiveness methinks. The reaction is pretty unique to drinking.

So you don't eat meat? Meh
So you don't dabble with any illegal drugs? Meh
So you don't smoke? So what? Only Neanderthals smoke!
So you don't drink? Why not?, what's the matter with you / I feel sorry for you /How can life have any meaning for you? / What are you so smug about? / Do you want a medal? Etc. etc.

LOL

tudlytops

ddef wrote: »

because it makes us ****ing cool!

There's been a good few points made on the tread, but this is not one of them.

Foxhound38

tudlytops wrote: »

Why is it that so many people seam to think that unless you drink yourself stupid you can't enjoy a good day or nite out?

I rarely drink and in my whole life got drunk twice and didn't enjoy the experience one bit.

What so good about not remembering anything, making a fool of oneself, fighting, drink driving, etc, etc and feeling crap the next day?

Here's why: http://www.rte.ie/player/#v=1063025

HashSlinging

Mumford and sons great drinking musik.

Crumble Froo

creggy wrote: »

I know people who say they're going out to get drunk. WTF, it's not something you plan to do, saps.

Anyways, getting tipsy is ok IMO, helps to me relax and to have a good laugh.

o_O

so it's ok to get tipsy, but not drunk? where do you draw the line? does what you define/relate as drunk apply to the next person?

meh. i dont see why there's 'rules' around altering your mind. it's alright around a few other people, but not by yourself. what's wrong with drinking by yourself?! or it's ok at night, but not in the day. why not in the day? i happen to enjoy the sunshine while im drinking, it also happens to be when im less tired, which tends to mean im less likely to get messy drunk, and more likely to get something resembling a 'normal' night's sleep.

gah. i have no problem with people not drinking. that's perfectly cool if that's your thing. but i dont see why people feel the need to judge how other people drink, and make rules around it, justifying it under certian conditions, but not under others.

Professey Chin

shotgun mike wrote: »

There is a non-drinkers forum for this kind of post. You don't drink, whoopdi do.... you drink in moderation.... whoopdi do, fcuking blue peter's badges all around.....

I want a BP badge.The fcukers on the show never sent me 1

kumate_champ07

tudlytops wrote: »

What so good about not remembering anything, making a fool of oneself, fighting, drink driving, etc, etc and feeling crap the next day?

ye thats not that great really, but thats not being drunk, thats being an idiot

Rabies

I've had my share of mad drunken nights. I've had my nights of sober driver. Even nights like last night where it cost me more in taxi money than alcohol. 3 drinks and home. Just casual stuff.

Its about how you handle yourself and the night. Do you know your limits or always try to go past them?

watna

Helix wrote: »

honestly, in ireland anyway, its not. at least not with any of my mates

if you try it you have to put up with a night of "sure go on, have a vodka, you may as well get locked" over and over and over again. then as everyone else starts getting locked and acting like clowns i find its time to go home

in short, it IS possible to have a brilliant time without drinking, but not so much in ireland

Maybe you just need to get some different friends? You cvome home for Christmas and your friends are trying to make you drink and this means that nobody in Ireland can enjoy themselves without a drink?