The White Wolf wrote: » I thought Prime Time were knowingly taking the piss out of him there. They sensitively interviewed families directly effected by the issue while showing Lenihan, as you say a Twitter crank, furiously typing over his laptop with a deranged expression.
Neyite wrote: » Point out EXACTLY where I said that please?
Neyite wrote: » Exactly! The point is that it self-id means that men who are no more trans than you or I can now enter those spaces and claim to be trans as a way of legitimately being there. And because of the current mindset where it's transphobic to question whether someone is genuinely trans, or whether they are exploiting Self ID for their own ends. I am fully on board with transwomen sharing my changing room, wards, toilet areas. I am fully on board with transwomen who need shelter/protection from males who wish them harm. (I appreciate that not all women share my feelings) But the problem with self ID is that it also means that the door to those spaces gets left open for non-trans men to claim they are trans on the day and follow both me and a trans-woman into those safe spaces to do us harm. And some men are doing exactly that. So I'm genuinely asking here. How do we differentiate between the genuine trans women who need protection and to share our safe spaces and the men who falsely claim to be trans in order to follow them into those spaces to hurt them, without discriminating or being called transphobic?
LLMMLL wrote: » I'd never heard of Steven Crowder before, just googled him. Wow. Explains so much.
One eyed Jack wrote: » That seems to be what you’re suggesting when you say that because of the current mindset it’s transphobic to question whether someone is trans. Well yes, it is! I can understand why you find it objectionable that anyone might think you were transphobic for asking them are they trans, and you don’t imagine if anyone were to ask someone are they trans that they wouldn’t be humiliated by the question? Put yourself in the position of the person who is being asked the question, because that’s what you appear to be suggesting is that people should have a right to do that and not be regarded as transphobic, and the other person should not be humiliated by being questioned like that. I just can’t get my head around why you would think asking someone are they trans is in any context a reasonable question, or why you imagine anyone would be obligated to answer that question. What do you even do if they say no, and you’re not convinced? You might be satisfied with their answer and think fair enough, but another person might not be satisfied and may want to go further in order to confirm their suspicions and commit assault, feeling entirely justified in doing so because they were concerned about their safety??
suicide_circus wrote: » I have a suspicion that the quest for "trans rights" will not end with the legal stuff; self id, access to single sex spaces etc...i think the fight will continue until everyone in the world repeats and believes the mantra "transwomen are women".
Neyite wrote: » I asked a clear and genuine question about the safety of trans women. And immediately got shot down as attempting to humiliate predatory men and accused of transphobia. We were told as women, to permit trans women into our safer spaces because they were at risk of assault in mens spaces. Many on this thread have been at pains to remind us of the dangers trans women face from aggressive men. And I fully agree with that. So now when I asked that when these same aggressive men follow women including trans women into that supposedly safe space to assault us and claim to be transgender, we have no recourse, it's tough sh!t because we'll get howled down with cries of transphobe and accusations that we are trying to humiliate the poor ickle rapist in our space. The aggressive man's wants must always take priority over women - including trans women who sought the shelter and safety of our spaces in the first place. Well then. That's me told, isn't it?
CtevenSrowder wrote: » It's not a 'niche' definition. It's the definition. And until someone can at least begin to give a new one that will remain the case. Yiu still, after repeated attempts, have not given yours. And yiu haven't because you can't. You either talk of biology, which you can't because males aren't females, or else you refer to silly stereotypes which brings its own set of problems. This is why you flatly refuse to give a definition even though you have been asked to repeatedly.
LLMMLL wrote: » If a man wants to follow a woman into a space to hurt her why would he need to use self id and claim to be trans. It makes zero sense.
LLMMLL wrote: » It is a niche definiton. If you asked 100 random people to define woman how many of those would give the definition about gametes that you propose?
Neyite wrote: » Before self ID, women and those who present as women used women's spaces. If a person presenting as male walked in, we could tell him to GTFO or call management and they would throw him out. Now we can't. It's transphobic to throw anyone presenting as male out of female spaces. So we can no longer protect the transwomen who needed and were extended that safety in the first place.
Sorry about that wrote: » In 1951 Solomon Asch conducted conformity studies, in which he found that subjects would give obviously incorrect answers to simple questions, when the rest of the (planted) group had also done so. Subjects admitted that they did this, to fit in with the group, and to avoid ridicule. 25% of them gave the right answers every time, in spite of the peer pressure (good for them).Today, we have people such as yourself who insist that by asking questions of men, who believe that they are women (even though they are not, and can never be), is phobic or hateful behaviour. You are demanding obedience of thought and word, and trying to shut down discussion. It's really sinister; truly Orwellian.
Neyite wrote: » Before self ID, women and those who present as women used women's spaces. If a person presenting as male walked in, we could tell him to GTFO or call management and they would throw him out.Now we can't. It's transphobic to throw anyone presenting as male out of female spaces. So we can no longer protect the transwomen who needed and were extended that safety in the first place.
One eyed Jack wrote: » But I haven’t done any of that? I’ve specifically said I wouldn’t use the term transphobic, and good luck to you finding anywhere I said the behaviour was hateful. I’m not demanding anything and I’ve said that already too, I’ve said that people are going to do what they want regardless of what anyone else thinks. I’m certainly not trying to shut down discussion, I’m all for open discussion, and that’s why I don’t use terms like transphobe, bigot or any of the rest of that nonsense. If I don’t give a shìte about being called those terms, I don’t imagine people who are so strident in their beliefs do either. Being Catholic for example, being called a paedophile or a paedophile supporter or a child abuser is par for the course, water off a ducks back tbh. Anyone who imagines that attempting to humiliate anyone is an effective strategy to get them to conform to that persons way of thinking is quite frankly an idiot. It does the exact opposite - the person is thinking why would anyone want to conform to the other persons ideas in order not to be called names by that person? That just means they’re not called names, it doesn’t do anything to stop the person harassing other people who don’t agree with them. In your conformity studies tests it’s people who are transgender would be expected to conform in order to avoid ridicule and to fit in with the group. You basically have an issue with the 25% who won’t. You aren’t saying good for them though, instead you’re trying to make out that you as part of the 99% of people who aren’t transgender are the “real victims” who are being forced to conform to the 1% of the 1% way of thinking. You’re not, and you can’t be compelled to either, you have both freedom of conscience and freedom of expression enshrined in Human Rights Law. Those rights are not absolute, and they are limited to protect everyone in a democratic society. In essence, people have the freedom to express themselves, but nobody has any immediate right to have their opinions protected by law. That was essentially the judgement in the Maya Forstater case. Everyone in society is expected to conform to the laws of that society, even the 25% who refuse to conform, and there are consequences for them when they choose not to conform. Those rules are the same for everyone, and now they are the same for people who are transgender because being recognised in law as their preferred gender means they take on all the rights and responsibilities of their acquired sex -Effect of gender recognition certificate generally 18. (1) Where a gender recognition certificate is issued to a person the person’s gender shall from the date of that issue become for all purposes the preferred gender so that if the preferred gender is the male gender the person’s sex becomes that of a man, and if it is the female gender the person’s sex becomes that of a woman. (2) The date of issue of a gender recognition certificate shall be— (a) the date on which the Minister decides to issue the certificate under section 8 (3)(a), or (b) the date of an order of the court under section 17 (2)(a). (3) A person issued with a gender recognition certificate may only— (a) marry a person of the opposite gender to the preferred gender and reference in section 2(2)(e) of the Act of 2004 to “same sex” includes a reference to the same sex as the preferred gender, (b) be a party to a civil partnership registration with a person of the same gender as the preferred gender and reference in section 2(2A)(e) of the Act of 2004, to “not of the same sex” includes a reference to not of the same sex as the preferred gender. (4) The person to whom the gender recognition certificate is issued shall not be required to produce it as proof of gender or identity for any purpose save as required by law. (5) The person to whom the gender recognition certificate is issued may produce it to provide proof of gender or identity, if he or she so chooses. (6) The issue of a gender recognition certificate shall not affect the rights or liabilities of a person or consequences of an action by the person in their original gender prior to the date of issue of the certificate. (7) This section shall operate subject to the provisions of this Act. (8) In this section “civil partnership registration” has the same meaning as in section 2 of the Civil Partnership and Certain Rights and Obligations of Cohabitants Act 2010 .Gender Recognition Act 2015
Gruffalox wrote: » If someone stands up to let a lady sit down, how do they know its a lady? How do they know its a chair? Mystic koans for the 21st century.
OMM 0000 wrote: » This isn't the 1800s, so you shouldn't stand up to let a lady sit down unless she's pregnant, injured, or very old. Trans women can't get pregnant, no matter how much they want to pretend otherwise. What's fascinating is how many people are willing to go along with the make believe. I guess a trans woman can be old or injured (e.g. injured penis).
Obvious Desperate Breakfasts wrote: » This is it, exactly. Because people talk of gender recognition certs but nobody will able to demand to see somebody’s GRC, let’s be real here. And that can be exploited.
Gruffalox wrote: » I was referring to a poster who seems unable to define woman and yet claims to always stand up and offer their chair to a lady.
One eyed Jack wrote: » I’ve given you my definition of a woman already, countless times now, and yet you still insist that I haven’t? Characteristics and traits commonly associated with either the female or the male sex of the species. There’s your definition you’re looking for while demonstrating that there is a distinction between the sexes
CtevenSrowder wrote: » 99. The one that doesn't would be you. And the definition doesn't just specify gametes anyhow.
LLMMLL wrote: » Do the experiment and find out. I'd be surprised if even one knew what a gamete is let alone used that word in their definiton of woman.
CtevenSrowder wrote: » In woman? The definition of women I gave you is 'adult human female'. You are mixing up your definitions. Gamete I'm nearly sure is a word used in junior cert science. Leaving cert definitely. It's not advanced stuff. I think you've a poor opinion of the educational standards of the average Irish person.
Sorry about that wrote: » Quote: One eyed Jack That seems to be what you’re suggesting when you say that because of the current mindset it’s transphobic to question whether someone is trans. Well yes, it is!