So myself and herself decided to finally get married and our wedding is scheduled for the summer which suits both our families and friends.
I'm just having a slight meltdown about one guy in particular, a close friend of mine when we were younger. We haven't spoken in a long time, we were always regularly chatting and would always put in the effort to meet up, not really within the last few years, we drifted away from one another, I initially thought that we would become close again, but for whatever reason, it didn't happen and I was angry about it for a while, he kind of distanced himself from me, though he would still contact our mutual friends, and in fairness, his life became busy, so did mine, I guess.
Anyway, we had to send out the invitations a few weeks ago and I didn't include him, which I think might be a mistake, but maybe it's the right thing to do.
Sometimes I really want him to be there, but I'm so uncertain sometimes, like I don't consider him a close friend anymore, but I did in the past and this is important!
My parents were asking me whether or not he would be invited, I told them straight out - I haven't seen or heard from him in years and they were disappointed, in fairness, so was I.
I mentioned it to the misses a few times and she told me to think about it for a while longer because we still have a few months to go
I really miss him and have done for years, but sometimes friendships end.
Does anyone have any advice or were you ever in a similar position before?
