noubliezjamais wrote: » Not planning on committing a crime any time soon but I was wondering how debilitating it is? I hear conflicting stories. Some lads I know say their friends were convicted of things like theft, underage sex, spent time in jail or got a suspended sentence and although their "getting by", have decent jobs in construction though it was very hard. Other people in particular family say that you might as give up on life cause your entire future is ruined. Impossible to get a job, get references for housing, visas to the States etc... What's the truth?