jackpalance wrote: » Yeah, well we can't all have your gag reflex.
spoonbadger wrote: » For example, the idea of gays as being girly, pink, fluffy etc. I hate painting people with the same brush,but it really is true. I've yet to meet a gay guy is isn't outwardly,obviously gay .
spoonbadger wrote: » Normally i hate any kind of stereotyping,but i honestly think alot of the gay images seem to hold true. For example, the idea of gays as being girly, pink, fluffy etc. I hate painting people with the same brush,but it really is true. I've yet to meet a gay guy is isn't outwardly,obviously gay .
anotherlostie wrote: » That is the most stupid comment I think I have ever read on this site, and that is saying something! There are loads of stunning feminine lesbians out there, and blokes that are just blokes, except when it comes to what turns their head in a bar. Ever think that the reason you've never met the guy who isn't obviously gay is because that aspect of his life was none of your business, and because he didn't tick any gay boxes for you, your gaydar didn't go off?
rainbow kirby wrote: » Not every gay male is uber-effeminate, while the stereotype is quite common there are plenty (particularly off-scene) who aren't even slightly camp.
spoonbadger wrote: » Eh, steady on. First of all, i never mentioned lesbians, not once. Any i've known have seemed outwardly no different. Secondly, i did *not* say there are no such things as subltey gay guys. I said in my experience, they usually aren't, and given that any i know do appear more effiminate, i stand by everything i said in my last post. Thirdly, i didnt say it was "any of my business". It's not like go around poking into peoples personal lives. I'm guessing neither do you, even though you just made you're soap-box speech. Lastly, i didn't say it was a bad thing, i showed no opinion on it either way and was as fooking sensitive in the way i worded that as possible. But hey!.Thanks for singling me out, and flaming me, in a thread on gay behaviour. I'll give you a PM next time i put any 4 sentences together, ok?!. I dont doubt it, but it just seems a little more common than i would've expected.
anotherlostie wrote: » You have backtracked a lot from what you said first time, i.e. that a lot of stereotypes were true like being girly, pink etc. Your initial post suggests all gay guys are obviously gay, but now you acknowledge this is not the case. I wish I had this power of persuasion all the time, and will bear in mind the PM option for again.
Fago_25 wrote: » Ha i'm not gay, but people do think this. I'm not. have a GF.
jaffa20 wrote: » That is a ridiculous comment. I am gay but i am not camp. Many people are shocked when i tell them if i am. How can you say it is really true that all gays are girly if it is only the girly ones that you assume to be gay. Anyway, an effeminate nature can be seen in straight guys too. Of course, they will be naturally gay in your eyes because it is "really true"
Terry wrote: » Really? I thought they were a sub-species. A genetic impurity. A Darwinian weakest of the species who are unable to procreate and thus will not survive. Then I realised I was wrong.
spoonbadger wrote: » I've yet to meet a gay guy is isn't outwardly,obviously gay .
DeVore wrote: » If you only identify people as "gay" if they act like that then by definition every gay person you know will act like that. Its circular logic. Perhaps a better question might be why 5-10% of your friends havent felt comfortable telling you they are gay...
Terry wrote: » Some of them you would never know were gay and others are of the flamboyant type. The latter being extremely irritating.
Terry wrote: » Yeah, you suck cock. Well done. We don't want to hear about it.
Fago_25 wrote: » I'm not. have a GF.
acid.rain wrote: » are you referring to being "flaming gay" or flamboyance?
zuchum wrote: » OP, your problem isn't anything to do with homosexuality, but the fact that some people are just jerks. science fact
Fago_25 wrote: » Does anybody else feel this way? A few gay people i know are very nice and aren't like this and I am in no way homo-phobic! (I actually helped someone who was in doubt, come out). But what I don't like about nearly every gay person i meet (more men then women) is the fact that they insist on letting EVERYONE know they're gay with a flamboyant outspoken persona. For instance (Actually this happened on several occasions), I was walking down the street and a guy I knew was with a few girls (Friends) And he insisted on prancing around like an idiot ballet dancer and shouting to EVERYONE he saw "Hey sexy, fancy s**king my C**k?? I can show you a good time... Yeah I'd say you'd take it up the........" Etc... More sexual profanities. Like, did they need to act like this??? This sparked my anger through watching Julian Clary and Alan Carr on telly and when i was in a pub in ringsend a while ago, there was a comedian playing, whose act was to act gay and tell rude "Blue" jokes and take the piss out of people. "James Brown" was his name. He pulled me up on stage and started rippin the piss out of my cause i look like Buddy Holly. (Which was the only funny thing of the night) If you have to be that way to get laughs, you're a pretty gick comedian. The flamboyant attitude annoys me because, it seems like they are acting this way, just to get attention!! FINE If you're gay, you're gay. STOP ACTING LIKE AN ASSHOLE!!!! I'm not painting all gays with the same brush, just those who act this way. Anybody feel the same way, or do I just know a bunch of Assholes?
DeVore wrote: » Ok, I agree in a sense. I really dislike people who are "false". Any form of affectationor foppishness. But that doesnt correlate with sexuality. I shared a flat with a guy who was gay who was really anti that sort of thing, and his boyfriend is an MMA cage fighter. I dare you to go up to him and tell him he's a "poof" Look, lets face it. No one likes affectations. No one likes people who put on airs or graces. Ever seen someone who was born poor but finds wealth and suddenly turns into a toff? I want to punch them. Does anyone really connect this dislike to what gender that person has in bed with them? Really? DeV.
BeerWolf wrote: » I'm no homophobe, but I honestly can't stand the overly feminine gay men... you know those - the ones that are MORE feminine than actual women?
Fago_25 wrote: » For instance (Actually this happened on several occasions), I was walking down the street and a guy I knew was with a few girls (Friends) And he insisted on prancing around like an idiot ballet dancer and shouting to EVERYONE he saw "Hey sexy, fancy s**king my C**k?? I can show you a good time... Yeah I'd say you'd take it up the........" Etc... More sexual profanities. Like, did they need to act like this???
