ToddyDoody wrote: » I guess I meant when was sex socially acceptable to be overtly visible in Catholic Ireland.
Filmer Paradise wrote: » Been around forever Buddy. That's why there's Billions of us around. I was born at the end of the '60s. Sex in Ireland was alive & well back then. Families of 10 plus were common enough at the time. Anyway, one thing I remember from the '70s/'80s was the way our Dads wore suits to any occasion. Most Dads back then weren't desk monkeys. They worked in 'real man jobs' that involved manual work. Nonetheless, they wore suits a lot. Mass every Sunday, family visits, all funerals, anything where there wasn't a danger of getting dirty. I hardly ever wear one, maybe half a dozen times a year. Clothes are cheaper now I suppose & there's an awful lot of smart/casual gear on offer now that our Dads just couldn't afford or know about back then. 50 years ago it was either old worn out working clothes or a suit.
ToddyDoody wrote: » When did sex become mainstream?
freshpopcorn wrote: » When Charlie Haughey met Terry Keane!
JupiterKid wrote: » necessities like food on the table or a second pair of shoes. .
yesto24 wrote: » I could be wrong, but wasn't there something about not reporting suicides as it was found that reporting them as suicides led to an increase in suicides. Pretty sure personal tragedy doesn't go on the death certificate.
AndrewJRenko wrote: » Would you expect the local station master to make a judgement on the spot as to the cause of a particular death?
NewbridgeIR wrote: » Not much changed then. Every suicide on Irish Rail's lines is disgracefully described as a "personal tragedy" or "incident".
bullpost wrote: » where are you getting your statistics from? From Alcohol Ireland website : "Alcohol consumption in Ireland almost trebled over four decades between 1960 (4.9 litres) and 2001 (14.3 litres)."
cgcsb wrote: » All the things you have mentioned also existed then in just as large/larger proportions but it wasn't spoken of. IF someone killed themselves back then, quite common, it was recorded as 'an accident' and not spoken of again
Hotblack Desiato wrote: » There you have it, both your parents had pretty secure jobs, whatever about being well-paid there was always a steady income coming into the house For a lot of people it wasn't like that, at all. Your earlier statement "I firmly believe that most people from Dublin have better memories" is true for some, definitely wrong for many, true for most? very debatable. Dublin in the 70s/80s had some of the worst deprivation in Western Europe. Other parts of Dublin were quite well off, of course.
freshpopcorn wrote: » JupiterKid wrote: » It was only about 1991 or 1992 when johnnies could be sold in pub toilet vending machines. Virgin Megastore in Dublin got into trouble for selling them around 1989 or so. This country really was unbelievably backwards just a generation ago. We have since come a long, long way... Sorry for asking you this JuipterKid but I thought you might know/remember. What was it like just before they decriminlised homosexuality? What were the debates like? Was it supported? Don't answer if you don't want to.
JupiterKid wrote: » It was only about 1991 or 1992 when johnnies could be sold in pub toilet vending machines. Virgin Megastore in Dublin got into trouble for selling them around 1989 or so. This country really was unbelievably backwards just a generation ago. We have since come a long, long way...
cgcsb wrote: » https://www.drugsandalcohol.ie/5263/1/1255-1014_National_Alcohol_Policy.pdf When you pick out two extreme data points yeah, conversely you could say it hasn't really changed that much. in 1978 it was about 10L per person and in 2017 it was 10.6L per person Graph is on page 14. I'd say, although avg consumption has remained the same, the number of out and out alcos is smaller. Less people drinking more etc. There weren't any tee totalers in 1978.
Mena Mitty wrote: » Back in the day we stepped out in nothing less than a pair of 'Dingo' jeans...they were the job, but you hoped it wouldn't rain ' cause you'd have blue legs, underwear and other 'bits' of you, from the dye.
Ash.J.Williams wrote: » Don't get your wranglers in a twist
cgcsb wrote: » All the things you have mentioned also existed then in just as large/larger proportions but it wasn't spoken of. IF someone killed themselves back then, quite common, it was recorded as 'an accident' and not spoken of again. Alcoholism was more common and extreme then than now.
conorhal wrote: » I look around today at the levels of unhappiness, anxiety and isolation in the country. The numbers of people on anti-depressants (which seems like half the population), the number of children in need of treatment for accute psychological problems. The degree to which as a society, we are self medicating ourselves into an early grave with alcohol and drugs. The degree to which people ar killing themselves and each other in ever greater numbers, even children raping killing other children, and I don't for a second believe that things today are 'better' by any metric bar economic. Even there the hours people are working keep getting longer as their job security diminishes along with the quality time they get to spend with family.
cgcsb wrote: » I'm not saying current times aren't sh!te, I'm saying back then was worse.
ThomasFlynn wrote: » Guys I asked this question a few pages back so I'll just ask again, would you rather be a kid in todays world or keep your childhood of the 80s/90s?