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JohnnyFlash wrote: »

Lot of literal **** around if sites like these are doing good business. Lonely men sitting at home playing with themselves.

The internet was a terrible invention in many ways.

Lots of non-lonely men sitting at home playing with themselves too. Most men masturbate, whether lonely or not, or in a relationship or not.

It doesn't make you go blind.

Pigsaw wrote: »

My issue with Tax is his complete indifference to his daughter's future. He has no problem with her ending up in a brothel. Insane.

That's not a fair representation of what he said.

PsychoPete

AndrewJRenko wrote: »

Lots of non-lonely men sitting at home playing with themselves too. Most men masturbate, whether lonely or not, or in a relationship or not.

It doesn't make you go blind.

Humans are perverts just wanting to masturbate and I'm okay with that

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am pleased for you.

Knock yourself out.

What is your favourite type of porn?

I don't require you to be pleased for me that I don't conform to your obviously antiquated and misinformed post.

What is your favourite type of romantic novel? :rolleyes:

TheDenialTwist wrote: »

I don't require you to be pleased for me that I don't conform to your obviously antiquated and misinformed post.

What is your favourite type of romantic novel? :rolleyes:

I am a Mills n Boon junckie tbh. I love them.

I tend to turn on some slow set ballads and soft progressive rock. I put the heat on and have myself an early night. I will hoover and clean my room also before tucking myself into bed !!!!! mmmmmmmm.

AndrewJRenko wrote: »

Lots of non-lonely men sitting at home playing with themselves too. Most men masturbate, whether lonely or not, or in a relationship or not.

It doesn't make you go blind.

Same goes for us females, it's normal and healthy. Whether in a relationship or not.

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am a Mills n Boon junckie tbh. I love them.

I tend to turn on some slow set ballads and soft progressive rock. I put the heat on and have myself an early night. I will hoover and clean my room also before tucking myself into bed !!!!! mmmmmmmm.

It was a rhetorical question :rolleyes:

As another poster said plenty of sad people on here with "ancient views".

I'm sure you think your retort post is hilariously funny and witty. It's neither. It's boring and it's what is to be expected from any troll.

If anything, at best your post is a sad reflection of antiquated views regarding women watching porn.

Oh and you must be creaming yourself now, you got a like from your alter ego.

Knock yourself out :pac:

TheDenialTwist wrote: »

Oh and you must be creaming yourself now, you got a like from your alter ego.

Now you are just being uncouth. How vulgar.

Tut tut.

Pigsaw wrote: »

I guess the women you know are aged 60+

You think women who've grown up with the internet aren't watching porn? Why? Why wouldn't they watch porn when they get horny?

Precisely, why wouldn't we watch porn?

The post suggesting we (girls) are trawling through our granny's book collection looking for some romantic novel to get off to when horny just beggars belief

It's sad to think there are guys out there that think girls are getting off by reading pages of a novel with sticky fingers :rolleyes:

Let's get real here. I doubt these guys know many girls if that's their belief.

"spook_cook wrote: »

But you are onto something, we're what about a decade away from realistic sex bots and VR and all that jazz?

Which is another good reason why Granny's old porn content will be about as exciting and relevant to her grandchildren as an old sepia-tone photo of our granny at the beach in her long legged bathing costume is to us.

Porn is one of the worst addictions out there

HotDudeLife wrote: »

Porn is one of the worst addictions out there

I would say you can't get enough of it.

Good luck.

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I would say you can't get enough of it.

Good luck.

Haven't watched any material intentionally (content sent into watsapp group and auto plays etc) since 2013, it's destructive to the human physic and energy, if i was extremely religious i would say it was designed by the devil.

Now when i think of porn i wonder why i used to have an urge to watch other men banging beautiful women when i could just do that myself IRL.

If anyone reading this is struggling with this issue or just going through a tough time i highly recommend reading content on this website and watch their documentary about the negative effects of consuming porn.

www.yourbrainonporn.com

EmmetSpiceland

HotDudeLife wrote: »

If anyone reading this is struggling with this issue or just going through a tough time i highly recommend reading content on this website and watch their documentary about the negative effects of consuming porn.

www.yourbrainonporn.com

What if you don’t “use” pornography, you just enjoy erotica?

EmmetSpiceland wrote: »

What if you don’t “use” pornography, you just enjoy erotica?

it's still bad

HotDudeLife wrote: »

Haven't watched any material intentionally (content sent into watsapp group and auto plays etc) since 2013, it's destructive to the human physic and energy, if i was extremely religious i would say it was designed by the devil.

Now when i think of porn i wonder why i used to have an urge to watch other men banging beautiful women when i could just do that myself IRL.

If anyone reading this is struggling with this issue or just going through a tough time i highly recommend reading content on this website and watch their documentary about the negative effects of consuming porn.

www.yourbrainonporn.com

I am abstaining from inter-sexual relationships during lockdown. I live with people who are vulnerable if they became infected. This has led to an incredible amount of masturbation, I have a mammoth libido.

I find porn quite enjoyable to watch as it happens. I also do not necessarily masturbate every time I watch it. Sometimes I quite enjoy browsing through different clips, it can be very soothing.

I also really enjoy a good hardcore erotic novel. With proper pornographic literature that viscerally describes sexual acts, I find them enthralling and really enjoyable.

Kimbot

Shocker.... both men and women masturbate to porn :O

Dammit, there goes all my fantasies about women reading erotic novels :'(

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am abstaining from inter-sexual relationships during lockdown. I live with people who are vulnerable if they became infected. This has led to an incredible amount of masturbation, I have a mammoth libido.

I find porn quite enjoyable to watch as it happens. I also do not necessarily masturbate every time I watch it. Sometimes I quite enjoy browsing through different clips, it can be very soothing.

I also really enjoy a good hardcore erotic novel. With proper pornographic literature that viscerally describes sexual acts, I find them enthralling and really enjoyable.

Each to their own.

My life improved tenfold since i quit, maybe it doesn't negatively impact others like it did to myself (even though i wasn't obsessed it still screwed me up).

HotDudeLife wrote: »

Each to their own.

My life improved tenfold since i quit, maybe it doesn't negatively impact others like it did to myself (even though i wasn't obsessed it still screwed me up).

How did your life improve?

What are the negative impacts you are hoping to eliminate from your life?

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I am abstaining from inter-sexual relationships during lockdown. I live with people who are vulnerable if they became infected. This has led to an incredible amount of masturbation, I have a mammoth libido.
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Don't you claim to be married?

Augeo wrote: »

Don't you claim to be married?

I never knew you cared? How flattering.

Tell me, do you prefer erotic novels or mpegs of drizzling scat?

IAMAMORON wrote: »

How did your life improve?

What are the negative impacts you are hoping to eliminate from your life?

The negatives have been eliminated since i quit.

It warped my perception of reality and i felt like sh!t after i would consume it, also energy levels would drop substantially (even though i've been weight training/running for 20 years). My results with women went through the roof afterwards as my confidence went up.

One of the side effect since quitting is now is i am too sensitive to sexual material/situations, not uncommon to get a boner in a lift if a somewhat attractive bird walks in.

HotDudeLife wrote: »

The negatives have been eliminated since i quit.

It is a bit like anything really. Say - alcohol. If you are interacting with alcohol in an unhealthy way - or you have some underlying condition that is exacerbated by alcohol - then when you stop using it you will feel great.

Which is fine. But if you then go around telling everyone else they will have the same effect from quitting - you would likely be talking nonsense for most people.

Similarly if you had an unhealthy relationship with porn and-or masturbation - or if you have some underlying hormonal condition you do not know about that is exacerbated by the hormone changed masturbation and porn cause - then quitting is a great thing for you to do.

But what the "nofap" and "yourbrainonporn" nonsense tries to do is claim that because people like yourself benefit from abstience that everyone else will or should too. And quite the opposite is true. Most people will see no benefits from stopping either I would guess. And some people will fare worse.

All that said though if pornography can "warp your sense of reality" - and I genuinely can not imagine how that is even possible - then it might be worth exploring through introspection or with a medical mental health professional as to whether your grasp of - or link to - reality might be for some other reasons tenuous to start with. Again - undiagnosed underlying issues can be a thing.

IAMAMORON wrote: »

I never knew you cared? How flattering.
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Just a query

Deleted User wrote: »

All that said though if pornography can "warp your sense of reality" - and I genuinely can not imagine how that is even possible - then it might be worth exploring through introspection or with a medical mental health professional as to whether your grasp of - or link to - reality might be for some other reasons tenuous to start with. Again - undiagnosed underlying issues can be a thing.

On the contrary it would certainly be capable of sending mixed messages about what the opposite sex is after. Although the lines, whilst blurred, can be extremely tenuous.

I mean, it has been a long time since I managed to perform group sex with an 18 year old 1st year college student who also happens to be party to a bit of double penetration, deep throat oral, scat games, slapping and humiliation?

Some of these types can be thin on the ground when I am out and about on the pull. Just saying like.

As I said

Sounds like a tenuous grip on reality was there to start with if that was the thinking it led you to.

That said though I think "mixed messages" and "warped sense of reality" don't quite ring as being remotely the same thing to me.

It always amazes me though that people can watch all kinds of fiction on television and Hollywood without getting their sense of reality warped. They do not get their sense of conflict resolution from James Bond as one person said for example. Yet somehow when watching porn we are meant to believe that some significant quantity of people suddenly turn off all critical faculty and act like this is reality.

Are there _some_ people who can't watch porn or other fiction without it ringing as reality to them? I am sure there are. I am not buying the idea these people exist in droves or any statistically significant groupings though.

There is also the whole chicken and egg thing to consider. Is porn causing people to get mixed up ideas about the opposite sex? Or is porn more likely to attract people who already have issues with the opposite sex? I would caution assuming causality in either direction without more data.