IAMAMORON wrote: » Your just ripping the piss. I am laughing at you. If any babe in work slapped my arse I would take her home and ride her. Get it out of the way. Why would you go to the Gards because a babe in work came on to you ?
El_Duderino 09 wrote: We're there 2 questions? One seemed like a statement and what might be The other question was answered earlier. I think the law says it's sexual battery. Tats what matters. I think it's sexual.battery under the law. I think that's pretty clear.
Ironicname wrote: Let me ask you two more question which are non specific and your answer will be telling:
Ironicname wrote: Is smacking another grown persons arse without consent sexual battery in your opinion? And if it is not, what should the parameters be that makes it sexual battery?
threeball wrote: » Women would do the same if they fancy the bloke or if their mates aren't too disapproving. God help ya if she thinks your a ugly bastard though
Potential-Monke wrote: I think people getting hung up on the use of the word battery, which is a catch all for physical force. It doesn't mean beating the living crap out of someone, like it kind of infers. It's another word for assault, and in Ireland we use the word assault instead, which is not as aggressive.
JayZeus wrote: » Blah blah blah. Whatabout blah blah. Runner was a dope. Reporter is a total drama queen. They both deserve a kick in the hole.
Die Hard 2019 wrote: » It's soo true, looks are everything in these situations.or to be clearer the reception is everything. In the old days you could slap a girls ass and if she liked it you could ride her and if she didn't she tell you to feck off. Now a days you are apparently a criminal if the receiver doesn't appreciate the attention.Ive never used internet dating but I think it's made women as to filter male attention to only what interests them.
Polynesia505 wrote: » No it's not something he has to take up with the US legal system. This is just a forum for having a chat and exchanging views. You don't seem to be able to accept that other people are entitled to regard a slap on the ass as fairly trivial, you have your opinion, and other people have theirs. Most people in the real world don't think a slap on the ass is worthy of going before the courts.
IAMAMORON wrote: » Sometimes I slap my partner's arse during intercourse ( quite vigorously and very hard), is this " sexual assault and battery " or a guilty pleasure that both partners enjoy?
Ironicname wrote: » Yeah I can see why it was hard to tell if there was two questions. In your opinion. I know you feel your opinion is not important and I feel for you in that regard. It must be terrible to not be able to vocalise your thoughts because you feel they are inadequate. I know you feel your thoughts aren't important. You've said as much. And for what it's worth, I agree with you with regards the bits and pieces you have let seep out. But perhaps answering a few questions rather than talking nonsense and then hiding behind "I'm not an expert" when knowing an honest answer would show you up would do a little more for your character
Polynesia505 wrote: » It would be nice if certain people could actually express the chip on their shoulder and their true opinions rather than hiding behind a false persona and continually being obtuse as a means of expressing that chip on the shoulder
El_Duderino 09 wrote: So the answer to the questions are as follows 1 it depends 2 consent is the main factor.
Ironicname wrote: » So it depends on whether or not smacking another person's backside is sexual battery and consent is the main factor. Despite you giving examples when non consensual arse slapping is ok. You are right. Your opinion is 100% not important. I'll go one further and say your opinion is not only unimportant; it's cowardly, contradictory, ignorant, insulting and damaging to people who actually suffered from sexual assault.
Sarahdunners wrote: » Who said she wanted to ride you. She didn't in that scenario. Your posts are coming across as knuckle - dragging and stupid.
Sarahdunners wrote: I have suffered sexual assault and his opinion is not insulting to me. So you are wrong.
Sarahdunners wrote: You, on the other hand are constantly coming across as nasty and aggressive. You don't seem to be able to communicate with people without insulting them. Learn communication skills
IAMAMORON wrote: » I have and will always take any female attention to my arse very seriously. It is a very common icebreaker used by women. Pinching and or slapping of the ass. I have always taken this as a genuine come on. It is basically yours to lose at this point. You may not have sealed the deal, but you are half-way to happy times. Once a women has slapped or pinched your arse in a flirtatious manner it is really only a matter of time before things escalate. I would be expecting to be deeply and passionately kissing a women within anytime between 5 seconds to an hour after she began playing with my arse.
El_Duderino 09 wrote: Obviously it depends. And obviously consent is the main factor. Context is another factor (which I've said a fair few times) and in football, arse slapping has a particular understanding (as I've also said a few times before).
El_Duderino 09 wrote: At this stage I've no idea what you actual point is. You seem to have painted yourself into a corner where you can't even acknowledge the Importance of factors like consent. Lol. That must be a bit embarrassing.
Treasure Sticky Weirdness wrote: » She thinks women have the right to go about their jobs without being harassed. Of course they do, but it's also the case that many reporters have been shot, maimed by landmines, captured and beaten by gangs, kidnapped and tortured by terrorists, or jailed by repressive governments. James Foley, Daniel Pearl, and others have been decapitated. Ireland's own Veronica Guerin was murdered. Bulgarian journalist Viktoria Marinova was raped and murdered last year after investigating alleged fraud involving EU funds. All in the course of doing their jobs. For this woman to be bleating that a mere slap on the ass from a marathon runner "stole her power" is an embarrassment to the many brave journalists who risk their lives daily in the course of their jobs.
dubstarr wrote: As women we have had to take some crap from men,and now slowly but surely the tide is turning and the men dont like it.
Ironicname wrote: » Take back the power. You go girl. Sisters doin it for themselves. Independent women!!!! Ffs. "As women" "The men don't like it". Grow up. You don't represent or speak for women as a collective. You may think you do as you probably surround yourself with like minded shrill harpies, but thankfully, most women and most men don't and recognise the individual. "As women"? Ffs Jesus wept. Do you just do this for men and women?
Ironicname wrote: » So context is important. Perfect. We agree. Consent is important where sexual matters are concerned. Absolutely. So that brings me to my question again... Where in your opinion and in what context does a smack on the arse become sexual assault?
dubstarr wrote: » Going in to a warzone you expect snipers,landmines.That reporter standing with her back to the runners.Didnt expect that.Thats not part of the job description. And how dare you belittle her feelings. How would you feel if a man slapped your daughters arse,or felt her up.Would you be saying its harmless.No i bet you wouldnt. As women we have had to take some crap from men,and now slowly but surely the tide is turning and the men dont like it.
Dino_Baggio wrote: » Nearly everyone has said what he did was wrong. It's the dramatic and hysterical over reaction people are onjecting to.
dubstarr wrote: » Me grow up.Shrill Harpies.That explains your mindset.You think the man done nothing wrong. Its the womans fault hes getting done for sexual battery. Nothing todo with the fact,he put his hands on her.He decided to do that. Well you know,actions have consequences and this is his.And his alone.
Dino_Baggio wrote: » Slapping a woman's arse was never ok, I don't know where you get the idea that it was.
El_Duderino 09 wrote: Oh yes we agree. Consent and context are important. So the example we have used of football teammates slapping each others arses is an example where it's probably fine. And if a complete stranger slaps another person's arse when they have no prior relationship (hence consent couldn't possibly be agreed) and the context is a one off encounter, then arse slapping is not indicated - great chance that's sexual assault. And the law agreed it was in fact worth prosecuting as sexual battery.
El_Duderino 09 wrote: Since we both agree consent is key; do you think the woman gave consent to the guy to slap her arse?