5starpool wrote: » An hour and 20 mins to get ready to leave the house seems very excessive, especially when there is no children involved. Take less time in the shower in the morning or fussing with your hair or whatever it is, stay in bed until 5.30 and it'll help.
Colten Dazzling Smugness wrote: » But I find by 7pm-8pm, I am literally ready for bed. I've tried to busy myself after work and give myself things to do so I can go to bed at a reasonable hour instead of just passing out.
Colten Dazzling Smugness wrote: » That's the thing. I've set my alarm for half 5 before and I ended up sleeping in and being late. I know it's extremely early to wake up. I roll out of the bed around 25 past 5 after my alarm goes off so Im not immediately out of the bed as soon as the alarm goes off but still
iamwhoiam wrote: » My daughter did that shift for a few years . She was up and out and a child droppped to me and on her way and it took 35 minutes ! What is taking you an hour and half ?
Colten Dazzling Smugness wrote: » Honestly I don't even know. I think it's more a fear of being late for work than anything else. I get up and get ready, 10 mins tops, then have breakfast and then I'm finding I'm pottering around. I honestly sound like a right gob****e now.
5starpool wrote: » That's a little different. I don't think it is necessarily the hour you are getting up at, it is just the lack of quality sleep. I was a night owl most of my life until recently when I had no choice but to have to wake up between 6 and 6.30 most days, much as I'd prefer not to (damn kid not cooperating though). Reconciling yourself to be in bed by 10 or so, and asleep by 10.30 would allow you to get a better night sleep. If you aren't sleeping well that is the cause of the difficulty. Maybe in the summer when it is bright at that time it might be easier to get up?
el Fenomeno wrote: » The simple solution is you need to do more with your evenings, preferably something active. You've slipped into a bad routine of waking up, going to work, coming home and wasting your evenings until it's time for bed. You have 5-6 hours every evening that you are wasting. That's 25-30 hours a week. There is so much you could do with this time. My recommendation is start going to the gym or doing some form of physical activity, and you'll see a change. Doesn't have to be every evening, but it's the easiest (and most guilt-free) way of releasing endorphins and picking yourself up from the slump you're in. First couple of attempts to go will be the hardest, because you've adapted to a pretty sedentary/inactive lifestyle. Do the above and you'll find yourself in a better mood, with more energy, you'll sleep better and you'll have a better outlook on things. I know from experience, I was in a similar slump to yourself.
Agricola wrote: » Never got this idea of showering in the morning, especially if you have to be up at 5/6am. For me anyway, it would necessitate getting up around 15/20 minutes earlier. Try showering the night before, then you just have to jump into your clothes, eat a light breakfast and be out the door in 20 minutes, half hour tops.
Colten Dazzling Smugness wrote: » You would think I had a reason to get up really early but its like its drilled into me that Ive to get up early or I'll be late. If annoys me. It annoys people around me as well because I'm so tired I don't even want to interact half the time or haven't the energy to speak and then I come off as rude. I'm moodier and cranky.
Colten Dazzling Smugness wrote: » By a wash I mean, wash my face and brush my teeth. That sort of morning routine. I shower the night before. I can't stand showers first thing in the morning. I think I might just set my alarm for half 5 and see how I get on. I really don't want to give up that shift as it is a nice one to work on
GreeBo wrote: » You are probably up 2 hours before people who dont do an early shift or have a massive commute, so of course you are going to be going to be 2 hours before these people also. Most people if they are up at 7 are going to be around 10, you are up at 5 and so go to be around 8...I dont see what the issue is (other than your poor morning routine, have your breakfast in work with your "wind down" time)
sbsquarepants wrote: » I wouldn't have the foggiest idea what to do with an extra hour and ten minutes.
Sky King wrote: » You could have a shower anyway....
Sorollory wrote: » Procrasturbation is a prime cause of tardiness.