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What do you find attractive?

BilboBagOfCans

Don't think I've seen a thread like this here but mods please move if not!
My friends and I were talking about those little things you notice which make someone go from meh to something a bit more interesting.

What does it for you?
As a woman, I can't resist broad shoulders and a guy who can drive really well ðŸ˜³

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Triceratops Ballet

Bigbagofcans wrote: »

Kylie Jenner is now a billionaire as a result of her surgeries. Naïve girls and women are going out buying her lipsticks thinking they'll give them a pout like hers. It's sad really.

Girls or Women who follow Kylie and buy her products know full well it's fillers she uses, they follow her ffs and she talks openly about it! (granted she didn't at first but she has since copped to it) If the randos on the "what do you find attractive" thread on boards.ie know she's had fillers of course the people who subscribe to her social media know :rolleyes:

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"Desperate, cheap and skanky" are a hell of a lot more of a moral value judgement than "that looks bad/ridiculous".

But seeing as honesty is kinder and you're only looking out for them, you have of course been so brutally honest with people in your life who are into that? Or are you just being kind to celebrities who don't know you exist by slagging off their appearance on the internet?

Paddy Cow

Bigbagofcans wrote: »

Kylie Jenner is now a billionaire as a result of her surgeries. Na girls and women are going out buying her lipsticks thinking they'll give them a pout like hers. It's sad really.

She is probably a millionaire but she is nowhere near billionaire status. Kris Jenner threw that out there but would't provide any evidence. Kris needs a good slap. All that surgery has aged Kylie. She's only turned 21 but looks way older.

Bigbagofcans

Paddy Cow wrote: »

If this continues we'll have teenagers doing the same. Oh wait....Kylie Jenner.

Kylie Jenner is now a billionaire as a result of her surgeries. Naïve girls and women are going out buying her lipsticks thinking they'll give them a pout like hers. It's sad really.

Paddy Cow

Deleted User wrote: »

Us women need to be kinder to each other

Women need to stop injecting fillers into their lips/cheeks and doing that silly pouting thinking it makes them look sexy. It doesn't and there is no kind way to say that. Well, the kindest I can come up with is that they look absolutely ridiculous. You have very attractive women who ruin their looks and yes, they do end up looking cheap and desperate and coupled with heavy "glam" makeup, they scream skanky, rather than sexy.

Have you seen the state of yer one in Little Mix? Tulisa ruined herself. Cheryl looked like a really bad lookalike in her new video but seems to have had them dissolved. And they're doing that younger and younger. Cosmetic enhancements used to be for middle age but now we have early 20's injecting every sort of sh!te into their face. This is one of those cases where honesty is more important than kindness and they need to be told that they are making themselves look worse, not better. If this continues we'll have teenagers doing the same. Oh wait....Kylie Jenner.

take everything

Women that are quiet, reserved, confident, funny.
Dark hair, usually.
Curvy or athletic I don't really mind.
Beautiful but not in any conventional, cookie-cutter, modern sense of what's beautiful. Which paradoxically means a lot more woman than the likes of Kim Kardashian etc.

But personality is very important.
Someone who is confident in themselves and not trying to fix a man or other horse****e like that. And none of that Beyonce independent woman rubbish either. Real confidence I mean.

Preferably someone who eschews social media completely and can see through the ****e that women get told every day of their lives.

Someone who isn't into makeup or jewellery (for some reason I can't help seeing that as another insecurity for women, sorry).

And a woman who can laugh at herself is very attractive.

Edit: kindness, thoughtfulness as mentioned above.

Essentially, I would say the antithesis of Kim Kardashian.

Boom_Bap

I wouldn't be able to pinpoint what I find attractive, it could be anything really. Everyone has different qualities that heighten other qualities about them. I wouldn't be able to say that I have a type or anything like that.

sbsquarepants

I only mourn the loss of one of the 2 though:D

Floppybits

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Couldn't agree more.

Only thing is you spelled pubs wrong:D

pubes/pubs all the same, disappearing fast.

sbsquarepants

Floppybits wrote: »

Love redheads and women who have pubes.

Couldn't agree more.

Only thing is you spelled pubs wrong:D

Floppybits

I like women with great legs and arse, love women who look good in yoga pants or jeggings or what ever they are called. I guess because I am into sports and keeping fit I like women who are into sports, don't mind getting sweaty. Love redheads and women who have pubes.

[Deleted User]

Paddy Cow wrote: »

They think they look sexy and sultry with all that pouting but really they just look like desperate, cheap skanks.

Us women need to be kinder to each other

NSAman

Sense of humour, a good heart, a good mind.

Someone who isn’t psycho.

DaverageJoe

Pretty face, happy\positive attitude, smart and kind.

Pretty face. Nice eyes and nice smile, who isn't attracted to that?. I've met all types of women of varying ages and body types. But if they're pretty I'm generally attracted.

Happy\Positive. I don't like being around miserable or moany people, it sucks the life out of me. People who just go about their lives in a positive way, no drama, no arguing, no complaining, just making the best of things and trying enjoy life are like little rays of sunshine and I want to be in the sunshine!

Smart. Everyone probably says smart in the context of what they'd like in a partner but it's quite attractive when you meet someone who you know is switched on. There's probably an ego thing in that in terms of you see yourself as smart so it validates that when a smart person want's to be in your company. But life is about learning and growing and the prospect of having someone smart to talk with and plan and experience life is very appealing.

And kindness. Probably sounds cliche but actual genuinely kind people aren't very common in my experience. I don't mean someone who's nice, friendly, likes puppies and wouldn't hurt a fly. I mean people for whom being considerate, helpful and generous are actually part of who they are instead of people who view those things as extra effort that detract from their ability to be happy and that to be that way is to be taken advantage of.

Grayson

I was on a dating site last night and I thought about this thread. i don't think i have a type. I can't name anything that I'm specifically attracted to. It's more like I have list of things that annoy me. So for example when i see a profile where every photo has a snapchat filter, that's a huge turn off.

I tend to like funny, smart women. Niceness is very important. They have to be a very genuine, very nice person.

Paddy Cow

completedit wrote: »

One type I'm not attracted to is the hunzo hyper sexual look, some girls can pull it off but they still wouldn't be my type. Most of them are just hideous looking though, lip fillers or whatever they do, it looks manky.

They think they look sexy and sultry with all that pouting but really they just look like desperate, cheap skanks.

Triceratops Ballet

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Jaysus, I must be either getting old or forgetting how to speak English (probably an age thing:D) I have to keep looking shít up to know what people are talking about - what in the holy name of fúck is the hunzo hyper sexual look?

I *think* it might be the Kim K vibe? ultra made up, super tight clothes etc, am only guessing though

[Deleted User]

sbsquarepants wrote: »

Jaysus, I must be either getting old or forgetting how to speak English (probably an age thing:D) I have to keep looking shít up to know what people are talking about - what in the holy name of fúck is the hunzo hyper sexual look?

I was wondering the same myself

sbsquarepants

completedit wrote: »

One type I'm not attracted to is the hunzo hyper sexual look.

Jaysus, I must be either getting old or forgetting how to speak English (probably an age thing:D) I have to keep looking shít up to know what people are talking about - what in the holy name of fúck is the hunzo hyper sexual look?

Sirius Boner

Marleigh Tangy Memo wrote: »

The thread is titled 'What do you find attractive?' and I answered the question from a looks point of view. What's with the attitude? I answered what I find attractive looks wise, if you don't like the answer cos it doesn't align with your view, why are you bothering reading the thread?

Because yours is just one opinion, and perhaps she's interested in all the other posters views?
Dunno about your looks... but your post isn't very attractive

omb0wyn5ehpij9

Succubus_ wrote: »

Well it depends on how much "effort" you require.

The thread is titled 'What do you find attractive?' and I answered the question from a looks point of view. What's with the attitude? I answered what I find attractive looks wise, if you don't like the answer cos it doesn't align with your view, why are you bothering reading the thread?

omb0wyn5ehpij9

Pyr0 wrote: »

I'd be taking about a woman who wouldn't be seen dead without their makeup and hair perfect, the best clothes and accessories, hundreds of selfies, it'd be the more extreme end of putting effort into appearances.

I'd agree with you on that. The extreme end of the scale is very off putting

Pyr0

Marleigh Tangy Memo wrote: »

The above type of women is one that I would find very attractive! I love a woman who looks after herself, keeps herself fit, and puts an effort into her appearance (without being vain!)

I'd be taking about a woman who wouldn't be seen dead without their makeup and hair perfect, the best clothes and accessories, hundreds of selfies, it'd be the more extreme end of putting effort into appearances.

Ariadne

Marleigh Tangy Memo wrote: »

There's a big difference between being dolled up, and putting some effort into your appearance.

Well it depends on how much "effort" you require.

omb0wyn5ehpij9

Succubus_ wrote: »

I'm so glad that my missus thinks I'm beautiful whether I'm dressed up or in my pyjamas. I wouldn't be able for that kind of pressure to be dolled up all the time.

There's a big difference between being dolled up, and putting some effort into your appearance.

Ariadne

I'm so glad that my missus thinks I'm beautiful whether I'm dressed up or in my pyjamas. I wouldn't be able for that kind of pressure to be dolled up all the time.

omb0wyn5ehpij9

Pyr0 wrote: »

Really 'glam' women, always seen with immaculate hair and makeup with accessories to boot and guaranteed to be dressed up to the nines going on a night out anywhere, it's too much.

The above type of women is one that I would find very attractive! I love a woman who looks after herself, keeps herself fit, and puts an effort into her appearance (without being vain!)

Pyr0

Short, curvy girls with dark features - Eyes, hair with a nice makeup style that compliments their looks

I love a sense of humour and i'm a sucker for women who are great with kids.

There are a lot of things i don't like about women that can instantly turn me off, it's easier to think of those!

Festival 'chics' who 'live for music' are usually bints who glitter themselves up for the latest popular festival looking for a few stylish pics.

Popular travel knobs, the type you'll find in the usual places like Machu Pichu, Thai elephant 'sanctuaries', petting drugged up tigers or by the pool in a mega hotel in Spain/Vegas.

Really 'glam' women, always seen with immaculate hair and makeup with accessories to boot and guaranteed to be dressed up to the nines going on a night out anywhere, it's too much.

i'll stop it there!

Jrop

I love a man with
Brown Eyes
Glasses
Freckles
Personality wise
Kind, funny and not sports obsessed

yourdeadwright

completedit wrote: »

Most peoples types, at least on here are very generic tbh. Type isn't as on the nose as brown hair and big tits.

Your type is clearly not conventional stunners, that maybe because you never attracted them, maybe because of the movies and shows you watched and felt more affinity for the quirky girl next door type, who knows. But how do you know the girls you find that have 'that something' are not conventionally beautiful? Maybe that's just your perspective.

No no your wrong there,

I to find some conventional stunners attractive I just don't limit it to just that,

I'm more saying I don't have a type , when it comes to looks but not saying I fancy anyone they need that "thing"

Without sounding like trying to talk myself up my missus "in her day" would be considered a conventional attractive girl, Dark hair ,dark skin ,good body and I find her extremely attractive but I would never limit myself to a certain appearance of type of girl ,

Way to many ladies who are extremely attractive for all different reason and I put it down to the spark you get ,

It's like only liking one dessert your missing out on so much ,:D