Thaedydal wrote: Not everyones parents can afford to keep a 3rd level student, mine certainly could not esp as I was the eldest of 5 so I worked weekends while in college. It certianly doesn't do any harm as long as you are sensible enough and can take time off for exams.
Smellyirishman wrote: Will "scrounging" through 2 years of college I have yet to fail an exam, I wonder how many part-timers could claim that and I know a few that worked part-time and it began to eat into thier time in college.
Smellyirishman wrote: I often hear people who are "paying their own way" about how they don't have time to do projects, can't attend lectures, can't go out on weekends. That's great, but frankly, if I can avoid it , I am going to.
Smellyirishman wrote: Interestingly, one of the first things we were warned about in first years were the hazards of part-time jobs. Failures were linked to part-time jobs and travel distances. While "scrounging" through 2 years of college I have yet to fail an exam, I wonder how many part-timers could claim that and I know a few that worked part-time and it began to eat into thier time in college.
skywalker wrote: Im confused by that bit. Were they working during the day while missing lectures or did they have lectures in the evening when they had to work? either way a bit of common sense should mean this isnt an issue. I always worked one evening, sometimes 2. and the weekend all through college.
Let me ask you a question, given a choice, would you pay your way through college with one free night a week or would you use the time spent in that job on college work/fun instead?
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There's no way on earth I could have had a part-time job while doing the course I did. Not a hope. Well maybe I could have done it and done substantially less well in University but I doubt that's what my parents would have wanted.
Did you buy your leaving cert books? Sure you could have worked then and bought them yourself. Why let your parents do that.
My parents could comfortably afford to support me through University and I'm grateful and lucky. Not everybody has that opportunity afforded to them but there's nothing wrong with it.
They are much much happier for me to have done well in college than the extra money would have made them.
smemon wrote: failing because of a part-time job is just an excuse. if people would stop drinking, they'd pass exams and have money in the bank.
stipey wrote: I'd pay my way through college with no nights free a week if necessary - and for 4 years I did. Why? Because I was no longer a child and I could. I felt i had no right to expect my parents to pay my way and I owed it to myself to at least try to manage both commitments.
connundrum wrote: But as an employer, I will always say that I would take the person who has worked through college and come out with a pass degree than a person who hasn't worked in 3 years and come out with a 1st degree. You see which category you fall into.
Mrs_Doyle wrote: You seem to believe that it is a choice between paying your own way, and doing well. I paid my own way and have 2 higher national diploma's and a BA hons Degree.
Smellyirishman wrote: Out of interest, what age were you when you went to college/finished?
Key word in the first sentence being "necessary".
greenkittie wrote: In response to people working at age 14... respect to them but also... dear god, child abuse! At 14 you should be carefree and enjoying childhood. My parents would never have let me work at that age.
markpb wrote: Why do you think a person who's worked in a shop, chipper, etc and barely scraped through their exams would be a better employee than the person who proved they have at least a technical level of knowledge in their course?
connundrum wrote: In my industry I would expect to have to train most of my prospective employees, and with that in mind what I would be looking for is a good work ethic, ambition and a mind for the future. Now if someone has put themselves through 4 years of college by themsleves (unaided by parents and/or grants) I would have respect for that in itself. And I will give them more time than most.. Are you saying that I shouldn't?