qwerty13 wrote: » Figure out what connected you two online, and repeat in person. Ask more questions about stuff you two discussed online. Don’t be too intense on your first date. Not sure if you’ve told her about your personal problems. If you haven’t, a first date is too soon to bring that up. If you have, don’t go into every detail of it. On a superficial level, have fun and enjoy the date. On a deeper level - make it reasonably obvious if you are genuinely enjoying yourself with her, ie don’t let her go away thinking you just thought if was ok / grand / platonic if you want more. I'm just going to try relax and be myself. The best of luck! I hope the date goes well
Yellow pack crisps wrote: » You can’t plan these things. Both of your will be nervous at the beginning and that can be a nice thing. You have already built a platform through chatting for over a month. Just be yourself, listen to her and go from there. Don’t build up the first date as the be all and end of things, Be a gentleman and keep things positive. Eye contact and not eyeballing. You don’t have to tell your life story and hopefully after the initial awkwardness things should flow more smoothly after a little while. Don’t worry about flirting or touching, these things come naturally if they are meant too. Have no expectations other than meeting someone who you might be interested in. Best of luck
worded wrote: » Tell her you have to be back by 10 as it’s lights out then or they won’t let you out again Or Tell her you have an industrial sized barrel of Nutella back at her place and you were wondering .... give a wink General tip .... If you are a guy duct tape your thingy around your leg Incase you get excited That’s it ....best of luck
RCK1 wrote: » What about the dunnes own brand or just the actual stuff?��
Tomw86 wrote: » Leg???? Surely you mean ankle OP - Just be yourself, listen and make conversation about what you know about her and shared interests. Once you've been honest with her then it will flow easily. Don't ask her about a 2nd date until this one is done. Essentially don't put her on the spot about it. If you want to kiss her, ask her can you but the moment has to be right. Be a gentleman and make sure she gets home ok after. Just some tips I think all women appreciate.
joeguevara wrote: » Firstly you cannot get advice on flirting. Each interaction is different and what works in one will bomb in another. Also location is important. You say you are going for drinks. Does she drink or what type of pub does she like and also important you. An activity is good. Something like a comedy club. Laughing is such an aphrodisiac. I also read from your op that people say you are ultra nice. I think sometimes that is a back handed compliment. Be yourself. She obviously like chatting if you have been doing so for a month and a half. Don’t look back and rehash conversations. Don’t mention a next date until the next day at least. There have been hundreds of threads here where a next date was agreed immediately and then never happened. Don’t be afraid to give a kiss goodnight. Be a gentleman but if you think the mood is right then have confidence. Hope it is a great night.
Nikki Sixx wrote: » Women don’t like too nice, so don’t act that way. Too nice/ too polite can be creepy. They might feel like a fly in a spider’s web.
blue note wrote: » If you're hoping for the dinner date to turn into a breakfast one if you know what I mean (sex), then make sure to have your room messy, bed unmade, old underpants on, etc. I don't know why this works, but you never end up scoring on the nights when the room is set up for minimum embarrassment. I think it's a form of karma payment, that to get what you want you have to pay in embarrassment. I know people will think I'm joking, but I was single for a while and any time I cleaned my room before a night out I ended up just doing it for myself. Those nights I didn't have time and still had a monstor munches share packet on my pillow were the ones I got lucky.
RCK1 wrote: » Thanks for the above. Yes I was getting hung up on flirting/saying the right thing but it will just let it come naturally as it does depend on the situation/person. More relaxed and confident now about the whole thing now . Location wise I choose it already but checked the type of place she likes and she does drink so that's grand. Will do something different if I get a second one. I won't ask for a second date until after but may make a vague reference when saying goodbye to show I want to.
