StupidLikeAFox wrote: » Have you tried the internet?
greenspurs wrote: » No nut November is coming :P
mr.anonymous wrote: » Is this a five minute chore for most people? Do you try to slow down and experience the bodily sensations or just tug with speed, clean up and fall asleep? Porn adds intensity but over time it's screwing with your reward system. We'll never get the same excitement and novelty from a real partner. Look up PIED.
Jellocube wrote: » I practice semen retention so generally try to avoid masturbation.
greenspurs wrote: » Does Family Album still have a Lingerie section in its brochures ? :D
Tig98 wrote: » I barely ****, I find it makes sex much less enjoyable. Even if you quit **** for 1-2 weeks, you'll find when you do get a bit of tail (or head) the sensations are much better.
PatchMcGinty wrote: » Does anybody else do it when their other half is in the bed asleep at night beside them? And is it normal in a perfectly healthy relationship with no reasons to complain , AND get sex when you want, to still fantasize about other women when masturbating? Including friends of your partner. There is that age old topic of feeling guilt after masturbation. I’d say I’m the opposite. Right after you be saying to yourself “jeez I’d love to be out riding around me again, one night stands and all that craic” but it wears out within 5 minutes. And you’re all lovey dovey and cosy with your partner again. A strange phenomenon. It must be the longing for single life men in relationships get every so often. I don’t believe for one moment there’s men who never ever get that thought
Gael23 wrote: » I’m not sure the fantasising about other women is normal but masturbating during a healthy relationship is perfectly fine
MarriedButBi wrote: » Sure what is normal. It is harmless and is fantasy in your head, we all have our own normal, as long as nobody gets hurt, tug away.
Tig98 wrote: » Thinking about other women is fine in my view, as long as it is not someone you have a close relationship with (colleague, friend, etc)
greenspurs wrote: » Shur who else would you 'use' in the fantasies ?? Strangers ?
Tig98 wrote: » I know material can get stale fast but I dont think its a good idea to think about someone you have a lot of interaction with. Thats how feelings get muddled. Theres plenty secondary characters in life to keep you going For example, if your girlfriend was flicking the bean nightly to her co-worker she sees 5 days a week would it bother you at all?
GreeBo wrote: » Thanks for reminding me OP.