S.G.M. wrote: » Try online dating in the North West of the country where we are forgotten about. Add all the normal issues to a severe lack of people.
gwalk wrote: You have internet down there??
billyhead wrote: » Folks, What would you consider the best dating site (payed or otherwise) apart from Tinder.
Hithere246 wrote: » There are several types on internet dating.. people who want to hook up (dick pic within 3 messages), people who will never settle cos they're addicted to messaging 10 different people at a time, and those who are genuine and want to meet someone genuine. I'm sure there are more categories if anyone cares to enlighten me. What I do notice over a year on is that it's the same people still on the same sites
Elessar wrote: I did meet my last girlfriend thanks to Tinder (not Irish which might be a factor) when I wasn't even looking for a relationship and she was the real deal. Beautiful, smart, kind, loving, considerate, fun and she was such a breath of fresh air. We stayed together for 2.5 years and even lived together. I never would have met her if it wasn't for Tinder. It didn't work out in the end but I realise now what I lost - god I'd marry her now if I had the chance! Point is, there are genuine amazing people on it. I had been on countless dates before I met her. It's a numbers game really!
S.G.M. wrote: » I'm actually sad now after reading that. Thanks Elessar.
voldejoie wrote: » I've been sick of the dating apps for years, but it's very hard to meet people without them. I'm a lesbian and the pool is very, very small to begin with. Every time I get fed up with the apps and delete them, I realise they really are the option in terms of meeting people, the best of a bad lot
Feisar wrote: » Mate of mine is a lesbian, says that the pool is really tiny and apps are the only way to go.
Church on Tuesday wrote: A. A woman
S.G.M. wrote: » Nope. A dude looking for the same as you.
skittles8710 wrote: » Genuine question - do people find POF better than Tinder ? I found alot of the same people were on both
NewMan1982 wrote: » skittles8710 wrote: » Genuine question - do people find POF better than Tinder ? I found alot of the same people were on both I’m on tinder, bumble and POF. I think bumble is possibly the best. Women have to message first so it saves all the ignored messages being sent out. I probably have had more tinder dates though. POF I can’t seem to attract any decent looking women on. It’s without a doubt the app I get the worst results on.
skittles8710 wrote: » Probably my own hang up but not a fan of bumble and the ball always being in my court . But sure each to their own !
NewMan1982 wrote: » skittles8710 wrote: » Probably my own hang up but not a fan of bumble and the ball always being in my court . But sure each to their own ! All you have to do is say hello. I don’t think the first message is really gonna matter if the other person finds you physically attractive.
NewMan1982 wrote: » POF I can’t seem to attract any decent looking women on. It’s without a doubt the app I get the worst results on.
skittles8710 wrote: » If someone messaged me with just hello I'd think they couldn't be arsed. If you match on any app you obviously find each other physically attractive , otherwise you wouldn't have swiped that way. An opening message should give some kind of idea of your personality
Raconteuse wrote: » Can only imagine the reaction a woman would get if she posted this.
NewMan1982 wrote: » Why? What’s wrong with honesty?
Raconteuse wrote: » Oh I'm not saying there's anything wrong with what you said. It's just that these threads are always full of posts about how picky women are, and that men aren't fussy.