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I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.

Part of this job comes with a lot of stigma there’s been a few girls who had people find out their day jobs and contact their boss to try and get them fired it’s normally women who rat them out and try to ruin their lives over it. There’s nothing I’d love more than to be open about my job and how it’s helped me get through some dark times in my life but I just couldn’t handle all the derogatory labels and insults and lows people will go to try and ruin your life over it. Since covid hit I don’t know how the strip club industry in Dublin is going to survive.

I want to know what your opinions are on strippers and the likes of using onlyfans to make money nothing you say is going to bother me it’s more curios why people have a begrudging attitude towards these things when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend or a random Jack the lad from coppers In Dublin on a night out.

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jelem

HotDudeLife wrote: »

The negatives have been eliminated since i quit.

It warped my perception of reality and i felt like sh!t after i would consume it, also energy levels would drop substantially (even though i've been weight training/running for 20 years). My results with women went through the roof afterwards as my confidence went up.

One of the side effect since quitting is now is i am too sensitive to sexual material/situations, not uncommon to get a boner in a lift if a somewhat attractive bird walks in.

Thats called Normal male reaction, being Not surpressed by religious or
political demand.
politicians and religious Deny Nature as a "herd" control in order to
keep power.

[Deleted User]

HotDudeLife wrote: »

Would you not rather bang birds of that caliber yourself?

Nobody is of the caliber of Abella Danger.

That aside, why is it one or the other?

[Deleted User]

silverharp wrote: »

here is a comedic take on it

10 minutes of that appalling voice?

I'll have to pass.

Montage of Feck

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=

Montage of Feck

Its the likes of tiktok that society should really worry about. A truly insidious work of social engineering.

Ubbquittious

Paying real money for pixels of a woman. No thx

silverharp

here is a comedic take on it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UrKwIcrpSs8

B.A._Baracus

Montage of Feck wrote: »

It used to be the talent getting exploited by seedy types and usually ending up in a bad place. A reversal of this can only be seen as an improvement.

TLDR: You'd be surprised.

I know what you are referencing. But that old saying of "the more things change the more they stay the same" comes into play here.

It is not a secret that the porn industry is horrible. So many are drug addicts and are mentally messed up. Most moonlight as escorts and vast majority are slu*s too. Now before anyone can't hit that quote button quick enough go watch Louis Therox porn doc part 2. The casting directing of a porn company (a woman) called them s*lts. She knows the craic. More than any of us. Lets forgo political correctness just for a second.

But female pornstars earn so much more than their male counterparts. Like ALOT more. It's funny that it never gets mentioned when talking about gender pay difference

But these women get used up and spat out. If you're a young "tight" young woman. You'll have a lot of work. You'll be treated like a piece of meat and used up.

Now enter onlyfans. They take 20% of your earnings. It's a porn producers wet dream.
You do all the work. You upload photos and videos. They sit back and keep the servers running..... It's amazing. As the platform gets more popular and popular more girls will give it a go. Not to mention any break out "stars" will promote the platform even more.

Onlyfans was created by Timothy Stokely, in 2016, who is a British tech entrepreneur and the company has already paid out 600 million to "content creators" - think about how much money that company has made.

Money for old rope. The porn producers of the 70s, 80s and 90s would be so envious.

HotDudeLife

Deleted User wrote: »

I'd give up Boards and a few organs before I'd give up seeing Abella Danger getting a good rogering.

Would you not rather bang birds of that caliber yourself?

The Undecided One

purplecow1977 wrote: »

Don't understand why they can't just get a job in Centra at weekends like I did.

I think it has to do with this “work from home” idea pushed on us recently.

The White Feather

See, in the words of Chris Rock, somebody has to entertain men.

Your wife or girlfriend will take care of you but they won't entertain you. Ask your wife or girlfriend to pose and give you a good view and you will get laughed at. Ask them to wear clear heels and you will get laughed at too!

Whereas Onlyfans sorts all this out!

This is a Chris Rock bit, but really fits in here too!

[Deleted User]

HotDudeLife wrote: »

Porn is one of the worst addictions out there

I'd give up Boards and a few organs before I'd give up seeing Abella Danger getting a good rogering.

HotDudeLife

Deleted User wrote: »

It is a bit like anything really. Say - alcohol. If you are interacting with alcohol in an unhealthy way - or you have some underlying condition that is exacerbated by alcohol - then when you stop using it you will feel great.

Which is fine. But if you then go around telling everyone else they will have the same effect from quitting - you would likely be talking nonsense for most people.

Similarly if you had an unhealthy relationship with porn and-or masturbation - or if you have some underlying hormonal condition you do not know about that is exacerbated by the hormone changed masturbation and porn cause - then quitting is a great thing for you to do.

But what the "nofap" and "yourbrainonporn" nonsense tries to do is claim that because people like yourself benefit from abstience that everyone else will or should too. And quite the opposite is true. Most people will see no benefits from stopping either I would guess. And some people will fare worse.
All that said though if pornography can "warp your sense of reality" - and I genuinely can not imagine how that is even possible - then it might be worth exploring through introspection or with a medical mental health professional as to whether your grasp of - or link to - reality might be for some other reasons tenuous to start with. Again - undiagnosed underlying issues can be a thing.

Tens of millions of young men grow up with smart phones these days and have finger tip access to porn, the majority of these mens first sexual experience will be warped due to years of consuming sick content that was designed to sedate the masses, which it is doing.

Any "man" who regularly watches porn whilst simultaneously wishing they had a better sex life is a ****ing loser, i'd rather bang attractive women then get off watching another man do it, pathetic.

HotDudeLife

Montage of Feck wrote: »

It used to be the talent getting exploited by seedy types and usually ending up in a bad place. A reversal of this can only be seen as an improvement.

BS, what is happening now is society is automatically putting these in a "bad place" en masse. You only have to see how sexualized society has become to understand the correlation with the emergence of these slags and simps (who are part of the problem as well).

Call me old fashioned but the fact that a huge amount of 9-10 year old girls recite the lyrics to thrash like WAP is disgusting.

Greyfox

purplecow1977 wrote: »

Don't understand why they can't just get a job in Centra at weekends like I did.

Simple really, a lot more money for less work

Montage of Feck

stefanovich wrote: »

Onlyfans is disgusting. A manifestation of everything wrong with today's world. Pathethic incels giving money to superficial bimbos.

It used to be the talent getting exploited by seedy types and usually ending up in a bad place. A reversal of this can only be seen as an improvement.

purplecow1977

Don't understand why they can't just get a job in Centra at weekends like I did.

IAMAMORON

I think its' access and availability can be open to scrutinisation. I mean the days of having to rent a blue movie from your local video store are now over. That did involve a certain degree of humility in fairness. The walk of shame.

Anyone saying that they cannot differentiate between porn and reality should really be not doing either, imo. As I said I have yet to meet many 19 year old debutantes who enjoy screaming out loud and demanding anal after 15 minutes. Although the search continues, in earnest.

[Deleted User]

As I said

Sounds like a tenuous grip on reality was there to start with if that was the thinking it led you to.

That said though I think "mixed messages" and "warped sense of reality" don't quite ring as being remotely the same thing to me.

It always amazes me though that people can watch all kinds of fiction on television and Hollywood without getting their sense of reality warped. They do not get their sense of conflict resolution from James Bond as one person said for example. Yet somehow when watching porn we are meant to believe that some significant quantity of people suddenly turn off all critical faculty and act like this is reality.

Are there _some_ people who can't watch porn or other fiction without it ringing as reality to them? I am sure there are. I am not buying the idea these people exist in droves or any statistically significant groupings though.

There is also the whole chicken and egg thing to consider. Is porn causing people to get mixed up ideas about the opposite sex? Or is porn more likely to attract people who already have issues with the opposite sex? I would caution assuming causality in either direction without more data.

IAMAMORON

Deleted User wrote: »

All that said though if pornography can "warp your sense of reality" - and I genuinely can not imagine how that is even possible - then it might be worth exploring through introspection or with a medical mental health professional as to whether your grasp of - or link to - reality might be for some other reasons tenuous to start with. Again - undiagnosed underlying issues can be a thing.

On the contrary it would certainly be capable of sending mixed messages about what the opposite sex is after. Although the lines, whilst blurred, can be extremely tenuous.

I mean, it has been a long time since I managed to perform group sex with an 18 year old 1st year college student who also happens to be party to a bit of double penetration, deep throat oral, scat games, slapping and humiliation?

Some of these types can be thin on the ground when I am out and about on the pull. Just saying like.

[Deleted User]

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I never knew you cared? How flattering.
....

Just a query

[Deleted User]

HotDudeLife wrote: »

The negatives have been eliminated since i quit.

It is a bit like anything really. Say - alcohol. If you are interacting with alcohol in an unhealthy way - or you have some underlying condition that is exacerbated by alcohol - then when you stop using it you will feel great.

Which is fine. But if you then go around telling everyone else they will have the same effect from quitting - you would likely be talking nonsense for most people.

Similarly if you had an unhealthy relationship with porn and-or masturbation - or if you have some underlying hormonal condition you do not know about that is exacerbated by the hormone changed masturbation and porn cause - then quitting is a great thing for you to do.

But what the "nofap" and "yourbrainonporn" nonsense tries to do is claim that because people like yourself benefit from abstience that everyone else will or should too. And quite the opposite is true. Most people will see no benefits from stopping either I would guess. And some people will fare worse.

All that said though if pornography can "warp your sense of reality" - and I genuinely can not imagine how that is even possible - then it might be worth exploring through introspection or with a medical mental health professional as to whether your grasp of - or link to - reality might be for some other reasons tenuous to start with. Again - undiagnosed underlying issues can be a thing.

HotDudeLife

IAMAMORON wrote: »

How did your life improve?

What are the negative impacts you are hoping to eliminate from your life?

The negatives have been eliminated since i quit.

It warped my perception of reality and i felt like sh!t after i would consume it, also energy levels would drop substantially (even though i've been weight training/running for 20 years). My results with women went through the roof afterwards as my confidence went up.

One of the side effect since quitting is now is i am too sensitive to sexual material/situations, not uncommon to get a boner in a lift if a somewhat attractive bird walks in.

IAMAMORON

Augeo wrote: »

Don't you claim to be married?

I never knew you cared? How flattering.

Tell me, do you prefer erotic novels or mpegs of drizzling scat?

[Deleted User]

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am abstaining from inter-sexual relationships during lockdown. I live with people who are vulnerable if they became infected. This has led to an incredible amount of masturbation, I have a mammoth libido.
......

Don't you claim to be married?

IAMAMORON

HotDudeLife wrote: »

Each to their own.

My life improved tenfold since i quit, maybe it doesn't negatively impact others like it did to myself (even though i wasn't obsessed it still screwed me up).

How did your life improve?

What are the negative impacts you are hoping to eliminate from your life?

HotDudeLife

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am abstaining from inter-sexual relationships during lockdown. I live with people who are vulnerable if they became infected. This has led to an incredible amount of masturbation, I have a mammoth libido.

I find porn quite enjoyable to watch as it happens. I also do not necessarily masturbate every time I watch it. Sometimes I quite enjoy browsing through different clips, it can be very soothing.

I also really enjoy a good hardcore erotic novel. With proper pornographic literature that viscerally describes sexual acts, I find them enthralling and really enjoyable.

Each to their own.

My life improved tenfold since i quit, maybe it doesn't negatively impact others like it did to myself (even though i wasn't obsessed it still screwed me up).

Kimbot

Shocker.... both men and women masturbate to porn :O

Dammit, there goes all my fantasies about women reading erotic novels :'(

IAMAMORON

HotDudeLife wrote: »

Haven't watched any material intentionally (content sent into watsapp group and auto plays etc) since 2013, it's destructive to the human physic and energy, if i was extremely religious i would say it was designed by the devil.

Now when i think of porn i wonder why i used to have an urge to watch other men banging beautiful women when i could just do that myself IRL.

If anyone reading this is struggling with this issue or just going through a tough time i highly recommend reading content on this website and watch their documentary about the negative effects of consuming porn.

www.yourbrainonporn.com

I am abstaining from inter-sexual relationships during lockdown. I live with people who are vulnerable if they became infected. This has led to an incredible amount of masturbation, I have a mammoth libido.

I find porn quite enjoyable to watch as it happens. I also do not necessarily masturbate every time I watch it. Sometimes I quite enjoy browsing through different clips, it can be very soothing.

I also really enjoy a good hardcore erotic novel. With proper pornographic literature that viscerally describes sexual acts, I find them enthralling and really enjoyable.

HotDudeLife

EmmetSpiceland wrote: »

What if you don’t “use” pornography, you just enjoy erotica?

it's still bad