Stark wrote: » And there are people who get married purely to get round immigration and tax laws. What is "love" anyway? Can anyone define it for me? Is there a hormone level requirement we can check? Maybe we should just scrap the whole thing as a minority of people might abuse it.
Gruffalox wrote: » "Appealing to people who think like you do" is a thinly veiled ad hominem phrase which is the equivalent of using the word dog whistling. Usually it is used to imply people signal to some kind of far right wing positions. It is not argument. It is empty insult.
One eyed Jack wrote: » It’s not a thinly veiled anything, it’s a direct statement of opinion. A dog whistle is something you couldn’t hear, whereas I’m making a direct statement, and I don’t care what you imagine it is usually used to imply about anything. If I had wanted to accuse you of being “far right” I would. I don’t, because that’s just stupid. The argument is making the point that your methods are an appeal to people who think like you do. I based this upon an assessment of your opinions so far that honestly don’t amount to much of an argument. Empty and insulting are exactly how I would describe your opinions - insulting to other people’s intelligence.
Bannasidhe wrote: » Which actually was one of the 'arguments' against marriage equality.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Yes, I again see the conflation of rare events from other countries to stir up the FUD factor here in Ireland, despite that fact that no difficulties have arisen here in the five years of self-ID.
Gruffalox wrote: » I am not a silenced victim - much to your discomfort And yet again we see a poster who has taken their user name from a US cop show and probably discusses BLM and endemic racism and has uttered the word Trump more times in the past few years than is reasonable and listens to International music and watches shows from abroad and still repeatedly tells us on this single issue we may not look outside our own picket fence. LOL, as the youth say these days. I won't be stopping using international precedence on this issue.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » You really do like playing that victim card, don't you? No-one has tried to stop your deep search all round the world to drag up extreme cases to support your point. Some people have simply questioned to relevance of this approach, and pointed out the lack of consistency inherent in this approach.
Gruffalox wrote: » You as an elder lesbian must have an opinion on the alleged transphobia of younger lesbians who will not accept male lesbians and girldick in their dating pool. What do you say to these young lesbians who have broken away from Stonewall UK and gone to LGB Alliance in great numbers to argue - completely correctly in my opinion - that homosexuality is based on same SEX attraction?
Gruffalox wrote: » Gosh better tell all very many in politics, business, the sciences, research etc etc who consult internationally on everything from climate change to regulation of corporations etc etc ad infinitum that this referencing outside the jurisdiction is irrelevant and lacks consistency.
Gruffalox wrote: » You are implying I am dog whistling. But alright Jack. Your opinions appeal to people who think like you do. Where does that get us? Nowhere. It is just an empty jibe. Readers can decide for themselved whether or not my opinions amount to much of an argument. Some will agree some will not. I do not mind, I feel commited to my arguments either way.You do not get to decide and declare for anyone if they are empty and insulting, except for yourself.
Sittingpretty wrote: » We’re not all the phobics we’re being painted as here. It’s easier to shout “TERF!” and “transphobe” from the rooftops than it is to address (without obfuscation, clearly and succinctly )any of the questions in this thread that have been put to those who support the trans women are the same as women agenda. I voted yes for marriage equality and I fully support it. As I do transgender rights. But don’t try to whitewash me with trans women are the same as women nonsense being peddled in this thread.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » How great are those exactly
Gruffalox wrote: » LGB started a twitter account in 2019. It has 26000 followers. Stonewall UK the biggest LGBT org in Eurooe started an account in 2009. It has 200,000 followers. One eight of the number of followers in much less time is quite a lot. These are also real people with valid opinions, the main one being in this case that homosexuality is SAME SEX atttaction and that one cannot identify as a lesbian as a male or as a gay man as a female.
Gruffalox wrote: One eight of the number of followers in much less time is quite a lot. These are also real people with valid opinions, the main one being in this case that homosexuality is SAME SEX atttaction and that one cannot identify as a lesbian as a male or as a gay man as a female.
Bannasidhe wrote: » Do you deny it was one of the 'arguments' used against Marriage Equality?Because that is the sum total of what my post said. You are accusing me of things I did not say or imply so perhaps you might consider having that little rant at someone who did.
Stark wrote: » This **** again. Everyone is entitled to their dating preferences, only a small minority of people argue otherwise, yet they seem to be dragged into arguments just as "I saw a black man assault a white man once" seems to be repeatedly dragged into racial arguments. It's not even something that's specific to gay/transgender. You'll find people arguing that to not date Asians or blacks is racist if you search the bowels of the Internet for someone to support your position. I wouldn't use it to defend a racist position in general. "Oh you think black people are so great do you? Well look what one of them said!". So we're policing who can identify as gay or lesbian now?
Gruffalox wrote: Oh look this sh1t again. Dragging in some completely irrelevant racism comparison.
Stark wrote: » If you bothered to read my post, I said everyone is entitled to their dating preferences.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Seems the people who are so concerned about not being regarded as transphobic themselves are well able to bandy the term about when it suits them.
Stark wrote: » If you bothered to read my post, I said everyone is entitled to their dating preferences. Not irrelevant because the topic of whether dating preferences conflate with racism or transpobia originated as a discussion over "is it racist to not want to date blacks or Asians?" and carried over from there into transgender debates. It's not more appropriate to bash transgender people on account of a handful of people who share traits with them arguing over it as it is appropriate to bash black and Asian people because a handful of people sharing traits with those people are arguing an extreme viewpoint.
CtevenSrowder wrote: » Such a view point will have you levelled a transphobe and 'anti-trans'. Insults that are thrown around here with regularity. Welcome to the club.
Stark wrote: » Ooh loaded questions, I love answering loaded questions. Lead me to the trapdoor please :rolleyes: You have the choice to date who you find attractive and not date who you don't find attractive, that's all that needs to be said on the matter.
Gruffalox wrote: » I do not conflate racism with same sex preference. To me that is bizarre. Saying I will not date x race is racist. Saying as a gay man I want a man with a penis is completely normal. But transphobic.
Gruffalox wrote: Saying I will not date x race is racist.