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Bubblesxoxx

I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.

Part of this job comes with a lot of stigma there’s been a few girls who had people find out their day jobs and contact their boss to try and get them fired it’s normally women who rat them out and try to ruin their lives over it. There’s nothing I’d love more than to be open about my job and how it’s helped me get through some dark times in my life but I just couldn’t handle all the derogatory labels and insults and lows people will go to try and ruin your life over it. Since covid hit I don’t know how the strip club industry in Dublin is going to survive.

I want to know what your opinions are on strippers and the likes of using onlyfans to make money nothing you say is going to bother me it’s more curios why people have a begrudging attitude towards these things when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend or a random Jack the lad from coppers In Dublin on a night out.

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KiKi III

PsychoPete wrote: »

God damn it, send the link already!

I’ve had multiple PMs along this line already

When the OF page is up you can have that one, you gotta pay to see you filthy animals

PsychoPete

KiKi III wrote: »

Unfortunately ten million girls appear to have had the same idea so I may have missed the boat.

But I’m going to keep it up for a month and see what happens, partly just as a fun little experiment and partly because if it works to any degree it’ll be the easiest money I ever made.

God damn it, send the link already!

capefear

there was an irish lass mentioned on a thread before, that was making 7500 a month on onlyfans and nakedphilanthropist was on twitter selling pics for a tenner a pic and she donated over 1 million to the oz fires. so there is money to be made in it, but the revenue are watching.

Nice job to get in the revenue monitoring onlyfan pages etc.

KiKi III

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Probably.. well.. best of luck with your new endeavour..

Unfortunately ten million girls appear to have had the same idea so I may have missed the boat.

But I’m going to keep it up for a month and see what happens, partly just as a fun little experiment and partly because if it works to any degree it’ll be the easiest money I ever made.

[Deleted User]

KiKi III wrote: »

I thought that was a bonus in this world I’ve delved into?

Probably.. well.. best of luck with your new endeavour..

Deebles McBeebles

Deleted User wrote: »

You have weird feet..

I often feel a bit off with myself after I've had a **** too.

KiKi III

[Deleted User] wrote: »

You have weird feet..

I thought that was a bonus in this world I’ve delved into?

[Deleted User]

KiKi III wrote: »

Well I’ve posted 10 pics to my instagram page, I have 140 followers and I’ll be verified on OF today or tomorrow.

I’ve had dozens of pervy messages but no one seems to want to give me any actual money for my sexy feet yet.

Further updates to follow, screenshot attached for posterity.

You have weird feet..

suicide_circus

her body, her choice - no?

Rubberchikken

I don't see the attraction in feet etc but to each his or her own.

Also couldn't care what someone does once their an adult and free to do it.

I wouldn't want my child to feel that sex work was their career but I've a feeling a lot of parents would be like that.

Have no idea what the sites mentioned are and have no interest in finding out.

KiKi III

Well I’ve posted 10 pics to my instagram page, I have 140 followers and I’ll be verified on OF today or tomorrow.

I’ve had dozens of pervy messages but no one seems to want to give me any actual money for my sexy feet yet.

Further updates to follow, screenshot attached for posterity.

king_of_mayo

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

Ireland has gone so far left and liberal in last 10 years, but one taboo remains, sex.

It's really not. Some people like to think it is, because having the bogey man of Catholic tut-tuting fires them up.

BorneTobyWilde

Bubblesxoxx wrote: »

I mean there’s people out there happily cheating on their partner breaking up marriages or doing all sorts of sexual stuff that would make stripping seem like going to church. Because you get paid for it is why it’s frowned upon more then the regular joes going out on the prowl having one night stands and such which isn’t fair. Plus young girls are sexually active a lot younger these days the things they get up to I think there parents worried about them ever stripping is the least of their worries.

Ireland has gone so far left and liberal in last 10 years, but one taboo remains, sex. I think it's through centuries of Catholic influence that it's still something to be kept out of sight, not spoken of. But people like you are slowly changing that, but we need this generation to get into power before people like you are respected, have rights, have securities and pension plans so on. In the mean time you're out there on your own./

Bubblesxoxx

Tig98 wrote: »

I don't get why you fixate on other people doing sex acts etc for "free", the issue isn't being paid for doing x y and z, it's the fact that you're willing to do x y and z publicly.

Anyways, as long as you can manage it alongside your normal day to day life I don't see any issues with it, to be honest. At the end of the day it is just your body and what you decide to do with it, and it can coexist beside whatever else you're up to. As long as you can manage the balance go for it. I was regularly sleeping with a guy at the start of the year who was featured a few times on another guys only fans and I thought it was all cool and good fun. However his Instagram was essentially a **** ton of semi nudes with vague woke captions including references to the only fans. It was his only Instagram account, which he also had friends and family on.

Like, I love being sex positive but don't make it tacky.

I mean there’s people out there happily cheating on their partner breaking up marriages or doing all sorts of sexual stuff that would make stripping seem like going to church. Because you get paid for it is why it’s frowned upon more then the regular joes going out on the prowl having one night stands and such which isn’t fair. Plus young girls are sexually active a lot younger these days the things they get up to I think there parents worried about them ever stripping is the least of their worries.

leggo

I go back and forth on OF and the likes. On one hand, I like to look at porn occasionally and am glad there’s outlets available to do so. Paying wouldn’t be for me but it is good that there’s a way for people to support people they like and for those performers to earn a living, I know porn has been struggling for ages in that regard. Good for them.

On the other, I worry about this aspect of feminism and the knock-on effects it may have on people I care about or any future daughters/granddaughters I have in the future. I feel women should be encouraged to view themselves as worth more than to be viewed as an object to be desired by men. I don’t think women that choose that as a career should be judged or criticised, but also not glorified either in the name of ‘progress’ because I’m not sure yet if that’s what it is. I’ve known women who’ve started OF pages. I wouldn’t like a future daughter I may have to end up with the same issues I’ve seen them struggle with. But if I saw someone with a healthy mindset start one, I may feel differently.

Then I ask myself what the **** I know and who am I to make these judgements anyway?

Then I ask myself if I’d do the same if I could earn a lot of money quick for the sake of taking a few pics in my bedroom...and it blows the whole thing wide open.

Then I wonder if it’s easy to get caught in a trap by how easy it is and how quick you can make cash for doing little to nothing. I think how it’s a temporary window where you can make a lot but how it’s tough to ever go back to earning less, and how focusing on this can distract you from focusing on other things you may need to to succeed when this window closes. And what about those who succeed who don’t make money and just get the downside with no wins? If you can start it from home, it’s not as if there’s training/support or anything that teaches you how to deal with what you may have to.

In short: I dunno. It’s complicated.

[Deleted User]

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

...I mean in porn films you never see condoms or consent...

Does "do me harder" not count as consent!?

KiKi III

Potential-Monke wrote: »

Eh... link?

Give me a few days to see how this pans out and I’ll see if wanna post a link.

Might just post the onlyfans one so you have to pay to see it

Potential-Monke

KiKi III wrote: »

Alright lads, the experiment has begun.

I’ve set up an insta. I posted the first pic (very basic) 25 minutes ago and I have 6 followers.

Going to post a few more over the next few days and then throw up an onlyfans link.

Updates to follow!

Eh... link?

bb1234567

Coybig_ wrote: »

People are free to do whatever they want. If that's how women want to make money then all power to them.

However, I wouldn't want my daughter doing it. I wouldn't want my partner doing it. If I went on a date with someone and they were on onlyfans then I wouldn't be taking it any further. If I was with a partner and they started doing it I don't think there'd be a future for us.

Those pictures and videos, once out there, will never go away.

What about your son?

KiKi III

Alright lads, the experiment has begun.

I’ve set up an insta. I posted the first pic (very basic) 25 minutes ago and I have 6 followers.

Going to post a few more over the next few days and then throw up an onlyfans link.

Updates to follow!

PsychoPete

6541 wrote: »

20 years dancing, you must be tired.

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Kamu

Just to add, if I was a woman and a particularly alright looking one with any form of platform, think Megan Barton Hanson, I'd probably be all over Onlyfans.

Build up 3 million quid, and you're set for life; and it seems the big creators are making that in a year.

Not easy, or perhaps particularly safe to put yourself out there like that, but there are some who have never shown their face and are raking it in.

I'd just be curious how long a person could keep a 'softcore' subscriber-ship going before they are pressured, by the subscribers or market demand, to release more hardcore content.

I would think, unless the person is particularly niche or alternative, that the subscribers would jump ship to a different creator rather quick.

Tig98

I don't get why you fixate on other people doing sex acts etc for "free", the issue isn't being paid for doing x y and z, it's the fact that you're willing to do x y and z publicly.

Anyways, as long as you can manage it alongside your normal day to day life I don't see any issues with it, to be honest. At the end of the day it is just your body and what you decide to do with it, and it can coexist beside whatever else you're up to. As long as you can manage the balance go for it. I was regularly sleeping with a guy at the start of the year who was featured a few times on another guys only fans and I thought it was all cool and good fun. However his Instagram was essentially a **** ton of semi nudes with vague woke captions including references to the only fans. It was his only Instagram account, which he also had friends and family on.

Like, I love being sex positive but don't make it tacky.

mc25

What's with the repeated mentions of married men?

What about married women and not-married-but-happily-partnered men?

chrissb8

Meh don't really care. People around my age talk about sex like food or drink. That's how it should be it's part of the human experience and we hang on to stupid victorian notions of prudence and sensibility.

I mean sex, is everywhere, isn't it? from massive lingerie models/ripped men in boxers on massive advertisements blown up on the side of buildings. In our music, in film, tv....you get the idea. People are more sexualised than ever and it's pretty much the norm.

I think the next natural step is to regulate the sex industry and make it safer and protect sex workers. Inassofar as strippers go, I have never seen the appeal being honest. Sitting there with a horn on for hours, I would just get pretty sexually frustrated tbh, would probably have to nip off to the bathroom after a while to tug one out and after that I would be bored. Then just a waste of money really on top of that but hey, whatever no harm and there should be no taboo around it, it's pretty bland compared to alot of what people I know or have known do to get their kicks!

BorneTobyWilde

Bubblesxoxx wrote: »

10 years lmao but that made me laugh

So how many PMs have you got so far

ILoveYourVibes

Leg End Reject wrote: »

You want people prosecuted for having affairs?

Meanwhile, in the real world ...

This was the OPPOSITE of what i said i wanted. Are you able to read?

Stop trolling.

The girl who cheats with your boyfriend isn't exactly a nice person. I mean we can't get the law on her. But i bet a wife or two would like to give her a black eye.

Bubblesxoxx

6541 wrote: »

20 years dancing, you must be tired.

10 years lmao but that made me laugh

Leg End Reject

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Honestly the whole thing needs to be legalized tho.....even if you think its bad ...i mean affairs are bad ...but we don't make them illegal do we?

You will maybe get more people trafficking tho..who knows.

You want people prosecuted for having affairs?

Meanwhile, in the real world ...

banie01

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Selling her own bathwater for $30 was genius.

She's selling condoms now! Sold out of them too...
As if anyone who ever buys a Belle Delphine brand Johnnie is ever going to actually use one for anything other than a posh ****!