Sarahdunners wrote: » I don't need validation from men to feel good about myself. As I said - I am totally fine with or wthout sex. Nobody owes me sex. And nobody died from not having sex This is what I see the problem with men is - they are constantly looking for validation from other people to feel good about themselves . When they need to learn to make themselves happy.
ArchXStanton wrote: » Ehhh Have you used social media at all?
Sarahdunners wrote: » This is what I see the problem with men is - they are constantly looking for validation from other people to feel good about themselves. When they need to learn to make themselves happy.
Sarahdunners wrote: » Nobody has answered this yet: "Why do men place so much of their happiness and self value in sex"? You are putting all of your happiness in the actions of another person. You really need to depend on yourself for your own happiness
Sarahdunners wrote: » No, women are not as desperate for sex: it is a simple case supply and demand. How could I possibly be desperate for something, when it is so easily available to me. If I go to a nightclub - Many men ask me to go home with them. I logged onto a dating app for one day toa ee what it was like, and I had 100 men asking me for sex over the course of two days. Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex. So, when I have so many men asking me for sex - I am only going to choose the best for me. But I could also be totally happy going without sex tor a long while. I am happy with myself. The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex? Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves. It says alot about the self esteem of men.
Sarahdunners wrote: » No, I do not use instagram or facebook or any of them. They are a waste of time
Sarahdunners wrote: » Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex.
The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex? Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves. It says alot about the self esteem of men.
Sarahdunners wrote: » I think that men are desperate for sex due to these reasons in today's society: 1) They are told by other men that their worth is directly linked to how many women they have had sex with. So there is sex shame and pressure from their friends. My male friend is a teacher - he teaches male teenagers. He said that even he is bored of all their sex talk. It is constantly "who had it the most" , and showing off. And lies, due to the peer pressure from each other. 2) very Low self esteem in men, so they only feel good about themselves when they have been sexually accepted by women. 3) Porn gives men a very skewed sense of sexuality. It is very domineering, aggressive and violent. 4) In Ireland - men have been taught for a long time that women are worth less than them, are there to serve them, and are "just for sex". I remember a man in Dublin saying this to me, that he was taught that women were "just for sex". This all adds up to bad attitudes from men to women. This society needs to change
Tacitus Kilgore wrote: » You're a waste of time, gtfo
IAMAMORON wrote: » I will happily answer it if you tell me your favourite position ?
Sarahdunners wrote: » Oh how totally immature you are.
Sarahdunners wrote: » Yes but men are putting THEMSELVES in a scarcity mentality. Which is them thinking "because I am not having sex, I feel terrible about myself". As I said, I can go without sex for ages and be perfectly happy, there are so many other things to do , painting , walks on the beach. Why do men tie up so much of their happiness and self value in sex?
Sarahdunners wrote: » The immaturity level is rising....
Raconteuse wrote: » Some here never shut up about it. It's just a physical need - you're over thinking it with the above. There's definitely truth to the first one in relation to younger lads but I would question the others (not a fan of that kind of porn either but I don't think it makes men desperate for sex - if anything the concern is that it's leading to the opposite).
Sarahdunners wrote: » Yes - younger lads do put each other under way too much pressure. Hopefully that will change in the future
Raconteuse wrote: » Because it's more of an urgent physical need for them. What's the point in comparing yourself to men when you are a woman?
Sarahdunners wrote: » You could say that this a perfect example of you "Showing off to the lads on here to look sexually cool, and to diminish women, by referring to them as sexual beings only" You have absolutely proved my point. Well done!
Sarahdunners wrote: » Because women also suffer hugely from this current attitude of men. Every woman that I know, including myself has been raped. I do not agree that men have a more urgent physical urge. I think that they have more disrespect for women, and more lack of empathy for women. Right now. But this can change. And it is important to have conversations about it. I can have a physical urge. I don't think "it is my right for this physical urge to be satisfied and some one else must do it right now". Men have got to get more respect for women
Reviews and Books Galore wrote: » Hmmmm, is it? You'd be suprised.
Sarahdunners wrote: » I do not agree that men have a more urgent physical urge. I think that they have more disrespect for women, and more lack of empathy for women. Right now. n
Jesus effing Christ wrote: » Tell about the time you've been most horny
IAMAMORON wrote: » Pure trolling.... please stop.
