This is not another dole/forever home bashing thread so just want to nail my colours to the mast so to speak.
I've been on the dole three times in my life, I'm in my 50's btw, and each time couldn't get off it fast enough. I also grew up in a council flat so I wasn't born with a silver spoon........
Anyway watched Primetime tonight and they did a segment on the housing crisis and the HAP scheme. A young lady was interviewed and I just couldn't get over the sense of entitlement and total lack of responsibility for your own circumstances and those of your kids.
1. She said I can't live with me ma, we don't get on. So because of this family tiff the state must now fund 2 homes, assuming the ma is also in social housing.
2. She was offered a 2 bed apartment on HAP but would've had to pay €125 a month herself. She couldn't afford this. I mean €30 a week for a 2 bed apartment! Can she not get a job while her child is in daycare? 3 hours a week at min wage......rent sorted.
3. Second apartment she viewed was fully covered by HAP but she was worried about the bills. I'm not sure what this means, maybe expecting govt to pay this as well.
4. Didn't want to be on HAP as well the home wouldn't be hers. Let me tell you honey it's only yours when YOU buy it.
5. Where was the kids dad. No responsibility here either.
Nobody asks the tough questions like:
Do you have any responsibility for this situation?
What have you done to try to patch things up with your ma?
Do you work?
Have you ever worked?
Why not? I know the answer to this one. It starts with the phrase I have some "complex needs".
Sorry for the rant. Feel a lot better now.

Nite nite.