Signore Fancy Pants wrote: » It's almost as if by some freak of nature that a baby just went from being 1 week old and BAM, woke up the next day as a clueless 15 year old. With no guidance from parents, friends or peers, the baby must learn to understand the world through the internet. That, or its like a real life version of the film Coneheads.
Patrick2010 wrote: » I think any further post on this topic would be superfluous after Tacitus's well thought out comment which has shed such clarity on the subject.
Mad_maxx wrote: » Most men are not attractive to most women, a majority of women are attractive enough to most men Women are picker.
Reviews and Books Galore wrote: » It's a shame that male fashion has kind of died out lately. Now, we're telling men to dress like women (smooth skin, tight clothes, so on so forth), but they should be showing their masculinity and not estrogen features so to speak.
Gynoid wrote: » Women are probably more cyclical in their sex drive than men, with the ovulation period naturally spiking desire, and then a crazy few days of extra horniness pre menstruation which does not really make sense at all..
Raconteuse wrote: » :eek: I'd get up on a gust of wind! I would not like to feel that way all the time when single, which young men it seems do.
Gynoid wrote: » During that few days pre menstruation you mean? It is desperate !
Sarahdunners wrote: » No, women are not as desperate for sex: it is a simple case supply and demand. How could I possibly be desperate for something, when it is so easily available to me. If I go to a nightclub - Many men ask me to go home with them. I logged onto a dating app for one day toa ee what it was like, and I had 100 men asking me for sex over the course of two days. Do men not know that this happens to women? That we are constantly bombarded by men looking for sex. So, when I have so many men asking me for sex - I am only going to choose the best for me. But I could also be totally happy going without sex tor a long while. I am happy with myself. The real question is why are men so absolutely desperate for sex? Are men so unhappy in themselves, that they can only feel worth something, when they are in a woman, when they accepted by a woman? They never seem to be happy by themselves. It says alot about the self esteem of men.
Sarahdunners wrote: » I think that men are desperate for sex due to these reasons in today's society: 1) They are told by other men that their worth is directly linked to how many women they have had sex with. So there is sex shame and pressure from their friends. My male friend is a teacher - he teaches male teenagers. He said that even he is bored of all their sex talk. It is constantly "who had it the most" , and showing off. And lies, due to the peer pressure from each other. 2) very Low self esteem in men, so they only feel good about themselves when they have been sexually accepted by women. 3) Porn gives men a very skewed sense of sexuality. It is very domineering, aggressive and violent. 4) In Ireland - men have been taught for a long time that women are worth less than them, are there to serve them, and are "just for sex". I remember a man in Dublin saying this to me, that he was taught that women were "just for sex". This all adds up to bad attitudes from men to women. This society needs to change
ArchXStanton wrote: » Men are coming from a scarcity mentality, and like you've admitted women come from an abundance mentality, this has actually been exasperated through the likes of Tinder and online dating were it's like window shopping for them, we're nearly reverting back to a tournament mating system,. I'd also say that society has women conditioned to see themselves as the prize whether it's valentines day, a man having to get down on one knee and propose or through social media were they seek validation and attention from posting selfies, additionally they can give themselves an extra 2-3 points on the attractiveness scale through make up, heels, fake this and that etc.
Reviews and Books Galore wrote: » That is absolute cadswollop.
Gynoid wrote: » This. Oh my goodness many modern male fashions seem designed to hide all evidence of the presence of testosterone. And I really can hardly believe there are still people who froth so freely about how the Church ruined every bit of libido in Ireland up until about 15 minutes ago. Weird. Truly weird. Women are probably more cyclical in their sex drive than men, with the ovulation period naturally spiking desire, and then a crazy few days of extra horniness pre menstruation which does not really make sense at all...well, except as some kind of raw existential scream for life from the engorged womb before it relentlessly sheds. Ahhh, glad to get that off my heaving bosom....
Reviews and Books Galore wrote: » Must be strange to get validation from people you see as more dog like :P
Sarahdunners wrote: » I have just pointed out that my male friend works with male teenagers, and he spoke about this to me. Are you saying hat he is wrong? Would you like to contribute something other than the word "codswallop". Who still uses that word in nearly 2020!
Reviews and Books Galore wrote: » Yeah, I'm sure he does. Tbh, your coming across as very, very young. Give it time.