Hello,
I have an issue with a boards.ie moderator, namely aka "Lemming".
See thread:
http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2054901917
Some background:
I rarely post on boards.ie - i may have read the rules at some point years ago but really cant remember. So a chap pm'd me and asked some questions, which i answered. We then agreed a sale. I did not realise this was against the rules. So, no problem, i totally agree i was utterly in the wrong.
However. I was then banned without warning for 2 weeks. The moderator in question did not so much as warn me.
My questions are:
Would it not have been wiser to simply ask me to post the pm's on the forum? This would have educated me as to the problem and saved any hassle. It would also have kept 2 of your users a *lot* happier. (the buyer was banned too).
It seems an extremely bad decision to have what appears to be some power tripping student "Well guess what ... I
AM a moderator." come along and ban 2 users for 2 weeks, when it would have taken the very same amount of effort to simply send me a pm and explain what i did wrong. i could have rectified the situation in seconds.
Now im sure ye are all good buddies in there, so i doubt this suggestion is going to be listened to. But please, put in some mature, considerate moderators. Slapping a ban on every little violation is not a moderators job (and ive been a moderator on multiple large sites). *Resolving* situations with maturity and keeping your users happy should be a moderators main aim. A ban is a very last resort.
Please, no replies of "you should have read the rules, period" etc. I presume you are all old and wise enough in there to realise that probably a large % of your users dont read them, and that some of yer older users may forget :-)
Thanks for your time.