on_the_nickel wrote: » Andrew, read that again, in the context of this thread, and maybe life in general and ask yourself why you think compromise and choosing the better option are things to argue against, and why you're arguing against them. I'm going to leave it at that.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » with your points about compromise and choosing the better option.
Eamonnator wrote: » It's a week and 180 posts since I made this remark. Nothing, that has been said since, has changed my mind. I wonder has anybody changed their mind about Mikey's behaviour.
Eamonnator wrote: » He's a bellend.
km991148 wrote: » I'm asking is "beside" literally in your face - I just want to understand your exact definitions - we are so far from any sensible point I may as well try to understand this part at least!
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Well, yes - it is different. It's not "literally in your face" when there's a windscreen and bonnet in between.
km991148 wrote: » And beside? That s different is it? .. I don't know whats worse at this stage - if your posts are similar to trolling, I'm now feeding away here :pac:
AndrewJRenko wrote: » When he stands in front, there is a windscreen and a bonnet between him and them - a long way from "in yer face".
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Just have a little think about that, and how out of all the bad things happening in that cycle, it is Mikey's tone that you keep highlighting as the bit that needs to be fixed.
km991148 wrote: » Why do you always view it that way? It's really is coming across as trolling. I think it's been explained pretty clearly why people object to the little chats Mikey has and it has got sweet fa to do with 'offending' drivers (dangerous or otherwise). No matter how many times you try and frame the conversation that way.
km991148 wrote: » Semantics and pedantry. He literally stands in front of or beside people. If I'm beside you telling you how to behave, I think colloquially it would be described as getting in your face. I would go further and say beside is literally in your face. The side of one's face is still the face. Or do you only want to include people directly on front of you within a certain range? Taking a line parallel to the forehead, we will draw another perpendicular line through the nose and only count 45 degrees either side? Maybe cap it as no further than 50cm from the forehead? Regardless of where he stands, his attitude makes him a bit of a prick. His work and reporting is still great, but could be better.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » He literally doesn't get in people's faces as he is always beside them, not in front of them.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Why is "do people like it" a key factor here? Is there some global rule about not offending the sensibilities of dangerous drivers?
on_the_nickel wrote: » No, Andrew - and I would appreciate it if you could stop re-wording my posts to suit your argument - what I said was, in the case of this specific road, knowing it as I do, I chose not to put my convenience ahead of that of other road users. I also, and this is important Andrew, because you seem to have difficulty understanding what I'm saying or maybe just seeing past your own pre-conceptions, I specifically said it was up to others to make their own choices.
km991148 wrote: » Maybe. I'm always looking to improve, there is always room. I guess one man's calm is anothers passive aggressive arseshole. Mickey doesn't often gesticulate, I think that much is clear. He literally gets in people's faces tho!
km991148 wrote: » And you want to talk about strawmen and other poor debating techniques :pac: Your some man for a bit of spin! You don't like it when people tell you how to cycle (as is often the case when you post videos). Why do you think others are different? All this forelock nonsense.. it's really telling about your attitude and I fear it will get you into serious trouble one day.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » So all the decades of antagonistic driving by motorists in the UK, and over here too, is now down to Mikey and other cyclists who don't tug their forelock quite enough when asking the nice motorist to - pretty please with bells on - not kill them on their journey today? Funny how there wasn't huge outcry or concerns about the route cause of antagonistic drivers until Mikey came along - but until he gets his tone exactly right he's going to get a virtual kicking round here.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Maybe, just maybe, maybe it's not me that has the blindspot.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » It's possible to engage with people calmly, in a civil manner, assertively and directly as Mikey generally does with now gesticulation and no getting in people's faces.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » That's what you said though -that cyclists should get out of the way of motorists.
km991148 wrote: » I'm not sure that is known. Some people have massive blinkers on. AJR- I hate writing posts that comment directly on others. Often I would agree with you on some parts of boards but sometimes you seem to have a massive blindspot that I don't think does you any favours in the long run.
timmyjimmy wrote: » Some degree of safer drivers maybe but they're probably cancelled out by his antagonistic behaviour and riling up of motorists. Unquantifiable really. Maybe put a thread up in the motorist thread and see how ya fair out? I reckon you'll get the same reception as here, even worse.
timmyjimmy wrote: » I'm sure there are. Speaking for myself, I now don't go over the speed limit on the motorway between Michelstown and Cahir as I was once caught speeding there. That doesn't mean i've stopped breaking the speed limit completely. Just because Mikey has caught people breaking a law doesn't mean that they won't break the law elsewhere. Your faith in the Church of Mickey is a bit idealist. That's not how the real world works.
km991148 wrote: » Definitely more carrot than stick approach works for me. I cycle like I drive in a lot if cases. Thank the kind gestures and read the road well ahead and be part of the traffic, including all responsibilities that go with it. In younger angrier days it was more stress and more bull**** and fewer results. For example: A lot if the time people make mistakes. The classic SMIDSY moves. Gesticulating and getting in people's faces does little except causes an argument (although of course sometimes it's absolutely rage inducing***). Pointing out what just happened generally gets an apology and an acknowledgement of mistake. This doesn't exactly replicate Mikey but to me his attitude is closer to the former, even although he tries hard to make damn sure it looks like the latter. ***In these cases it's still the carrot approach, just modified a bit:https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VReU7EgfPLc
on_the_nickel wrote: » No, that's not what I mean, that's how your mindset chooses to interpret my post. And I think you know that.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » And by "compromise" you mean "cyclists get out of the way of the important motorists"?
on_the_nickel wrote: » Because realism and compromise are more constructive in the efforts to improve road safety for cyclists and pedestrians than whataboutery and stubbornness. Divisiveness and creating an environment of us vs them is not going to solve anything and a little give-and-take on all sides is required. Carr's Hill carries over 25,000 vehicles a day. url]http://www.pleanala.ie/documents/reports/HA0/RHA0053B.pdf[/url Even though it's the most direct route for me to get home from a training spin, I haven't used it for for many years now as the population of Carrigaline, and the volume of traffic on this main arterial route, has increased dramatically. Other may choose to steadfastly exert their right to cycle this road, some may in fact go this way specifically to find footage for their growing social media profiles - up to them. I've chosen to put myself in the position of someone trying to drive to or home from work and encountering a cyclist on that road and knowing how difficult and stressful it is to be at the front of a tailback of cars, waiting to safely overtake. We all know we're entitled to cycle where we choose, but sometimes inconveniencing oneself to lessen the inconvenience of many hundreds of others, even though it will never be appreciated, and in fact probably only criticised by hardcore cycling evangelists, is the better option.