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There may be a correlation between your attitude towards them and not being asked on a date.
Nobody is stopping you!
Bit of a narrow minded view of Irish men. I hope they at least bought the coffee for you. 😏Do men always have to make the first move?. The Orb has made a good point all the same
Nice first post OP.
I've made the first move before and they cancel sometimes. It's views that i have from experience. I wasn't born with this view surprisingly. I asked are there single women here not males giving useless 'advice'
Yes moving abroad to somewhere like Iran would really make you appreciate Irish men 😊
Did you just assume some posters gender? 😮
Maybe men have copped on to the fact being single is the way to go. I have.
Single woman in her early 30s here, I was worried about finding Mr right and possible kids in my 20s, but now I'm so done with wasting anymore of my time, happy to focus on me and my career. Tbf yes it's very hard to find a decent man, Irish or foreign. Going across the pond seems a bit extreme to find a man, but if you have nothing to lose, then why not, however, there are never any guarantees
"Choose a life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a **** big television. Choose washing machines, cars, compact disc players and electrical tin openers... Choose DIY and wondering who the **** you are on a Sunday morning. Choose sitting on that couch watching mind-numbing, spirit crushing game shows, stucking junk food into your mouth. Choose rotting away in the end of it all, pishing your last in a miserable home, nothing more than an embarrassment to the selfish, fucked up brats you spawned to replace yourself, choose your future. Choose life..."
Do want you truly want to do and what will make YOU happy, not what some demented advertising driven culture tells you.
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I should qualify by saying as long as it doesn't hurt you or others.
Oh sorry, so you only want replies that agree with your own viewpoint.
may I suggest meeting them in a public house
very little happens romantically drinking coffee in this country
theres meat and drink on that comment
Freedom has it's advantages....
Are there any single women in their 30s worried about finding someone and having kids? Has anyone noticed that irish men are awful at making an effort?
That's because the game is stacked in their favour. Whenever they do decide they're ready for marriage and commitment they know the women will be queuing up and they don't have a biological clock so they can afford to dick around for years...
Maybe lying on the couch watching an Oled TV and eating junk what makes them happy.
hmmm
Why would the dating market work any differently to any other market where generally the most desirable are chosen first?
The pickings get slimmer and slimmer as you get older; so much so that the choice really is be less choosy or be alone. If you are waiting for someone to take your breath away, you'll be waiting.
I like to exercise and stretch while watching my oled TV.
37 m, single, no debts, no interest
I guess men are like a box of chocolates,....
Why should the men buy her a coffee? Surely people can pay their own way in this modern world?
There is no such thing as a female incel. You can be morbidly obese and still get a simp boyfriend as a female. Just look at all those 600lbs obese documentaries on TV, they all have some thin boyfriend.
Since the 2010's women can have sex anytime they want with a few swipes on a phone, they can arrange for man to meet them from Tinder. Even if a woman wants to go out for a casual drink or meal they can arrange someone from Tinder. You could argue that young women don't know what true loneliness is given how easy it is for them to meet potential friends and boyfriends.
Do you ever get weary posting this scutter? No one gives a shıt.
I'd say its actually just you OP.
I'd quite happily spend hours conversing with a woman who was a good conversationalist, independent of mind, generous of spirit, humourous, self-deprecating, flirtatious and present in the moment.
Is it possible that you're a bitter, hatchet-faced shrew, with a victim complex and a penchant for making every syllable a whinge?
Because if so, I've met you plenty.
I'm more like an M&M but with a slightly different logo...
Melt in your mouth? But go off in your hand!
Another of these threads, with the same agenda as previous..............
The INCELs of Boards.ie racing across the mother's box room as soon as they read the OP.
I don't see any basis for assuming the OP is like that but I think she may well be signalling a laser focus on marriage and motherhood in a way that is intimidating to men in the early stages of dating.
That is only true if the desirability of those doing the choosing is equal.
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