ILoveYourVibes wrote: » Well then you should leave.
Deleted User wrote: » That doesn't make any sense. It's the drunkard that's asked to leave, not the people around him who have no idea what he's going on about.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » SO? What you are posting suggests you are not open to debate but everything you say is based on emotion and not ideas.
I mean you keep saying laws papers don't matter. She doesn't FEEL Irish to you.
All you are saying is what she said made you ANGRY.
You have no reason to be against her other than emotions. All you have is your emotional reaction to what she has said.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » Understand this. She is as Irish as you. If you dont accept this you are racist. She is an Irish citizen. Someone not being the same RACE as you doesn't give them less rights or make them A GUEST There are many ways to be Irish. You can be british and Irish Indian and Irish. She doesn't have to be any more grateful than you.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » No its only one YOU could come up with. She feels isolated. I feel it too sometimes. She wishes she felt less isolated and more people could see her point of view. She is looking for empathy.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » Understand this. She is as Irish as you. If you dont accept this you are racist.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » It isn't our Irishness that is the issue...its whiteness.
Deleted User wrote: » This is pointless. I don't think even you know what point you're trying to make.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » I don't think its racist to say what i implied.
Deleted User wrote: » Such as? Use quotes. (also you might want to check what "ideas" means) What are you smoking? Not once have I said any such a thing. Again, I didn't say such a thing. You're projecting statements on to me, seeking to "trigger" me. Return to what I did say.. perhaps extend the very respect you want for this tweeter, to me. I am against the content of her tweet, and the message that it suggests about Ireland. I am not against her. It's you that has been making this about her, moving away from the content of her tweets.
Again, I didn't say such a thing. You're projecting statements on to me, seeking to "trigger" me. Return to what I did say.. perhaps extend the very respect you want for this tweeter, to me.
Deleted User wrote: » Telling someone to go home for being an ungrateful little B*** isn't racist.
Deleted User wrote: » Notice how the discussion has been moved away from the content of her tweets, and instead, pushed to focusing on the person herself? That way our opinions can be made to fit with being racist or unreasonable. It's a ploy... the poster doesn't have any actual point. It's simply about shutting down the discussion.
ThunbergsAreGo wrote: » "Whiteness is the problem"
Deleted User wrote: » Fair point actually. And fitting considering this site's main rule is to attack the post, not the poster, and we're being dragged into a conversation about the tweeter, not the tweet.
Originally Posted by Deleted User Telling someone to go home for being an ungrateful little B*** isn't racist.
wish Ireland had more community for the South Asian diaspora I’m really sick of having to look at my life through a white lens with my Indian identity and culture in the retrospective - a small sad part of me I’m encouraged to disavow
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » I am sorry. But klaz called her a bitch.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » I don't think her issue is with Irishness. Its just the whiteness of ireland.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » You keep on the one hand saying what she tweeted triggered you and what I say triggers you yet on the other saying you are not reacting emotionally.
You are emotionally triggered in your own words by being told that many people in Ireland see her and others through a certain lense. And that his isolates her. She wishes she had more support and a bigger community.
You find this triggering. Perhaps you don't want to admit Ireland's perceptions of people can be rather provincial. But sadly its often true.
No you have said this yourself.You called her an ungrateful racist little bitch. This is a DIRECT quote.
Deleted User wrote: » No I didn't. Read the quote. I didn't call her an ungrateful little bitch. I said that calling her one wouldn't be racist. It would be rude and ignorant, but not racist. I'm serious. Continue with this and I will report you because you're not posting in good faith. Get back to the content of the tweet and stop seeking to derail the conversation....
silverharp wrote: » if a white person was to move to China or Japan they would tend to feel like an outsider to some extent. It would be interesting to hear their experiences , the point where somebody should switch off is where they start to blame the host population in anyway, its not their problem.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » I don't think her issue is with Irishness. Its just the whiteness of ireland. But that is my understanding of what she has said.
Hamachi wrote: » Why would somebody who has an issue with ‘whiteness’ deliberately move to a country that was > 99% white not two decades ago and remains ~95% white? At best, it’s an illogical decision. Otherwise, it’s just plain masochistic.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » May I remind people that Ireland is 88% white.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » So lets stop talking about the person who made the Tweet and whether or not they have the right to free speech... speak about what was tweeted. Does Ireland see people through a white lens ?? And do you encourage people to disavow their identities?
Deleted User wrote: » Do you not think perhaps that Klaz has a point? We've both made our lives in Asia and we can see how utterly absurd it would be for us to come out and publicly complain that there are too many ethnic Asians in Asian countries and there should be more white people. It could genuinely be an Onion headline.
Me. Earlier wrote: » it's all about feels, not logic. Hence it's so over the place as emotionals tend to be and why that kind of argument is resistant to logic and debate.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » I disagree. However I don't think its only white people who can be racist. But its not an issue relevant to this particular thing. I don't think her issue is with Irishness. Its just the whiteness of ireland. But that is my understanding of what she has said.
ILoveYourVibes wrote: » She was a child. This is an immature unrealistic perception of how life works. People move for jobs education etc. Or more likely simply because their parents took them. I mean yes you could go and live in china etc. But your job and life might be here. .