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Gael23

I’m 29 and I knock one out most mornings.
Should you start to wean yourself off playing with it as you get older?

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grassylawn

Apparently over seven sexual activities a week means you are hypersexual. Seems low to me.

greenspurs

Tig98 wrote: »

I know material can get stale fast but I dont think its a good idea to think about someone you have a lot of interaction with. Thats how feelings get muddled. Theres plenty secondary characters in life to keep you going

For example, if your girlfriend was flicking the bean nightly to her co-worker she sees 5 days a week would it bother you at all?

How would i know ??

Fantasies, usually thought about, not always fulfilled....

Tig98

greenspurs wrote: »

Shur who else would you 'use' in the fantasies ??

Strangers ?

I know material can get stale fast but I dont think its a good idea to think about someone you have a lot of interaction with. Thats how feelings get muddled. Theres plenty secondary characters in life to keep you going

For example, if your girlfriend was flicking the bean nightly to her co-worker she sees 5 days a week would it bother you at all?

greenspurs

Tig98 wrote: »

Thinking about other women is fine in my view, as long as it is not someone you have a close relationship with (colleague, friend, etc)

Shur who else would you 'use' in the fantasies ??

Strangers ?

Tig98

Thinking about other women is fine in my view, as long as it is not someone you have a close relationship with (colleague, friend, etc)

greenspurs

MarriedButBi wrote: »

Sure what is normal. It is harmless and is fantasy in your head, we all have our own normal, as long as nobody gets hurt, tug away.

ahh i know that.
I just thought it was normally what everyone did.

MarriedButBi

Sure what is normal. It is harmless and is fantasy in your head, we all have our own normal, as long as nobody gets hurt, tug away.

greenspurs

Gael23 wrote: »

I’m not sure the fantasising about other women is normal but masturbating during a healthy relationship is perfectly fine

I thought it would be very normal?

Gael23

I’m not sure the fantasising about other women is normal but masturbating during a healthy relationship is perfectly fine

Stan27

PatchMcGinty wrote: »

Does anybody else do it when their other half is in the bed asleep at night beside them?

And is it normal in a perfectly healthy relationship with no reasons to complain , AND get sex when you want, to still fantasize about other women when masturbating? Including friends of your partner.

There is that age old topic of feeling guilt after masturbation. I’d say I’m the opposite. Right after you be saying to yourself “jeez I’d love to be out riding around me again, one night stands and all that craic” but it wears out within 5 minutes. And you’re all lovey dovey and cosy with your partner again. A strange phenomenon.

It must be the longing for single life men in relationships get every so often. I don’t believe for one moment there’s men who never ever get that thought

Ye work away, life is too short.
My bird couldnt care less!!
All natural

PatchMcGinty

Does anybody else do it when their other half is in the bed asleep at night beside them?

And is it normal in a perfectly healthy relationship with no reasons to complain , AND get sex when you want, to still fantasize about other women when masturbating? Including friends of your partner.

There is that age old topic of feeling guilt after masturbation. I’d say I’m the opposite. Right after you be saying to yourself “jeez I’d love to be out riding around me again, one night stands and all that craic” but it wears out within 5 minutes. And you’re all lovey dovey and cosy with your partner again. A strange phenomenon.

It must be the longing for single life men in relationships get every so often. I don’t believe for one moment there’s men who never ever get that thought

Gael23

Tig98 wrote: »

I barely ****, I find it makes sex much less enjoyable. Even if you quit **** for 1-2 weeks, you'll find when you do get a bit of tail (or head) the sensations are much better.

This is a well known phenomenon. Called the death grip I believe

greenspurs

it is so enjoyable that it is Very difficult to stop though.

Kylta

A man's penis is a mans penis and he should be I control of it at all times, its ok to let others handle it, to take it into dark moist ir dry places, to let others kiss it suck it nibble on it, if your heart desires to let people abuse. But a mans penis is a mans penis and the only way to show it why your its master, is to bate it into submission that it actually gets physically sick in your hand, or whatever you **** into.

Tig98

I barely ****, I find it makes sex much less enjoyable. Even if you quit **** for 1-2 weeks, you'll find when you do get a bit of tail (or head) the sensations are much better.

greenspurs

true

Gael23

Nothing like good porn to get the juices flowing is there

Fuascailteoir

greenspurs wrote: »

Does Family Album still have a Lingerie section in its brochures ? :D

The fella on a packet of quaker oats has long hair if someone is stuck ... Can't remember what stand up comedian used that one

Stigura

Jellocube wrote: »

I practice semen retention so generally try to avoid masturbation.

OP does that, by clenching his sphincter.

Gael23

In work all day with my erect penis rubbing against my pants waiting to be jerked

Gael23

mr.anonymous wrote: »

Is this a five minute chore for most people? Do you try to slow down and experience the bodily sensations or just tug with speed, clean up and fall asleep?

Porn adds intensity but over time it's screwing with your reward system. We'll never get the same excitement and novelty from a real partner. Look up PIED.

Takes me. about 10 minutes. Get hm hard, lube up, look at something saucy then start tugging

mr.anonymous

Is this a five minute chore for most people? Do you try to slow down and experience the bodily sensations or just tug with speed, clean up and fall asleep?

Porn adds intensity but over time it's screwing with your reward system. We'll never get the same excitement and novelty from a real partner. Look up PIED.

Richard Hillman

Cigarette, ****, then bed. That's my night time routine.

Gael23

greenspurs wrote: »

No nut November is coming :P

November is prostate cancer awareness month. Regukar ejaculation helps the prostate

Loafing Oaf

greenspurs wrote: »

No nut November is coming :P

Or not, as the case may be...

Gael23

StupidLikeAFox wrote: »

Have you tried the internet?

Can’t beat pornhub.

greenspurs

StupidLikeAFox wrote: »

Have you tried the internet?

Does Family Album still have a Lingerie section in its brochures ?

StupidLikeAFox

Gael23 wrote: »

Any recommendations for porn or whatever helps get things started?

Have you tried the internet?

greenspurs

No nut November is coming :P

Loafing Oaf

BrianD3 wrote: »

One concept that I'm unsure about though is that of the Wisdom **** and the related Post **** Clarity.

Dara O'Briain has a great routine about this: in that ten minutes after an orgasm, it's like the matrix has been switched off and you see the world as it really is