PDN wrote: » I think you're missing the point. No-one is comparing homosexuality to paedophilia. We are simply using the example of paedophilia to demonstrate the rather glaring loopholes in the "How can you say something is wrong if people are born that way?" argument.
Akrasia wrote: » I have been consistent in saying that as long as the relationships are consensual between people who know what they're doing, then there is nothing wrong with the relationship
AtomicHorror wrote: » Fair enough. We can discard the not-for-reproduction bit then. What I'm asking you is if you think that homosexuals should suppress their urges and if so, why?
And I maintain that there's a big difference between being born with the desire that would require one defy certain specific and rational social rules in its fulfillment and the desire to have sex with a consenting man. You might as well compare homosexuality to psychopathy.
PDN wrote: » For those who want to be part of the Christian Church, because of the teaching of the Bible. The Christian Church is a community of people who commit together to try to follow Jesus and to live by the teachings of the Bible. The Church also has commonly accepted principles of interpretation of Scripture (I'm including that statement to hopefully forestall trolls from quoting out of context passages from Leviticus). Therefore I believe that homosexual acts are incompatible with membership of the Christian Church. I make no comment on those outside of the Church since homosexuality is hardly the biggest problem they have. I am not interested in judging non-Christians for not following Christian standards and practices. Some people have urges to commit idolatry and want to bow down and pray to statues. I also believe that they should repress those urges if they want to be a part of the Christian Church. I also believe that Jews should repress their urges to eat bacon sandwiches if they want to be a part of the synagogue, and that people should repress their urges to eat any meat if they want to join the Vegetarian Society.
PDN wrote: » Once again, no one is comparing the two. Is that really so hard to understand?
AtomicHorror wrote: » And I maintain that there's a big difference between being born with the desire that would require one defy certain specific and rational social rules in its fulfillment and the desire to have sex with a consenting man. You might as well compare homosexuality to psychopathy.
PDN wrote: » S Is today National Troll Day?
Schuhart wrote: » I hesitate to intervene, as this has been effectively covered already, but I feel that the point is that the difference is in those social rules.
AtomicHorror wrote: » There is also a difference in the extent of the innate desires plus a pathological element to the individuals psychology and in combination their impact on agency. It does not require extra-ordinary drive to defy mere social taboo. Perhaps it does not require extreme desire to defy laws with severe penalties. To defy broadly-accepted morals is another matter. That requires a detachment from some key element of those morals, such as empathy. In our moral assessment of homosexuality at birth, it is worth noting that no such extreme drives or psychopathology exist. This has implications for how we morally assess their actions. They are acting in accordance with an innate nature that is morally benign and very, very different to the innate nature of a sex offender.
Schuhart wrote: » Does this mean I can envisage a society where rape and child abuse were permitted? Given we know of societies that permitted slavery, down to quite recent times, I expect I can.
Wicknight wrote: » Well you have introduced the word "natural", I'm not sure what context you are using that word. Everything that happens to our bodies is natural unless one introduces a supernatural element.
On the other hand I'm not a believer in the way nature intended line of thought, so if that is what you mean by nature I would have to step out of that discussion.
Not sure. If a persons paedophilia is related to serious mental trauma then I would imagine that psycho-therapy could help for some people
Er .. ok
I think what you are asking is if paedophilia is the result of biological, genetic, settings determined at conception in a person, is it psychologically sound to be a paedophilia. I would imagine yes, excluding the social issues that come with being a paedophile and the issues with repressed sexual urges that apply across the board.
No, for the trauma the person has suffered due to abuse. The attraction to children stems for that, or at least does in the cases where this applies.
Think of it this way. A some what common result of post traumatic stress syndrome is night terrors or night violence, where a person may, still asleep, have the sensation of being under attack and lash out around them. This can seriously injure anyone in the bed with them, such as a husband or wife. Now you could say that this person should get help to stop them hitting their wife. But really they should get help to over come the PTS syndrome, to stop the night terrors, and hitting the fudge out of your wife comes with that. The same applies in my view to those who are padeophiles due to childhood abuse.
JimiTime wrote: » Ok, let me clarify. Is there a Normal* sexuality, so as to say, anything that is not this particular sexuality is ab-normal? If there is no Normal sexuality, then sexual normality must be viewed as individual thus all sexuality is normal. *A sexuallity you recognise as the standard human sexuality.
JimiTime wrote: » But if it wasn't from a trauma, you'd still encourage to seek help to change their sexuality?
JimiTime wrote: » I'm only saying that I've heard this mentioned by people before. I don't know the sources, or the truth therein. That is why I don't just accept it as true. I don't know if it is 'often' the case. Maybe it is. I wouldn't just agree with it based on my current knowledge thats all.
JimiTime wrote: » As I said, if you don't think that there is a normal sexuality, then all sexuality must be normal.
JimiTime wrote: » Indeed, in these cases, their mental state is questionable and these cases are not included in my question.
JimiTime wrote: » I agree. Get to the root of the problem.
all the stars wrote: » so just opened this thread on page 5.. How did it go from creation of cancer to paedophilia and such? slightly off topic me thinks..
Wicknight wrote: » Fair enough. Do you have an objection to the idea or is it just that you don't want to come down on one side without more evidence?
failsafe wrote: » Looking at where this thread has gone since the original question, the convoluted mental gymnastics that people have been employing in attempting to answer the question of "why did God create cancer" just astounds me. Having been a Catholic/Christian for most of my life, the more I think about this God I used to worship the more I get repulsed. The notion that these things are "punishment" for original sin really makes me dislike this god character. In real life, for example, I wouldn't befriend someone who hates an ordinary English person for the occupation of Ireland that their ancestors carried out. The other argument (which is slightly more logical) that these are inherited consequences of the original 'Fall' still invokes the same feelings in me that this god fellow is a bit of a vindictive bully. The argument seems to get him off scott-free at first... until you factor in that he is "all knowing" etc. Surely this God that cast Adam from paradise would know that these "consequences" would arise? This makes cancer/aids etc a slightly more indirect punishment, but a punishment none the less. And when you apply this lofty theory to real life, it becomes even more horrific. What this implies is that, when a 2 year old African child dies of Aids, or is born with no natural immunity to malaria (as all children are), or when any child is born with the ability to develop leukaemia (again, as all children are) - that their suffering is because a tribe of 20,000 people a couple of millennia ago rejected God? If this was the action of a modern human, he might think something like this - Stalinist Russia was a godless state... so young children being born in Chernobyl have immense suffering as a punishment/consequence of a decision I made to cause the "fall" of the Soviet people. I knew their suffering would be a consequens of my actions, I have the ability to stop them suffering, but I don't. That is not a person that any sane poster here would admire (let alone worship!!) This brings me back to the awe that I feel when I look at these complex arguements to justify how someone who is supposed to be good and all powerfull could be exonerated from blame for all these bad things. I don't know why a reasonable intelligent person (as all the posters in this topic seem to be) would go to these lengths to make this square-shaped argument (the bible stories) fit into a circle-shaped hole (the facts of the bad things in the modern world) when there is a perfectly good circle-shaped (:p) argument to hand! In fact (to continue the metaphor), there are so many good (circle-shaped!) answers to the original questions that are so much easier on the mind, so much more academically satisfactory, and just so much more "common-sense"!! Some examples: 1. The bible is wrong 2. The bible is a good book, but written by many people over many years, some of it is right but this bit is wrong. 3. God doesn't exist! 4. God exists, but he/she/it isn't a personal God. Maybe he/she/it light the match at the big bang, but doesn't break the laws of physics and intervene with humans When I began asking all those questions that the OP did to myself, the 4 answers above (and I toyed with each of them and variations of them in the past) seemed so much more logical and reasonable, and therefore so much more satisfying to me than my previous attempts to mash truths that were obvious to me (i.e. bad things happen) with a 2,000+ yr old framework of thoughts and proposed notions that the bible told me were true. Hopefully (if you managed to read all that without falling asleep ) it might have gone some way to answering the questions for you.
siobhan.murphy wrote: » God plays horrible tricks.like ur best friend uesd to when u were 5 just not fair,to piss people off when u have the power not to.
ch3rry wrote: » why did god create nazis? why did god create the taliban? why did god create AIDS? why did god create the bubonic plague? why did god create homosexuality? why did god create natural disasters? why did god let 80,000 people die in the earthquakes in china? why did god not save my aunt from cancer? why did god give my granny arthritis? (she goes to mass every sunday) why did god create siamese twins? why did god create malaria?
JimiTime wrote: » Your posting above expresses an opinion, but that is all. You came to conclusions, and you believe them to be reasonable. Others asked more questions, different questions etc etc. Its not a matter of sanity. You are free to conclude my lord is a bully, and be repulsed. We are free to conclude such things. We are also free to disagree with your opinion, and yet still be sane.
JimiTime wrote: » Your posting above expresses an opinion, but that is all.
failsafe wrote: » I thought that was the point of a discussion/debate!
And sorry if I've offended you, that wasn't my aim, I only used sane when I was talking about befriending a real person with these characteristics.
So would you then care to elaborate on your disagreements? I think that what I said is slightly stronger than just a conclusion, or at least in the sense that your using it (or maybe I mean that your belief is slightly less than a conclusion - sorry again if that's offensive, but it's the only way I can think to phrase it!). By this I mean that your opinion is formed by starting with a belief (faith) that the bible is the true word of God, then you gather the facts (i.e. look at the world around you) and try to draw conclusions that gel with the truths of the bible (the concept of original sin etc.). I on the other hand have no such restraint, I can view the world with an open mind (again, no offence!) gather all the facts, and draw a rational conclusion based purely on verifiable evidence (i.e. that which requires no belief)
When you take all the facts into account, there are a myriad of possible conclusions that one could draw for "why bad things happen". You are confined to only thinking about a small subset of those possible conclusions (it's punishment/it's consequence) whereas I am free to deduce the most scientifically rational conclusion to explain the facts.
JimiTime wrote: » it doesn't mean that those who don't follow your reasoning lack sanity.
JimiTime wrote: » Really, this is my starting premise. We 'cannot' be here without a creator. Although there are lots of folk who say we can, I find this position foolish. Such a position I cannot fathom and have yet to see or hear any satisfactory proposal for such a position.
Wicknight wrote: » In your opinion What is your satisfactory proposal for the assertion "we cannot be here without a creator" How could you possibly come to such a conclusion?
Akrasia wrote: » I don't think a creator is a conclusion at all. It's just an arbitrary point at which you stop asking any more questions. 'We needed a higher power to create us, that higher power was god"Who created god? "God didn't need a creator""How do you know?" "because I have faith""Why do you have faith in an uncreated god but not faith in an uncreated universe" "....."
ch3rry wrote: » Can ye not see, as 21st century, smart, human beings, that christianity is just a little silly? ".
Wicknight wrote: » What is your satisfactory proposal for the assertion "we cannot be here without a creator" How could you possibly come to such a conclusion?
wicknight wrote: Ironically I see this a being quite closed minded, rather than open minded as Jimi claims. But then he doesn't care
JimiTime wrote: » Quite simply put, its the only answer that I can fathom.
JimiTime wrote: » Whatever reasonings and arguements are out there, to believe that we are not the work of a designer is quite simply, foolish, IMO.
JimiTime wrote: » For all the intellectual cartwheels that people do to say we are not designed, none have offered a alternative as far as I'm concerned, and I'm what matters to me.
JimiTime wrote: » Until such an alternative is offered, I'm not going to assume that all the evidence of design I see, happened randomly.
JimiTime wrote: » If I went to Jupiter and found a Car, I'd be the same. I'd see the effect of a cause.
JimiTime wrote: » There seems to be this thinking of 'Oh you guys just defined your god out of being testable'.
JimiTime wrote: » Also things like 'You can't answer who made God'. Like its this big conspiracy.
JimiTime wrote: » I suppose you can believe it is, thats your perogative, doesn't make it convincing to me though.
JimiTime wrote: » Quite simply put, its the only answer that I can fathom. Whatever reasonings and arguements are out there, to believe that we are not the work of a designer is quite simply, foolish, IMO.
TravelJunkie wrote: » So why'd you post here then?