frag420 wrote: » Get up at 4am, all the super rich folks do it! Not sure what they do after that but it seems to work!
MondayBlues wrote: » Do you like having your Monday to Friday controlled or even weekends controlled by your employer dictating your life? Ever be in bed on a Monday morning absolutely wrecked and contemplate what you are doing with your life and absolutely dreading get out of the bed when all you want it a lie in after a hard weekend on the beer. Do you find that life is slowly drifting you by having to work and not enough hours in the day to do the things that you like to do.
listermint wrote: » Your either happy in yourself, or your not. The money in your pocket won't change that. There's plenty of young very unhappy wealthy people in the cemetery that can attest to that.
Hector Savage wrote: » Bollix, I hate that **** "Money doesn't bring you happiness" Such bull****, It clearly does!!
Beta Ray Bill wrote: » If getting rich was easy, everyone would do it. Even if it were difficult and complicated, but there was a list of instructions on what you needed to, everyone would be doing it. You hear these super rich people go on about how they were so smart and how the made their own luck and and how they made themselves from nothing and how they could do it all again... But the truth of it is, it's just luck. You can influence the odds and stuff but ultimately it is down to luck. Things like John interviews you for your Dream job instead of the usual interview Paul, and John doesn't like you but Paul would have and as a result you don't get the job. Someone decides there isnt budget for that training course you really need, but if you were employed last year you'd have got it. Little changes like that, that are completely out your control can end up having a huge impact on your life. I've a good job and make a good bit of cash, but I've been lucky this time round. There are plenty of people doing my job that are earning less.
Greyfox wrote: » Yeah its usually people who have plenty of money who say it cant bring happiness.. these people are muppets
Beta Ray Bill wrote: » If getting rich was easy, everyone would do it. Even if it were difficult and complicated, but there was a list of instructions on what you needed to, everyone would be doing it. You hear these super rich people go on about how they were so smart and how the made their own luck and and how they made themselves from nothing and how they could do it all again...But the truth of it is, it's just luck. You can influence the odds and stuff but ultimately it is down to luck. Things like John interviews you for your Dream job instead of the usual interview Paul, and John doesn't like you but Paul would have and as a result you don't get the job. Someone decides there isnt budget for that training course you really need, but if you were employed last year you'd have got it. Little changes like that, that are completely out your control can end up having a huge impact on your life. I've a good job and make a good bit of cash, but I've been lucky this time round. There are plenty of people doing my job that are earning less.
Mad_maxx wrote: » It's not just luck, i had the chance to be rich several years ago but made the wrong choice, now im just reasonably comfortable Successful people make a lot more right choices than wrong ones
blackwhite wrote: » TBH - this always seems like a cop-out to me. If you don't work hard, and put yourself in the position to succeed, then "good luck" alone isn't going to make you rich (unless you do the Lotto). You put the hard yards in so when/if an opportunity comes around (luck as some like to call it) you are able to capitalise on it. There's a saying thrown around by golfers a lot; "The more I practice, the luckier I get." That applies in many aspects of life
Beta Ray Bill wrote: » Not really. As I said you can "influence the odds" Which is basically what putting your head down to study or work hard or practice is. But just because you do those things doesn't mean you'll achieve what you set out to achieve. I know plenty or smart clever people (As I'm sure you do) that have worked their ballix off their whole lives to try and get ahead only for their luck to run out. I myself am victim of this. I'm 36, at this stage in my life I should have had my mortgage about 66% cleared, a nice car not older than 5 years, a nice bike and 2 or 3 holidays a year. But something that happened 2 years ago f**ked all that in the bin on me. Something that was out of my control and once it occurred I was unable to fix. lucked out! Anyway now I'm trying to rebuild, I have a good job, but it will take approx 5/7 years to recover financially
Beta Ray Bill wrote: » If getting rich was easy, everyone would do it.
But the truth of it is, it's just luck. You can influence the odds and stuff but ultimately it is down to luck. Things like John interviews you for your Dream job instead of the usual interview Paul, and John doesn't like you but Paul would have and as a result you don't get the job.
Beta Ray Bill wrote: » Money doesn't solve all your issues and instantly makes you happy. If you won the lotto this week you'd be delighted, after a year though the novelty would wear off. If you gave up your job you'd be bored out of your mind after a couple of years. However the money would mean you could do more meaningful things with your life. (IE to help society) And this would give you happiness.
blackwhite wrote: » That's very different to your original "It's all down to luck" Luck alone won't bring success - just as hard work alone won't either. Denigrating the value of hard work and effort in contributing to success is an utter falsehood - and that's what I took issue with in your original post.
Kassandra Black Bamboo wrote: » Staying fit and healthy isn't all that difficult — don't eat more calories than you burn and do moderate exercise a few times a week. And yet 70 percent of Irish men are overweight. You say that if it were easy, everyone would do it, but that just isn't the case. Many people will fail at endeavors that require even a small amount of effort or dedication.
Kassandra Black Bamboo wrote: » Increasingly, research shows that resilience is a key aspect of success.
Greyfox wrote: » It's insulting to normal people when a rich person says money doesnt make you happy as it solves most problems and lots of money makes life 100 times easier.
Greyfox wrote: » IF your wise with money it can make you very happy. Yes there are some things like people you care about not accepting who you are or family tragedys that cant be avoided but money covers most issues. You could invest the money in your health, making new friends or looking after your family that will lead you been happier.
Greyfox wrote: » You can also pay people to do all the day to day things you find tedious like housework. Sure if you have kids you can pay someone to do all the work and you just do the few fun bits.
Greyfox wrote: » If I won the lotto I would never have to work again and this alone would make life miles better for me just as long as I continue to appreciate how lucky I am. I would NEVER get bored and there's too many films, books, games, tv shows, songs, documentaries etc to get stuck into. Also with lots of money you never run out of new places to visit, new hobbies or new friends to make.
Capital being more richly rewarded than Labour
MrAbyss wrote: » Easy. Rent, and do not get on the property ladder. Don't get married and if you want to, then tell your woman that a cheap civil service and no lavish reception is all she is getting. Do not have kids. Live in an area you can use public transport and not have a big car payment and running costs eating you alive. SAVE THIS MONEY - put half into the stock market and continue to do the 9 to 5 job. Watch your disposable income grow and suddenly you'll have loads of money that your moron friends 'doing the whole wedding, settling down, kids, mortgage thing' OUT OF PEER PRESSURE do not have. I discovered all this by observing the Homosexual Fiscal Model. Don't marry some bitch or knock her up! This is key to financial success.