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Women and condoms.

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Something I heard on the auld wireless... would you consider a woman that carries condoms to be a "slut" or that she sleeps around a lot?

Personally I would subconciously, but yet I always carried them when I was single, just in case :P

This shouldn't be the case though, it's not fair to thing this, but it's a subconcious thing.

Discuss.

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[Deleted User]

funk-you wrote: »

Safe woman or kid? Safe woman or kid? Safe woman or kid? Hmmm....

Clean woman or AIDs? Clean woman or AIDs? Clean woman or AIDs? Hmmm...

I think I'll take the kid and AIDs please Bob. I wouldn't want to be going out with a slut now would I?

-Funk

Bit simplistic. A lot of women just don't have casual sex with randomers, so there's no need to carry condoms. It's not a matter of 'if she doesn't carry condoms, she's happy to bareback with someone she's after meeting in the pub'. And if such a person did decide to shag someone, there's always plenty of condom machines around.

petes

eviltwin wrote: »

God I must be the biggest tramp on the planet..I went into Boots one day a few months back and bought a massive box of rubbers for me and my husband!!!

Husband! Why are you not on the pill? Sexism for ftw.

Long Onion

I have seen many sights sites on the mighty mighty internet all of which lead me to belive that a woman who carries condoms is, in fact, a prude.

Creampies and Bukkake are de rigeur for the new recessionista brigade ...

... probably.

caseyann

BraziliaNZ wrote: »

hmmmm, I remember a girlfriend i had a few years ago that i fell for quite hard. The first night i stayed at her place I saw a box of them on her shelf and it was open and I was a little stressed over it! But she was a grown 31 year old woman you have to get over these things. My latest gf had them but i met her while backpacking and she was doing the same, so no surprise she had them. You dont care at the start but if you start going out with them after, it may nag at you a bit, like you'll think "who was she banging before me? how soon before me??" etc. I never carry them, I consider them bad luck, if I did carry them I bet i'd never get laid.

See that really bugs me and the woman who more than likely in most cases has had less then you but she doesnt think about nor judge on how many women you have shagged and dumbed or treated like shiat :rolleyes:
Equality lives

syklops

Victor Short Fox wrote: »

Nah, fair dues... but the general sub concious thought is, "she's a slut"... it's not that difficult to understand really.

Your general Sub-conscious.

BraziliaNZ

caseyann wrote: »

See that really bugs me and the woman who more than likely in most cases has had less then you but she doesnt think about nor judge on how many women you have shagged and dumbed or treated like shiat :rolleyes:
Equality lives

Well it's not really an issue but if I'm really into the girl it will cause a little panic for me! It's my problem not hers

AnonoBoy

You've got 2 condoms with you on a night out. You score and head back to hers.

By next morning when you've used the 2 condoms you'll be thankful that she's got a box of them in her bedside locker.

Seriously anyone who thinks girls that have condoms in their room are sluts really have a very sad view of the world.

funk-you

[quote=[Deleted User];62663842]Bit simplistic. A lot of women just don't have casual sex with randomers, so there's no need to carry condoms. It's not a matter of 'if she doesn't carry condoms, she's happy to bareback with someone she's after meeting in the pub'. And if such a person did decide to shag someone, there's always plenty of condom machines around.[/QUOTE]

I don't think you 'got' my post.

-Funk

minidazzler

Deleted User wrote: »

Yea, I was with a girl before in college who had a bowl full of condoms on a shelf beside her bed. Classy.

Soooo, are you gonna post her number or what???

kowloon

I have no problem with it, she scores extra points if she carries her own drink money aswell.

GavRedKing

Very simple, a woman that carries condoms or has them at home just incase should not be viewed as a slut.

A woman who does this is a lot smarter and has more of my respect then the guy who goes out and thinks ah sure whats the worse that can happen or sure i'll just pull out love.

Get a grip its the 21st century, a woman who takes care of her health isnt a slut.

caseyann

BraziliaNZ wrote: »

Well it's not really an issue but if I'm really into the girl it will cause a little panic for me! It's my problem not hers

Yeah but why i really don't understand that.If you love her and she loves you then shouldn't even cross your mind.I mean i dont know any women at all who would ever even think of their bf exs( I am sure there is some who do).But men seem to have hang up on it.I know its not her problem but can cause problems in relationship and then that is her problem.

TheZohanS

AnonoBoy wrote: »

You've got 2 condoms with you on a night out. You score and head back to hers.

By next morning when you've used the 2 condoms you'll be thankful that she's got a box of them in her bedside locker.

Seriously anyone who thinks girls that have condoms in their room are sluts really have a very sad view of the world.

I agree. Plus I'd rather sleep with someone that practices safe sex than wake up one morning with an STI.

Everyone has sex, girls that cary condoms should be commended. It's the girls that sleep around and don't practice safe sex that you should be worried about.*

*this also applies to guys that don't wear condoms.

BraziliaNZ

caseyann wrote: »

Yeah but why i really don't understand that.If you love her and she loves you then shouldn't even cross your mind.I mean i dont know any women at all who would ever even think of their bf exs( I am sure there is some who do).But men seem to have hang up on it.I know its not her problem but can cause problems in relationship and then that is her problem.

it's just some thing built into our psyche, we can't help it. Anyway as I said it's not something I would express concern about to a girl, and I think all modern women should keep condoms.

mandysmithers

I would think the reason a girl (or guy) doesn't carry a condom with her regularly is because she's not expecting to have casual sex, and not because she doesn't take care of her health. I'm sure there's some who don't care about that, but I'd say the majority who don't have condoms with them probably aren't going to have regular, random ONS.

AnonoBoy

TheZohan wrote: »

I agree. Plus I'd rather sleep with someone that practices safe sex than wake up one morning with an STI.

Everyone has sex, girls that cary condoms should be commended. It's the girls that sleep around and don't practice safe sex that you should be worried about.*

*this also applies to guys that don't wear condoms.

I had a girl turn to me one morning after a night in her bed and say "So you don't mind wearing condoms then?"

Made me wonder how many guys she'd shagged without one due to her apparent surprise that I would wear one willingly.

As soon as I was out of there it was Golden Pages.... Health Clinics. Let me tell you.

AnonoBoy

mandysmithers wrote: »

but I'd say the majority who don't have condoms with them probably aren't going to have regular, random ONS.

And girls that carry them do?

dotsman

Christ, there are a lot of people posting here who have fcuked up views of women. Let me guess, the fact that she slept with you on the first night also makes her a "slut".

For me, a woman carrying a condom is an excellent thing. It means that she takes her sexual health seriously, which is extremely important to me if I am going to sleep with her.

Jesus Juice

Sure if girls wanna buy them let em off cause they are expensive as ****!

Condoms not girls!

mandysmithers

AnonoBoy wrote: »

And girls that carry them do?

I suppose....I'm not saying that they're sluts or anything, but if you're not interested in having a ONS, then why bother carrying condoms? If you're single, and you have condoms with you, then you obviously want to use it as some stage if you meet someone you fancy and the situation arises.

However, wanting to have sex with someone does not make a person a slut.

AckwelFoley

BraziliaNZ wrote: »

hmmmm, I remember a girlfriend i had a few years ago that i fell for quite hard. The first night i stayed at her place I saw a box of them on her shelf and it was open and I was a little stressed over it! But she was a grown 31 year old woman you have to get over these things. My latest gf had them but i met her while backpacking and she was doing the same, so no surprise she had them. You dont care at the start but if you start going out with them after, it may nag at you a bit, like you'll think "who was she banging before me? how soon before me??" etc. I never carry them, I consider them bad luck, if I did carry them I bet i'd never get laid.

Simple solution to those nagging problem.

Be the best ride she ever had.

BraziliaNZ

snyper wrote: »

Simple solution to those nagging problem.

Be the best ride she ever had.

oh i definitely was last time i saw her (last weekend), the next bucko has a lot to live up to

TheZohanS

mandysmithers wrote: »

If you're single, and you have condoms with you, then you obviously want to use it as some stage if you meet someone you fancy and the situation arises.

So by that rationale if you're riding a bike and you wear a cycle helmet you want to have an accident?

AnonoBoy

mandysmithers wrote: »

I suppose....I'm not saying that they're sluts or anything, but if you're not interested in having a ONS, then why bother carrying condoms? If you're single, and you have condoms with you, then you obviously want to use it as some stage if you meet someone you fancy and the situation arises.

However, wanting to have sex with someone does not make a person a slut.

But the problem is there are plenty of girls who don't carry them and will end up going home with guys. Just because a girl doesn't have any with her you can't make a call that they aren't interested in having sex with a hot guy they might meet.

Just in the same way that a girl carrying them doesn't mean she's mad up to jump on any randomer that looks at her twice.

Do you see my point?

TestTransmission

BraziliaNZ wrote: »

the next bucko has a lot to live up to

Is that what she told you?She sounds like a right slapper

BraziliaNZ

jackncoke wrote: »

Is that what she told you?She sounds like a right slapper

where did I say she said that?

[Deleted User]

AnonoBoy wrote: »

You've got 2 condoms with you on a night out. You score and head back to hers.

By next morning when you've used the 2 condoms you'll be thankful that she's got a box of them in her bedside locker.

Seriously anyone who thinks girls that have condoms in their room are sluts really have a very sad view of the world.

A lot of people would find it very sad that someone would keep condoms in their room in case they brought someone home randomly. A lot of people would think sleeping with strangers was crazy - condoms don't protect against everything, and who knows what nutcase/bunny boiler you've brought home. But when they say that, they're called prudish and judgemental by the 'casual sex is great' brigade who don't see that they are every bit as judgemental the other way around.

Kiera

[quote=[Deleted User];62664648]A lot of people would find it very sad that someone would keep condoms in their room in case they brought someone home randomly. A lot of people would think sleeping with strangers was crazy - condoms don't protect against everything, and who knows what nutcase/bunny boiler you've brought home. But when they say that, they're called prudish and judgemental by the 'casual sex is great' brigade who don't see that they are every bit as judgemental the other way around.[/quote]
WTF? Should we all be riding up against walls at the back of nightclubs? :rolleyes:

Cheeky_gal

funk-you wrote: »

Safe woman or kid? Safe woman or kid? Safe woman or kid? Hmmm....

Clean woman or AIDs? Clean woman or AIDs? Clean woman or AIDs? Hmmm...

I think I'll take the kid and AIDs please Bob. I wouldn't want to be going out with a slut now would I?

-Funk

Hahahahahahahaha

AnonoBoy

[quote=[Deleted User];62664648]A lot of people would find it very sad that someone would keep condoms in their room in case they brought someone home randomly. A lot of people would think sleeping with strangers was crazy - condoms don't protect against everything, and who knows what nutcase/bunny boiler you've brought home. But when they say that, they're called prudish and judgemental by the 'casual sex is great' brigade who don't see that they are every bit as judgemental the other way around.[/QUOTE]

Who said they have to be strangers?

It could be the start of that beautiful romance that lasts years with the person you've fancied for ages. You're still going to need condoms.