Opinions on onlyfans and adult entertainment industry

Melanchthon wrote: »

On the onlyFans thing it seems sort of depressing that in a world where there is multiple lifetimes of free internet porn there seems to be a huge amount of men using that site.
Have a weird respect for that Bel Delphine girl though who was making 100'000s without showing nudity, more than enough money to buy a nice gaff etc at 20 and a risque internet history left over but nothing particularly bad that would hurt the later life.

I am a bit skeptical about the actual economics though in terms of how many are actually making real cash, from what I have read a lot of those Instagram ones are actually just being high end hookers rather than making cash from Instagram itself

Selling her own bathwater for $30 was genius.

Signore Fancy Pants

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

What is a female pimp called?

A "wankette".

So I believe.

Melanchthon

On the onlyFans thing it seems sort of depressing that in a world where there is multiple lifetimes of free internet porn there seems to be a huge amount of men using that site.
Have a weird respect for that Bel Delphine girl though who was making 100'000s without showing nudity, more than enough money to buy a nice gaff etc at 20 and a risque internet history left over but nothing particularly bad that would hurt the later life.

I am a bit skeptical about the actual economics though in terms of how many are actually making real cash, from what I have read a lot of those Instagram ones are actually just being high end hookers rather than making cash from Instagram itself

Candie wrote: »

Adults can do what they want with themselves, if not coerced into it. I'd worry about the quality of that decision, as I'm sure it doesn't always come from a good place, but I'm not the boss of anyone elses choices, if freely made (or not, for that matter).

If a married man is spending the kiddies nappy money on strippers, then it's on him. All on him. It's not up to a dancer to police the audience, she's not the boss of them. It's ridiculous to suggest they're somehow responsible for his behaviour.

I also think it's pretty easy to convince yourself that all escorts are making huge sums and are happy with their work. Or that legalizing it all will result in healthy and happy workers and users. The reality is that legalizing it may make conditions safer for some workers, but the most vulnerable - the miserable junkie turning tricks by a canal to finance the next fix - is not likely to be among them, and so will always be easy prey for people who will harm them.

It's a complex issue, it's not as simple as illegal = backwards/legal = progressive and safe. It's legal in some European places and trafficking has increased as a result. Sex tourist destinations tend to have plenty of apparently safe places but also plenty of coerced misery for sale.

Completely agree with all this

6541

20 years dancing, you must be tired.

Pauliedragon

Bubblesxoxx wrote: »

I have been a dancer in Dublin for a decade started in my early 20s a lot of the girls I work with are sound and believe me it’s definitely nothing you see on tv. However Ireland seems to have this negative attitude towards women in this industry or deems us all sex addicts or easy when the woman who gets bread in her local supermarket could be doing all kinds of dirty things that’s way worse than dancing and it seems to be okay because she’s doing it for free I don’t get the mindset of some of these people we have stage names in work to protect our identity.

Part of this job comes with a lot of stigma there’s been a few girls who had people find out their day jobs and contact their boss to try and get them fired it’s normally women who rat them out and try to ruin their lives over it. There’s nothing I’d love more than to be open about my job and how it’s helped me get through some dark times in my life but I just couldn’t handle all the derogatory labels and insults and lows people will go to try and ruin your life over it. Since covid hit I don’t know how the strip club industry in Dublin is going to survive.

I want to know what your opinions are on strippers and the likes of using onlyfans to make money nothing you say is going to bother me it’s more curios why people have a begrudging attitude towards these things when they do worse things for free with their husbands boyfriend or a random Jack the lad from coppers In Dublin on a night out.

Is onlyfans free or I do I have to go back masturbating to to pornhub?

Candie wrote: »

It's legal in some European places and trafficking has increased as a result. Sex tourist destinations tend to have plenty of apparently safe places but also plenty of coerced misery for sale.

In Europe that has kind of changed now.

Its more that the economy improved than anything particularly in eastern European places. Its a different word now.

If you want rid of the sex industry ..improve the economy ...every time.

Politicians want to make it a social issue. Its not ..its an economic one.

Adults can do what they want with themselves, if not coerced into it. I'd worry about the quality of that decision, as I'm sure it doesn't always come from a good place, but I'm not the boss of anyone elses choices, if freely made (or not, for that matter).

If a married man is spending the kiddies nappy money on strippers, then it's on him. All on him. It's not up to a dancer to police the audience, she's not the boss of them. It's ridiculous to suggest they're somehow responsible for his behaviour.

I also think it's pretty easy to convince yourself that all escorts are making huge sums and are happy with their work. Or that legalizing it all will result in healthy and happy workers and users. The reality is that legalizing it may make conditions safer for some workers, but the most vulnerable - the miserable junkie turning tricks by a canal to finance the next fix - is not likely to be among them, and so will always be easy prey for people who will harm them.

It's a complex issue, it's not as simple as illegal = backwards/legal = progressive and safe. It's legal in some European places and trafficking has increased as a result. Sex tourist destinations tend to have plenty of apparently safe places but also plenty of coerced misery for sale.

LiquidZeb wrote: »

Really there's nothing you can do to manage something like that. Unless you act like some sort of morality police intruding into everyone's personal life then it's a matter for the wife and husband to resolve.

I am not saying society should try to resolve it. If you look at my post above ...I am saying the opposite. :rolleyes:

We don't punish people for having affairs.

We see them as wrong. But they are not crimes.

Its the same with prostitution with married men. Its wrong. The parties involved might not be the nicest people in the world. But it should not be a crime.

But I am not going to say ..yeah ..prostitution its harmless.

I mean i am fairly sure women who are escorts would not want all the wives of the men they serve to find out their addresses if you know what i mean. I am sure there would be some black eyes or worse.

I am also certain that if a woman who had been a prostitute herself had a husband ..she would not want him going to prostitutes. You can say well what goes around comes around. But I bet she still wouldn't want it.

LiquidZeb

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

I don't have a problem with a guy buying it!

WHY IS THIS SO HARD FOR PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND!

I have an issue with MARRIED men buying it ..and i have an issue with escorts providing it to married men.

I don't think they are good people ....i am sure some escorts only see single men or try to...i mean if he hides it from her ..THEN that is entirely on him.

If she asks ...and he says he is single ....if he lies ..its his fault. But i mean if she knows....yeah that is wrong of her.

Really there's nothing you can do to manage something like that. Unless you act like some sort of morality police intruding into everyone's personal life then it's a matter for the wife and husband to resolve.

Honestly the whole thing needs to be legalized tho.....even if you think its bad ...i mean affairs are bad ...but we don't make them illegal do we?

You will maybe get more people trafficking tho..who knows.

Ted_YNWA

All this talk of feet is giving me bad flashbacks from 10+ years ago.

We were at a "friend's" house that we hadn't seen in a couple of years. He opens up his laptop & he had RottenFeet.com as his homepage.

Just when I thought I had gotten over it, it has been brought to the surface again.

**shudders**

Twitter ----> #feet #feetpics #onlyfans

kwestfan08 wrote: »

The only thing about onlyfans is it's very hard to gain a following organically on the platform itself, you need to have a following elsewhere in order to draw in subscribers.

That could be a a lot of followers on Insta, twitter etc or being a big poster on reddit or something.

I'm not saying you couldn't make money doing it but it's going to be very hard to gain traction if you haven't got anywhere to draw people into your page.

A loose plan forming in my mind involves:

- ordering some toe rings (already own lots of heels/ sandals)

- set up an insta account and plaster it (a good dealer always gives you the first sniff free)

- subscribe to someone who already makes loads of money and copy what they do

Lads, I think I’m going to be a millionaire.

kwestfan08

KiKi III wrote: »

If I do I’ll definitely post regular updates here.

The only thing about onlyfans is it's very hard to gain a following organically on the platform itself, you need to have a following elsewhere in order to draw in subscribers.

That could be a a lot of followers on Insta, twitter etc or being a big poster on reddit or something.

I'm not saying you couldn't make money doing it but it's going to be very hard to gain traction if you haven't got anywhere to draw people into your page.

Tell me how wrote: »

If I was married, and if my wife was seeing a male escort, my focus would be on my wife and why she felt the need to seek a sexual relationship with anyone but me.

I would have zero questions for the escort and wouldn't even want to know their name or see them.

maybe he could give you some pointers? :P:P:D

Tell me how

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

What about male prostitutes seeing to your wife?

If I was married, and if my wife was seeing a male escort, my focus would be on my wife and why she felt the need to seek a sexual relationship with anyone but me.

I would have zero questions for the escort and wouldn't even want to know their name or see them.

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

If I were you I'd try. At least the feet, people walk around in sandals everywhere, so what's the harm.
Go for it .

If I do I’ll definitely post regular updates here.

Ultrflat

KiKi III wrote: »

Ha. This idea is moving from joke to “could I actually really make money from this?” very quickly.

Do it :cool:

report back in a month

:pac: if your not jet setting have way around the world with some saudi prince at your beck and call :pac:

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

Do you dance in front of married men? Or only single guys?

If it were single guys or the married guys wives knew and were fine ..i would have no issue with it.

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

I don't have a problem with a guy buying it!

WHY IS THIS SO HARD FOR PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND!

I have an issue with MARRIED men buying it ..and i have an issue with escorts providing it to married men.

I don't think they are good people ....i am sure some escorts only see single men or try to...i mean if he hides it from her ..THEN that is entirely on him.

If she asks ...and he says he is single ....if he lies ..its his fault. But i mean if she knows....yeah that is wrong of her.

why is it the dancer / prostitutes place to worry about someone elses marriage?

Do bar staff worry about how the customers missus will feel when he staggers home locked? I guess I should get a note from the wife next time I order a sneaky BigMac even though she has me on a diet!

BorneTobyWilde

KiKi III wrote: »

Ha. This idea is moving from joke to “could I actually really make money from this?” very quickly.

If I were you I'd try. At least the feet, people walk around in sandals everywhere, so what's the harm.
Go for it .

KiKi III wrote: »

An expensive, judgy prostitute that can’t stand the sight of feet? They’ll be lining up for you.

They would be actually ..im gorgeous!

Or i can just drug them and steal their monies like cardi b! (JOKE)

Kamu

OnlyFans is huge at the moment, and it's as softcore or hardcore as you want.

Many young Irish women are at it; some actively promote it through their own names, some use pseudonyms.

You want lingerie pics and vids? No issue.

You want to Anal pics and Vids? No issue.

You want to be cucked? No issue.

You want it? There is a young Irish woman that will do it.

One Irish girl has claimed that she made €7,500 the first two days she opened her account last year when she was 19.

More power to them, they can do what they like. doesn't affect me in the slightest and some of them are easily making 6 figures a month.

kwestfan08

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

I don't have a problem with a guy buying it!

WHY IS THIS SO HARD FOR PEOPLE TO UNDERSTAND!

I have an issue with MARRIED men buying it ..and i have an issue with escorts providing it to married men.

I don't think they are good people ....i am sure some escorts only see single men or try to...i mean if he hides it from her ..THEN that is entirely on him.

If she asks ...and he says he is single ....if he lies ..its his fault. But i mean if she knows....yeah that is wrong of her.

But why though? That married guy is going to cheat anyway, that escort saying no isn't going to trigger a bit of compassion in him, may as well make some money off his stupidity.

Signore Fancy Pants wrote: »

Bitch please.

We prefer the term "prostidudes", thank you very much.

What is a female pimp called?

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

I mean if i became a prostitute ( I would be expensive for a start) but i would only see single guys ..i would ask them ...if they said they were single ..i would accept that ...if they lie then that is on them.

OMG NO FEET PICTURES EEW!

An expensive, judgy prostitute that can’t stand the sight of feet? They’ll be lining up for you.

Signore Fancy Pants

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

What about male prostitutes seeing to your wife?

Bitch please.

We prefer the term "prostidudes", thank you very much.

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

All you need is some sparkle and some Toe Rings, and you're set

Ha. This idea is moving from joke to “could I actually really make money from this?” very quickly.